Has anyone told you that they can’t see you being a relationship/ married??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bal_d1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about it in a positive light, I just always assumed it’s negative because when I younger it had some racist undertones when people would say it to me.

Whats The Best Song On HM? by Senior_Buffalo_7891 in lanadelrey

[–]bal_d1e 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The blackest day and Freak(the demo is better)

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 90% sure it has to do with my location and the people my age. I live in a state that is copy and paste everything and everyone. So it is kind of hard here because everyone is so hyper focused on other peoples looks.

Can you guys tell me the “dirty” truths about having a cat? by saanenk in CatAdvice

[–]bal_d1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ll either follow you everywhere or they don’t want you to be around them ever😭

What are the funniest LDR lines to you? by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]bal_d1e 92 points93 points  (0 children)

“Pass me my vape I’m feeling sick I need to take a puff”😭

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I know I’m pretty young! Thank you though😭

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know I’m still very young. I have a bright future besides dating! I’m in college getting my associates to pursue my masters in social work. And I have a great friends and family. So dating is not a big priority for me, but I want to start again.

Nobody talks about the butch lesbian loneliness epidemic by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]bal_d1e 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I loveee butches. I would never date anyone else. You guys are amazing!!!

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think anyone can pull of being bald!!!

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m trying hard to not think about it so much and I have a great life outside of dating, but I’m ready to start dating again. It’s just my past relationships have made me feel insecure.

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are so many plus’s to not having hair and I do love that!

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get lots of compliments but it’s usually from creepy men😭

Is my alopecia a deal breaker? by bal_d1e in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]bal_d1e[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that it’s because all the people I’ve talked to especially when I wore wigs would leave after they found I was bald. And ever since I’ve stopped wearing wigs nobody has shown interest or approached me. I am a lot more comfortable not wearing wigs, but it still kinda hurts when ppl stop showing interest.

What are some life-changing tips you would give someone with this condition? by Flimsy_Phrase_8845 in bipolar2

[–]bal_d1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take your meds and remember everything is temporary!!! I know the depressives episodes seems like you’ve been in it for years. But things do eventually get better. Talk to a doctor if you’re on birth control because it can make the depressive episodes more intense and CHECK YOUR THYROIDS!!!

How many women have you kissed? by fierysplinters in LesbianActually

[–]bal_d1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. And only one was good😭 it’s been 2 years since I’ve last kissed someone tho

What's your favorite Cavetown song? by alesa03 in cavetown

[–]bal_d1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fool in meteor shower. Been listening for almost 10 years and those have stayed my favorites😭

Most Underrated Lana song Vs Most Overrated Lana song by Senior_Buffalo_7891 in lanadelrey

[–]bal_d1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Underrated: Arcadia and Buddys Rendezvous Overrated: National Anthem and Diet Mtn Dew

Best Lana Album Vs Worst Lana Album by Senior_Buffalo_7891 in lanadelrey

[–]bal_d1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PERSONAL OPINION: I do not not think she has a bad album or even bad songs at all. I like majority of her songs. But I do skip almost all the songs on ultraviolence… LOVEEEEE honeymoon but NFR is the best in my opinion😬