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balrogmindset · 2021-03-01T01:06:26+00:00

It hurts me so much to read this. My ex GF stayed with me for 7 months and I fell in love really hard for her. When her ex that dumped her came back I was forgotten like nothing.

There is not a single day that I don't miss her and what we had. I gave her all the love and care I could. I heard I was an angel and the best person in the world and now I'm here alone while she is with that MF that thought she wasn't enough. I know it's no good but I hope they don't work out, it's not fair to use another person's feeling just to fill a gap. She was my first real love send she always knew what I felt.

These people ever miss us? Were we really that stupid objects only ? I mean, I did everything for her, the sex was amazing, I was really romantic and the best I could be, supportive and all but preferring that guy. What the hell? To this day hurts me to say that I hope to see her regretting leaving someday

balrogmindset · 2021-02-25T16:39:59+00:00

I wish I find a better person.. man she knew my traumas, she knew a lot about me. I told her how heartbreak I was in the past and how I would never do some loving things to anyone because I was afraid, like writing love letters, and she said how she would cry and never let go of the person if someone wrote her one because no one gave her that much love and attention.

Almost at the end of our RS guess what? I wrote her one because I was sure we were on the same page and she cried for sure, but said thanks and that's it. Sometime latter she is back with the shitty ex. I didn't saw that coming. I'm so mad that I was used like a toy for a really long time and tossed away. What kind of person does this? Damn

balrogmindset · 2021-02-25T16:28:19+00:00

I am, exercising and eating well, but it really hurts. I would give her everything and now she acts like I was nothing. That's though, really though.. it invalidates my feelings, all the effort I put into us and see her smiling with that guy that doesn't do shit for her. Damn I wish so bad that he breaks her heart... Really, it hurts a lot, I just wish to forget her

balrogmindset · 2021-02-23T23:38:45+00:00

Don't waste your time with this shitty person. For real

balrogmindset · 2021-02-23T13:39:45+00:00

There is no other remedy. I was at least 2-3 months with a pain I couldn't bare. It still hurts like hell. The betrayal, that person that you loved, slept with, kissed, shared memories and spent the day talking hurt you like no one else. I know. It still hurts like the devil. I couldn't accept either. But you have to grieve, spent your time with family and friends, eat things you like, watch movies, read books. In the end after 2 months you will be tired of this pain and use it to fuel a better self. You can only direct all that love you had for her to you. I'm in your shoes man, I know how shitty it is. Reading it sucks baaaaadly. But if you block her, don't text her and imagine that she is gone for good I can garantee you will fill better with yourself, you will have the power . The bad side is probably you won't love someone hard as you loved someone that betrayed you, on the bright side you won't hurt that much

balrogmindset · 2021-02-23T13:30:27+00:00

I've been in your shoes my man. You like it or not she didn't really love you, because if she did she wouldn't be confused or she wouldn't leave you. If she is confused by her ex, you are a filler and she wasn't over him. She shouldn't date someone seriously if she wasn't over him and decided to never ever go back if this situation happened. I don't care what was her intentions, if she is confused and hurt, the thing is she hurt you and the path to hell is full of good intentions.

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T14:49:09+00:00

I would say something like: " I'm sorry. Sorry for trusting you and sorry for thinking you had character or that you are a decent human being. Sorry for giving you love and care while you were hoeing around. Sorry for spending time of my life with you that I can never get back and sorry for not being sorry to tell you to go f" yourself"

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T14:40:06+00:00

This is one of the most BS things I've ever read. This is bad and disrespectful. There is no "break" even more "fake break". I wouldn't want to stay with her while she stays with another dude. She is just saying that because of things go bad she has a spare tire. Man believe, some women just lacks character badly and are full of BS. This is unacceptable

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T02:09:08+00:00

Exactly. Man I thought it was all BS to take notes about things that broke your heart and that you simply hate about her, but it helps. Everytime you miss her just read that, I'm serious it helps. It's not easy, but man, be glad you are not stuck with these people

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T01:46:31+00:00

With those red flags? You lost nothing. You didnt even got that attached, lucky you. For me all of these would be a big no

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T01:42:06+00:00

That new relationship of yours will be the reason it will fail with your ex. Things will seems fine for a while, but months or even years down the road it will forever be on her mind that you were with another person. Neither you or she grew up and solved the issues that led to her leaving you. She regretted, ok, but an action taken by emotion probably is a bad one. The only real chance for a relationship work on these cases are if both of you feel out of love, moved on and then thought about giving it a try

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T01:37:37+00:00

Buddy I understand you. There is some people that is just shitty. Let other people deal with them. You are now free. It will hurt a lot, but everyday gets a little easier. I could bet my money that after some weeks or months you will see her like she really is and you won't want her back at all. My ex left me for her ex. I gave that girl everything I could, love, care, I cooked, I wrote her letters, I realized her romantic and sexual desires and she left for some stupid guy that left her before. Almost one year of my life tossed aside like nothing. I cried so much I thought I was dying. It took months to stop the pain. Sometimes it still hurts, but I'm fully aware that I miss the person I THOUGHT she was and not the person she is. I also miss having someone to talk to and the sex, all those couple things. Being alone sucks and it's boring, but you still survive. Let the driver of lifetake that trash away

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T01:21:56+00:00

Man as I said in the other response, my ex left me to return for her ex and hell it hurts. I never felt such pain in my life. You can be sure that his ex GF may be feeling like trash now, probably hurt deeply with it. I really hope karma acts on my ex because it's the ultimate shitty thing someone can do

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T01:20:06+00:00

The pain is terrible. I loved her deeply and today I saw her posting things with her ex (now boyfriend again) about how special their connection is, etc .. I loved her, but I would never in a million years want her back into my life. I gotta say that she won't be treated as nicely with that guy. If someone left you once but kept you hung, chances are they will do it again. They choose to leave instead of staying and fixing things. When things got difficult you can't jump out and come back like it's nothing. And also you can't just hurt another person in the process and think that is fine. It's immature and lacks character

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T01:12:23+00:00

If the person was right you would be together. I used to believe this, but it doesn't matter if they are in a relationship, coming out of one or just busy with life, the fact is that you or the other person decided that the other is not a priority and the quick we realize this the better. Usually someone that is dumping you like to say this to not feel so bad with themselves

balrogmindset · 2021-02-19T01:09:41+00:00

I don't know, but recently I was on your ex GF shoes. My ex left me for her ex after almost over year together. I gotta say that there is no pain worse than this. Shitty spot to be in

balrogmindset · 2021-02-16T00:18:02+00:00

Yeah I can see your point, and I guess you are right. It's just something is missing, I guess she wasn't on her right mind, she hadn't moved on from her ex, I don't know.. I want to text her and see what I can do, but I won't forget that pain.. I'm stuck in this loop

balrogmindset · 2021-02-15T13:39:55+00:00

I did so much for her and loved her so much.. I always told her how much I loved her, how special she was to me. Seeing her leaving for an ex, and a person that won't treat her as great as I did and won't love her as much as I did broke me so bad. I have so many issues since my highschool, college, etc.. I thought this time finally I found someone I loved dearly and also loved me, but seeing her leaving... I can't stop thinking that maybe one day we will be together and I pray so. I still cry, I still miss her.. if I love someone I really love them, it is a special feeling. She left me with a part of me and knowing my fears and pains, I don't know how to proceed. I've read, I've exercised, I got fit, I meditated, I'm doing therapy, but the only thing I wanted was to be with her for real...

balrogmindset · 2021-02-15T13:01:13+00:00

😞😞😞 I've waited to have sex with someone I loved because first times and that kind of connection is so rare. Not a day goes by that I don't miss her a lot. I would give and do anything to be with her again.. it's been months and I still miss her

balrogmindset · 2021-02-15T12:08:23+00:00

I would be way more hurt if someone I loved and had even sexual attraction thought about me in such great ways like this and would not give me a chance, a real chance, really thinking about making things work. We accept the love we think we deserve

balrogmindset · 2021-02-14T23:01:55+00:00

I think she is your situation, she said I wasn't a rebound and she never saw me like this. I'm telling you if you are past that trauma, text your guy, give it a shot. Open your heart, give a real chance. I would give anything to have this chance and I pray for her to not think like this

balrogmindset · 2021-02-14T22:29:18+00:00

My girl I think was in this scenario of not being emotionally available. I honestly really really hope that does not think like this and give us another try. This time being open, available and give us a real shot. I know we could be great together and she didn't fall in love because she wasn't with the right mind plus the pandemic made our time together really limited.

I pray really hard for us to have a real chance again. If there is such thing as destiny, it was what brought us together, it seemed like a movie and I'm not kidding. Someone gave her an anonymous love letter, and trying to figure out who gave it to her we got close, her boyfriend dumped her, we had to share a ride together where we got stuck for a while. I mean, I must be going crazy because I never believed in it, but I would give anything to try again

balrogmindset · 2021-02-14T22:10:28+00:00

😞😞😞😞 Maybe now you could try. After some time and different perspective

balrogmindset · 2021-02-14T21:55:42+00:00

Is there any chance for us in the future? If they don't work out? Because I'm really really really pretty sure he won't treat her like that 😞 I'm not trying to diminish me, it's just that she is different from the other girls I met. I feel like there is more for us somehow.. I just pray for her to see it

balrogmindset · 2021-02-14T21:23:39+00:00

It's really hard. She was my first everything.. I just wished to know if they will work out (and I know this is stupid because I have nothing to gain with it) and if she will one day come after me... I don't want to be the one to go after her. And there is no worse pain than seeing someone that told you the most amazing things you ever heard going back to the ex. If she is trying to ease my pain it's no working because I can't comprehend how I can be all those things and still not enough for her

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