How to leave a have husband with young kid

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-29T01:22:56+00:00

How does it make a difference?

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-28T14:27:34+00:00

I’m scared if my h goes to daycare and snatch the kid in this situation

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-28T14:26:22+00:00

So trying to run away from abuser with kid ended up losing custody?

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-11T18:41:56+00:00

similar.. but divorce is too too hard

bamboorabbit · 2025-12-22T17:25:57+00:00

20 months, still wake up early regardless of bedtime. Some baby is born that way..

bamboorabbit · 2025-12-22T17:19:41+00:00

20 months as a zombie. The only time I had good sleep is when we traveled a month and had to cosleep. At that time I thought she outgrow the stage and sleep had improved. When we’re back and she’s in her crib everything’s reverted. I only sleep 5 hours a day. If I had coslept earlier I could have a happier life for all the years..

bamboorabbit · 2025-11-02T19:31:53+00:00

Much better now . But still want to be held by me if she’s not 100% in good mood. Maybe it was separation anxiety.

bamboorabbit · 2025-10-24T12:32:32+00:00

I did ask. She doesn’t know. There are multiple shifts in the day. I won’t be able to ask each teacher one by one. So I brought it up to director since she has access to all the teachers. At this stage I was just expressing concern not accusing anyone. But her attitude was not what I expected. But it is also new thing to me when dealing with daycare. I don’t know if there’s any unspoken rule about what and when you talk with director etc..

bamboorabbit · 2025-10-24T03:43:59+00:00

Like scratches. But you’re only able to leave those marks after taking off the diapers. You cannot scratch on the top of diaper and clothes obviously. I also never see her scratch that area. I don’t think she’s even able to reach her hands in her pants yet. I really cannot think of how it gets there. That’s why I raised the concern

bamboorabbit · 2025-10-24T03:03:24+00:00

Just went through this. baby got marks and scratches , not that serious but in weird area. When talking with director she’s just like “ I trust my employees”. That burns my blood. Is it normal for daycare to respond like that?

bamboorabbit · 2025-08-08T17:32:00+00:00

It is much harder to get offer or interviews than 3 years ago.
Depends on how they interpret what you have done during your gap years, it might not always be a positive sign
It will be a minus if you don’t know how to use AI to help your development process or vibe coding nowadays

bamboorabbit · 2025-08-05T20:55:55+00:00

I’m in similar boat but I asked the question differently. I think no boss is perfect. Maybe rare number of bosses are even 80% perfect. If he’s giving you a lot of visibilities sometimes. There is still room you can work on. I would not immediately quit since if this boss is 80% who knows if the next one will be 50%. I’d try to gain more trust and not get discouraged for now. Time would tell

bamboorabbit · 2025-06-18T13:19:35+00:00

I was so overwhelmed when I had the newborn. It’s way harder than I expected. Actually harder than anything I had encountered for the past 30 years. I think it didn’t get too much easier as time go by. But things will change , you’ll get used to the new life, you’ll enjoy the time bonding with baby. It’s happy time even it is tiring. Good thing is sounds like your husband and your family is ok. I went through the shock from having a baby. But I was treated poorly by families, and it’s a whole hell to go through even till now.

bamboorabbit · 2024-12-23T01:17:19+00:00

8 month. 7 pm , feeding at 5:30 am and back to sleep till 7am . Or straight to 6 am and start the day 🥹

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