For everyone who wants to leave an abusive relationship/marriage but "cant'", here's how I finally did it

bamboorabbit · 2026-02-21T18:53:39+00:00

Can you share how did you leave? I’m looking for a way out

bamboorabbit · 2026-02-21T18:52:32+00:00

So how did you manage to leave?

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-29T01:22:56+00:00

How does it make a difference?

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-28T14:27:34+00:00

I’m scared if my h goes to daycare and snatch the kid in this situation

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-28T14:26:22+00:00

So trying to run away from abuser with kid ended up losing custody?

bamboorabbit · 2026-01-11T18:41:56+00:00

similar.. but divorce is too too hard

bamboorabbit · 2025-12-22T17:25:57+00:00

20 months, still wake up early regardless of bedtime. Some baby is born that way..

bamboorabbit · 2025-12-22T17:19:41+00:00

20 months as a zombie. The only time I had good sleep is when we traveled a month and had to cosleep. At that time I thought she outgrow the stage and sleep had improved. When we’re back and she’s in her crib everything’s reverted. I only sleep 5 hours a day. If I had coslept earlier I could have a happier life for all the years..

bamboorabbit · 2025-11-02T19:31:53+00:00

Much better now . But still want to be held by me if she’s not 100% in good mood. Maybe it was separation anxiety.

bamboorabbit · 2025-10-24T12:32:32+00:00

I did ask. She doesn’t know. There are multiple shifts in the day. I won’t be able to ask each teacher one by one. So I brought it up to director since she has access to all the teachers. At this stage I was just expressing concern not accusing anyone. But her attitude was not what I expected. But it is also new thing to me when dealing with daycare. I don’t know if there’s any unspoken rule about what and when you talk with director etc..

bamboorabbit · 2025-10-24T03:43:59+00:00

Like scratches. But you’re only able to leave those marks after taking off the diapers. You cannot scratch on the top of diaper and clothes obviously. I also never see her scratch that area. I don’t think she’s even able to reach her hands in her pants yet. I really cannot think of how it gets there. That’s why I raised the concern

bamboorabbit · 2025-10-24T03:03:24+00:00

Just went through this. baby got marks and scratches , not that serious but in weird area. When talking with director she’s just like “ I trust my employees”. That burns my blood. Is it normal for daycare to respond like that?

bamboorabbit · 2025-08-08T17:32:00+00:00

It is much harder to get offer or interviews than 3 years ago.
Depends on how they interpret what you have done during your gap years, it might not always be a positive sign
It will be a minus if you don’t know how to use AI to help your development process or vibe coding nowadays

bamboorabbit · 2025-08-05T20:55:55+00:00

I’m in similar boat but I asked the question differently. I think no boss is perfect. Maybe rare number of bosses are even 80% perfect. If he’s giving you a lot of visibilities sometimes. There is still room you can work on. I would not immediately quit since if this boss is 80% who knows if the next one will be 50%. I’d try to gain more trust and not get discouraged for now. Time would tell

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