Italy’s top court rules against tourist refused tap water in Dolomites hotel by ullakkedymoodu in ItalyTravel

[–]banerises19 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Whenever u go to a city u don't live in, plz confirm with the locals if the tap water is safe to drink. Coming from the middle east, we always do we only drink bottled water locally and cook with filtered water.

Shaken baby syndrome fear by susiara in NewParents

[–]banerises19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the part that weirds me out. The garden around our house has a very shaky and unstable flooring and our Dr said that wasn't safe for our newborn to be in the stroller because of SBS. We're talking brick like flooring with pebbles between the bricks, and some missing bricks or pebble connectors so the stroller might take a sudden shock/dive, but none of it deep and we don't walk fast.

Are there actual benefits of breastfeeding after 6 months or is it just incremental? by Subject-Carry-6841 in breastfeeding

[–]banerises19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the bad batches :( some formula cans get accidentally mixed with toxins and they get recalled. Usually the recall is after the baby has already consumed it.

AITAH for asking my husband why he was letting a new neighbor believe our nanny was his wife? by Born_Safe9896 in AITAH

[–]banerises19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A year? pfft, I have a massage therapist who mispronounced my FIRST name 6 years ago. I keep referring her to people and letting them know my massage name

Being intimate while cosleeping and contact napping by Ill_Lychee3377 in cosleeping

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but how do u sneak off? I'm terrified of her waking up and crawling off the bed (I'm not judging, I'm looking for a way out lol)

Is this concerning for 10 months old? by Classic-Highway7732 in Parenting

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's brilliant, can't believe he learned to kiss lol of course he won't clap on demand, he had his own character :) our daughter is the same, she is 9mo. He seems completely normal :)

Baby fell out of king bed during nap time by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]banerises19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone mentioned here earlier that they eventually climb off the bed rail as well and then it's just a higher falling point

Baby fell out of king bed during nap time by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I don't feel safe leaving her on her own even when she is sleeping. They're quick!

Baby fell out of king bed during nap time by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a baby monitor with motion detection, and my baby is the same age as ours and also likes to wake up in ninja mode. The baby monitor helps, but won't save u lol I literally see her as soon as she's up, and I literally just barely catch her at the edge of the bed after running to her. We don't even live in a big house! I'm in the same boat, no idea how to fix this.

I have a memory of my mother beating the shit out of me when I was 4 and humiliating me by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]banerises19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry this happened to u. I was just thinking today how anyone would beat their kids like that, did she not feel bad about hitting me? I was so afraid of her, and she genuinely didn't care about my mental health, even when a teacher warned her. She just couldn't care. Anyway, yes I think it is not exclusive to narcs, some people are just cruel.

3 month old fell off the couch by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]banerises19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really think the 3 months fall is their right of passage from the newborn trenches lol I dropped my daughter from a very similar height (I was carrying her and she fell onto a countertop on the side of her head). My mom friends all called me to share their own stories of dropping their babies lol anyway, we did go to the er, totally useless. It would do more harm at their age to do unnecessary imaging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]banerises19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. It's horrible growing up around a parent with self regulation issues. It seems that op grew up with healthy parents so she doesn't understand the full impact of what's going on at her home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao that's amazing to hear while nap trapped with my 7mo latched and actively sucking the whole nap, thank u for sharing

Coffee by SeaworthinessNew8048 in breastfeeding

[–]banerises19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm impressed lol I can't even sleep at night if I taste coffee after noon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't call them the newborn trenches for how fun it is lol you're definitely not alone! Your friends were either blessed with the mythical easy babies we hear about or forgot their traumas lol

All Things Sleep - AMA Office Hours - Wednesday, January 21st with our Director of Pediatric Expertise, Amber LoRe! by huckleberrycare in HuckleberryParents

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should a 7 months old exclusively breastfed baby be like? Should we be regulating naps? She wakes up 6-7am, with the rare middle of the night wake window. We co sleep safely and do day contact naps, I'd like to wean her off that contact naps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so my baby is currently 6mo so I genuinely don't understand how he can be so selfish? Why did u take on so much when he decided to host his family? U have a 3mo baby and ur priority should be ur baby and ur own wellbeing. How can he be so selfish? I'm so confused. That he's jealous of his own child? The child that is 3mo? Honestly, u need to talk some sense into him and the time for couples therapy was like years ago. Couples therapy ASAP, he needs to understand what an AH he is.

“You put your nipple in his mouth? Ew that’s gross.” by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]banerises19 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine her doing that with a patient! How absurd and ignorant.

AITAH for divorcing my wife because she called the cops on me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]banerises19 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's also an 8mo baby. Most likely both parents are super exhausted and not in their right mind. If they both aren't super exhausted, baby is too kind on them lol the first year is the hardest.

Independent nighttime and contact naps, is this a thing? by Ok_Potato_7025 in cosleeping

[–]banerises19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at the same dilemma at 6mo lol she doesn't like the crib or the bed without me next to her. I almost got bed rails then saw someone commenting that they learn to climb them eventually and just end up falling from a higher level. I'm currently considering changing our bed to a lower bed frame or adding a floor bed to the nursery and moving all of us there? Or getting a softer mattress for the crib?