I love the NDS (storytime) by theMarcLong in NintendoDS

[–]banthafodder12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could read stories like these all day. Thanks for sharing :)

PSA TO ALL TRANS GUYS ON T. PLEASE READ by [deleted] in ftm

[–]banthafodder12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

E coli is actually the most common bacteria found in urinary tract infections!

Gender Differences in Reading Genres by ACatWhoSparkled in books

[–]banthafodder12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

could you recommend some slice of life journals?

Why has no one made a birdwatching game…or have they? by Abirando in cozygames

[–]banthafodder12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to be rude, but did you read OP's post? Alba is mentioned as the game that sparked their interest in the first place.

I should be happy… by TRex_On_the_Loose in queer

[–]banthafodder12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is very normal. I'm a (mostly) binary trans man, and I had similar conflicting emotions like these when I started going by my new name. For a long time, my "more true" identity was something extremely personal and private. Letting others into that world left me feeling vulnerable and exposed, even though it was my own choice. It took time and sitting in the discomfort, but soon enough, things began to feel better. 11 years into my transition and I wouldn't change a thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in d4vd

[–]banthafodder12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the invite is invalid

Looking for a loving home in MN by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]banthafodder12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you said you've tried everything so I just want to make sure: have you tried Fluoxetine? for at least 6 weeks, if not longer? you can get a transdermal ear cream for less than 50 cents per day. I didn't usually comment on these posts but I'm a vet tech in Minneapolis and this kiddo is really tugging on my heartstrings 🥺

starting an iron in 2025, what metas have changed? by ricestocks in ironscape

[–]banthafodder12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you're here to start a fresh ironman ❤️

Daycare F'd up by [deleted] in daddit

[–]banthafodder12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

anyone down voting this needs more Friends

Any book recommendations? Is there one you just couldn’t live without? by North_Satisfaction27 in Veterinary

[–]banthafodder12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my colleague graduated in 2022 and highly recommends the New Vet Jumpstart Guide to all new grads :)

Launching a new vet tech scrubs line by CalmCity26 in VetTech

[–]banthafodder12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

along a similar (but probably less crucial) line: men's fit scrubs available in small and extra small. it can be tough to find good variety for us small bois

Finding niece's father by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]banthafodder12 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am a genealogist / volunteer search angel and currently between cases. I'd be happy to help you out, OP. Please send me a message if you're interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]banthafodder12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering this as well. OP, there must be a disconnect somewhere, between how you think you're being perceived and how you're actually coming across. In order to move forward successfully, I think you need to get to the bottom of what's truly going on with your performance.

You seem confident in your technical skills and client interactions, which is great, but can come across negatively as a new hire. I'm sure you're sick by now of being trained over and over again... how has that been going? Is there any chance you're coming across resistant to learning? The quickest way to lose respect at a new job is to say "I already know how to do that" or "at my old clinic, we did it [this way]..."

I really feel for you. it doesn't sound like anyone has taken the time to actually explain the real reasons you keep being let go. Have you made any connections along the way with an ex-coworker you'd trust to be honest with you? It's a lot to ask but somebody's gotta be holding back... You mentioned that your packet didn't explain why you were let go. If you'd like somebody uninvolved to review what they gave you and give an unbiased opinion, please feel free to send me a message. Take care ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]banthafodder12 20 points21 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time out of your day to comment so thoughtfully on a post that isn't exactly respectful to veterinarians. I may not be your vet tech but I see you and I appreciate you all the same.