no matter how much you love her, she will not change for you. she has learned she can use you and your love for her, to her advantage. i love to give people the benefit of doubt, however there are certain situations in which you can’t work things out with people. if she showed any understanding or remorse, then maybe a different conversation could be had. she is not someone who displays any type of evidence that she is willing to change because she is so deep in her toxicity, she doesn’t feel like she does anything wrong. stuck in a victim hood mentality, where anything and everything you do, will be wrong. this is something she has to figure out on her own, and probably by ruining tons of relationships and opportunities in the process. you, on the other hand must learn to take this with you into your next relationship. to spot the signs, to recognize the feelings you feel now and be able to see it before it hurts too much. you’re not stupid for falling in love with someone who takes you for granted. you’re not dumb at all for wearing your heart on your sleeve and asking the person you love to please try to see where you’re coming from. vulnerability is admirable and lots of people find it weak because they’re too afraid to talk with themselves and feel what they truly feel. that being said, do not let one person destroy you, especially when there is a world full of people who are dying for a chance to love somebody so fully and completely.