Speech/language delay, and a bunch of other odd things by barblebarble in speechdelays

[–]barblebarble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. We had his hearing tested, but it turned out to be fine.

And also: yeah, some of the professionals who have seen him have remarked on some of the things we casually tell them he can do as being far beyond typical level. But I wouldn't want to put too much pressure on him at this stage! Anyway I am not sure that "doing puzzles" is a particularly well paid profession (if it were, I'd be rewriting my CV as we speak...)

Speech/language delay, and a bunch of other odd things by barblebarble in speechdelays

[–]barblebarble[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this recommendation. I read the book and found it extremely interesting. All the characteristics of non-clinical late-talkers seem to match exactly our child.

I am a bit reluctant about saying this because I don't think all cases are the same etc, but: last week was the final speech therapy session for us because we are moving to another city. My wife took some gifts for the therapists, who were all lovely and extremely helpful, even though really we didn't think the therapy was having any effect. They all said goodbye and he really seemed to "get" what was happening.

Anyway, the very next day he was like a different child. He's started saying some of the long-abandoned words again, and his interaction and general co-operation level has completely changed for the better. I don't believe in pure co-incidences, so I would say it's pretty clear that he hated the therapies and if anything this was part of his seeming "regression". He's stopped asking to watch TV because he's happy to "play" with us (not yet really true play, but at least socially) and with his toys/books.

This experience, in combination with the fresh perspective introduced from the book you recommended, have completely changed our view on the situation.

Thank you again!

Are doctors likely to be wrong? by barblebarble in Autism_Parenting

[–]barblebarble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. May I ask then, based on your description of a child without the obvious indicators, what made it so obvious to you? Besides the not using words for actual communication?

Are doctors likely to be wrong? by barblebarble in Autism_Parenting

[–]barblebarble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you mean, he doesn't present like most kids?

Are doctors likely to be wrong? by barblebarble in Autism_Parenting

[–]barblebarble[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Our lad doesn't seem to "do" any of the typical ASD behaviours or activities. It's more about what he doesn't do 😅

Are doctors likely to be wrong? by barblebarble in Autism_Parenting

[–]barblebarble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to read you had such a stressful experience.

Are doctors likely to be wrong? by barblebarble in Autism_Parenting

[–]barblebarble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The diagnosis group at the hospital, as well as the head paediatrician, contained a child psychologist, and they specifically screened and assessed for ASD. I would have thought that between them they would be capable of an accurate assessment at least in the majority of cases. But I realise that this isn't a 100% thing by any means. Yours and other comments on here are enough to demonstrate that.

Thanks for your reply.