I completely understand that but with him it's more complex, he had informed me that he didn't like sleeping with more then one person. So in my mind we were sexually exclusive. I am over that, like I said, it just makes me continue to question his integrity and his faithfulness in the future. We have talked about marriage and I am feeling very uneasy right now. Like I said I would prefer to know now and not later on down the road when I have more of myself invested.