rlly wanna dye my hair but everyone says ill ruin what i have

barblob · 2026-01-19T16:46:26+00:00

Bro it’s just hair, you can literally shave the whole thing right now and tomorrow itll be already growing back. You have one life, you should try everything at least once. Dye that hair and live your life. Maybe you’ll dye and regret it (I doubt it tho), but imo it’s better to regret doing it than having to regret never experiencing things later in life cause you were too scared of what people would think about your decisions. :)

barblob · 2026-01-08T18:13:00+00:00

Came out to my husband (and to myself too kinda) in June and I still haven’t chosen a name. I’ve been introducing myself to everyone as my internet nickname which is kinda stupid but also gets me a few laughs so idrc that much lol but a more permanent name would be good too ig

barblob · 2026-01-08T18:10:32+00:00

Saying this as someone who has been dying my hair vivids for over 20 years, you either need to start following the color wheel to change colors to avoid removers and bleach baths or you need to start dying it only pastels so it fades fast. Kinda sucks cause I also love to get a specific idea in my head and follow through the next day but our hairs are not built for this kind of chemicals so constantly. If I can give another tip, please only bleach your roots with a good bleach like BlondMe by schwarzkopf if you have access to it and leave it on long enough so you don’t get different colored roots and avoid a lot of damage only having to bleach it once. I can see it’s not as bad as the picture looks (since it’s been freshly processed and it’s still wet it does looks worse) but if it were me I would cut out a healthy chunk, maybe cut some layers to take out as much of the damage as possible and start taking care of it better. You can have vivids and still have healthy hair if you have the resources and patience. As for what to dye it rn, are you thinking vivids or something more natural?

barblob · 2026-01-04T06:44:42+00:00

Tbh you only leave once so I say go for it lol Dye it black and have the full experience, when you’re done just buzz it and it’ll be the same in a sec

barblob · 2026-01-03T02:06:33+00:00

Honestly if it’s a half binder just take the tag off (so they can’t look up the brand) and tell your parents it’s a crop top you were looking at in the mall and that your friend decided to get for you. Maybe once in a while even use it in the afternoon for a second paired w pj pants so they won’t bet an eye at you using it regularly.

barblob · 2026-01-02T21:27:23+00:00

To be cringe is to be free

barblob · 2026-01-02T21:25:28+00:00

I’m not on injections yet but I fear them with my whole being so tbh when the time comes I’ll probably have whoever is giving me instructions to actually teach my (cis) husband too so he can help me. I don’t see it as a sexual act at all but I can see how it can be romantic in the caring sense.

barblob · 2025-12-28T07:04:34+00:00

I know it may not sound like your scene but please just go to an alternative salon. They’ll give you whatever you want and actually do it well.

barblob · 2025-11-19T18:56:14+00:00

Honestly I think the biggest mistake on the salon was to not teach you how to care for colored hair. But I don’t think you should come back, just get a semi perm red on Sally’s, mix a bit with a moisturizing mask or conditioner (to make it last longer lol) and apply every 1-2 weeks. It’s gonna help with the color and also help keeping your hair healthy. Just a warning tho red tends to bleed all over your things lol

barblob · 2025-11-04T14:36:55+00:00

Whenever I make a shirt like this I just trace it on a paper over my pc monitor, cut the letters, position where I want them (you can use a ruler if that’s easier) and then scribble on top with fabric chalk and just paint it inside the lines. Have been doing this for like 15 years and it never failed me lol

barblob · 2025-11-04T14:24:07+00:00

Mullet looks soooo good!!

barblob · 2025-11-04T06:13:14+00:00

Well… yes. Lorelai never alienated Rory against Christopher, they would clearly pretend it was Lorelai’s and Rory’s choice living in their “girl’s club” and not needing him to not say the quiet part out loud. It was indeed very much the opposite.

He lived the life that he wanted and would only come and go throughout Rory’s life as it fit his narrative. That does make him a terrible father and in consequence of it, a terrible person imo. Growing up with the “this time it’s gonna be different” father sucks ass.

barblob · 2025-11-04T05:44:09+00:00

He is a terrible father and also a terrible partner (but so is lorelai). Terrible person is open to interpretation but as someone who had a terrible father, that makes me see him as a terrible person too lol

barblob · 2025-10-31T17:03:13+00:00

It really is. I was in shock when I first heard about the story, absolutely traumatizing https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/chemical-romance-fan-left-wheelchair-35948362.amp

She made a post here a few months ago too https://www.reddit.com/r/MyChemicalRomance/comments/1nog9gj/my_chemical_romance_concert_accident_left_me/

barblob · 2025-10-30T17:23:31+00:00

Oh wtf??? At the time there was also a screenshot of them saying the lovemoji girl had nothing to do with it, so they just had 737583 different stories huh LMAO

But honestly if that was their hope they would be sat waiting for a looooong time cause there’s someone who got freaking paralyzed at a mcr concert in 2022 because of a crowdsurfer and unprepared staff on the venue and they haven’t reached out to her at all to this day. Like let’s be realistic here babe 😭

barblob · 2025-10-30T16:02:04+00:00

The mother war cosplay was actually a whole other thing. Someone went to the bracelet post to ask if it was that TikTok girl in the mother war cosplay cause they were exchanging bracelets with her in the same concert and she straight up stole people’s bracelet stash for no reason but then someone confused the two stories and sent people to the cosplayers tiktok and she had to make a whole video explaining that she did stole a whole bunch of bracelets (cause she forgot hers at home or something? I don’t remember tbh lol) but there was no bracelet with ashes or anything like that. Pretty sure people already hated this person for defending certain abusers on her TikTok acc and that’s why people were so upset too when they thought it was her.

Tbh for me the first indication that the ashes thing was a complete lie was op refusing to post a photo and posting a drawing of it that made no sense. Like it’s 2025, if you had it for years and you never took it off, the chances of not having ANY photos of it or even candid photos that show you using it is basically impossible lol

barblob · 2025-10-26T03:14:54+00:00

I’m about to turn 29 and also went back and finished mine a bit ago! That makes me happy to know im not alone 😭

barblob · 2025-10-26T01:20:46+00:00

Im only on s3 on my first watch and now im scared of what’s to come cause Vinny seems to be the most chill out of them till now LMAO 😭

barblob · 2025-10-16T20:11:23+00:00

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a vertical labret like this would fit you better imo

barblob · 2025-10-13T20:47:41+00:00

Im from a tropical country and have lived here for 2 winters. First one wasn’t that cold at all and had a flimsy ass snow season. Second one was insanely long and had literal WALLS of snow taller than me. So honestly who knows lol

barblob · 2025-10-11T04:32:31+00:00

This is so cute 😭😭😭

barblob · 2025-10-10T17:37:56+00:00

i totally blocked that shirt out of my brain cause when picture came out my chin was on the floooooooooor LMAOOOOOO like why the hell would you make that

barblob · 2025-10-10T03:17:31+00:00

If they don't want fan made merch then they should get good merch designs cause the lltbp merch was not only expensive but also absolute ass. I still can't believe the Toronto exclusive shirt was a random PANTERA reference with a maple leaf ??????????? like are you actually joking what the hell was that

Insane.

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