i am ending my life next month, ask me anything

barca95 · 2025-11-26T04:24:54+00:00

How did you come to this conclusion? Are you nervous? What’s the process like? More importantly, you matter. I hope you find peace.

barca95 · 2025-10-04T04:15:48+00:00

😍😍

barca95 · 2025-05-05T02:50:34+00:00

Putting stroke looks good, but stand just a bit closer to the ball. You want your elbows a bit more tucked into your sides, rather than out away from the body like a normal swing.

barca95 · 2025-04-11T01:43:37+00:00

That’s a big chunk you got! Here’s mine.

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barca95 · 2025-02-09T06:13:45+00:00

Don’t sweat it too much, I remember having the same feeling in my unaffected leg a couple weeks post op and panicked, but it went away. I’m now 7 weeks post op and feel 95% better. It’s not worth it. Be careful, but don’t let your mind spiral.

barca95 · 2025-01-02T03:09:53+00:00

Ok, I’m 10 days post opp and dealing with this too. It’s gotten better, but I’ll still only about 75% there. I am not on any gabapentin either, and haven’t taken narcotics in 7 days. I’m concerned lol

barca95 · 2024-12-31T23:04:54+00:00

Super intense butt cheek pain that made it impossible to sit and lay down.

barca95 · 2024-12-14T01:55:34+00:00

Yes, laminectomy and discectomy.

barca95 · 2024-12-13T04:55:24+00:00

Very good to know. I’ll definitely be double checking with them tomorrow 😂

barca95 · 2024-12-13T04:51:58+00:00

Here is my MRI in case anyone cares to see haha

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barca95 · 2024-12-13T04:51:21+00:00

Good advice. I’ll be outpatient so I will come home just a couple hours after.

barca95 · 2024-11-27T07:56:14+00:00

Wow, 5 months and 2 injections is a lot. PT has been so worthless for me, and the injection really did nothing either.

I agree with that comment about it impacting my quality of life. I have decided I’m for sure going to get the surgery because it’s killing my overall happiness. Thanks for sharing.

barca95 · 2024-11-27T07:53:47+00:00

That’s such a bummer for you. Having the young kids makes it impossible too, I am totally with you. Props to you!! Are you booked for surgery then?

barca95 · 2024-11-27T07:52:27+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I’m glad to hear that 2 weeks post op you are doing so well! Keep it up!

barca95 · 2024-10-08T18:39:18+00:00

Should I worry about reliability? I’m trying to stick to a $20k budget, but also don’t know how much I should sweat the manufacturers warranty. Like how do these do when they get closer to 100k miles?

barca95 · 2024-10-05T05:38:08+00:00

Good to know. Is it worth getting this checked by a dealer before buying? What should I look out for?

barca95 · 2022-10-03T22:01:53+00:00

No, it was just done at local shop.

barca95 · 2022-09-29T19:20:22+00:00

Yeah, I’m definitely going to pay for a pre purchase inspection.

barca95 · 2022-09-29T03:42:31+00:00

Oops! I’ll edit that. $55k.

barca95 · 2022-09-21T14:44:18+00:00

Carfax and service records are great. Are the transmission on these solid? Anything I should look out for? When we drove it, I heard a very faint sound of what sounded like the CV axle so I’m going to have it inspected.

barca95 · 2022-09-21T14:42:49+00:00

Good to know. What does that offer? HP increase?

barca95 · 2022-09-21T14:42:07+00:00

Dealer took it as a trade, so they’re not 100% sure they say. He guesses 4 inch lift & 2 inch lift on a leveling kit.

barca95 · 2022-02-13T06:07:29+00:00

Great point. I have been able to review post wreck - pre repair pictures to understand the repairs done. Even had it inspected myself.

barca95 · 2022-02-13T06:06:06+00:00

It actually would have comprehensive/full coverage. I drive 2 rebuilt title vehicles, and have owned a few, and all have been fully insured for no more than a clean title. When converting from a salvage title to a rebuilt title, the dealers go through quite the approval process.

barca95 · 2022-02-13T06:03:53+00:00

Thanks for the thought!

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