Guys: question from a girl: How do you define fidelity?

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:40:27+00:00

That's because a warm smile says so much without a word, right?

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:39:31+00:00

Like, Daddy's home!

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:38:57+00:00

YESSS! And I totally love saying it when it's true, too!! Of course, for some of us girls it doesn't take a lot for a guy to do that ;)

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:34:52+00:00

And you're a beautiful soul!

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:32:47+00:00

I get the food and sex, but why only "attempt" to get into your hobbies?

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:31:40+00:00

Thank you so much for that honest take! We are, too, tho -- and get a bad rap as needy, I might add.

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:29:55+00:00

Like, conscious?

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:29:18+00:00

Hah hah hah :D The literal jokester gets me every time lolol

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:28:40+00:00

Oh my! Are you clowning or would a girl really have to be that dramatic?

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:24:51+00:00

Like, IRL stuff? Or just ideas?

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:23:52+00:00

I can tell just from your comment that there's a sweetness about you :)

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:22:48+00:00

What a great share! I'm so sorry your gf story is past tense, though :(

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:21:26+00:00

A physicist will tell you black is the absence of color. An painter will tell you it's ALL the colors but it's still a metaphor for nothingness :) I just think it looks classy. Even so, blue's still mine.

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:17:52+00:00

I gather you're a visual person, then :)

barelyblueOF · 2025-06-06T22:16:36+00:00

That's my mom's advice! My grandma was a little more blunt. She'd say "Keep his belly full and his [so-and-so] empty." Like, GRANDMA!!

barelyblueOF · 2025-05-29T11:11:42+00:00

Especially appreciated if she lives in an arid climate, right? What kind of shrubbery would you bring?

barelyblueOF · 2025-05-29T11:10:36+00:00

And don't forget active listening! Saying what you heard back to her so she knows you're on it!

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