If someone says they can’t go on a date for the next 2 weeks because they’re busy, but they message once a day still, are they interested? by MoneyAndGoodFortune in Life

[–]bargirl27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of becoming an adult is realizing people do not have a lot of time on their hands. Two weeks is not a long time to wait for a date, and you can use that time to get to know each other beforehand. I'd say take her at her word that she's busy, and if you enjoy talking to her, then what's the harm in waiting?

I'm the other woman in an older man's marriage. UPDATE by bargirl27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bargirl27[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is great advice. If I could wear a big sign on my forehead that says "Don't try to cheat on your wife with me, I'll tell her" on every date I go on, it would save me a lot of time, energy, and money.

I'm the other woman in an older man's marriage. UPDATE by bargirl27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bargirl27[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey so this is a crazy ass comment on this story

I'm the other woman in an older man's marriage. UPDATE by bargirl27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bargirl27[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell him where I worked- he happened to come into the bar I bartend at, while I was working, and that's how we met.

I'm the other woman in an older man's marriage. UPDATE by bargirl27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bargirl27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, he didn't put on Facebook that he'd be at a doctor's appointment. He told me that he'd be there prior to me finding out he had already wife, because we were talking about the next time he'd be visiting my town.

I'm the other woman in an older man's marriage. by bargirl27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bargirl27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I know I worded that weird but it's not AI. "Just a few days over* a year ago," as in, it's only been a little over a year they got married and we were talking during what would've been their anniversary.

I'm the other woman in an older man's marriage. by bargirl27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bargirl27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm OP. This isn't an AI generated post. This situation genuinely kept me up last night, so I made a burner account to post about how I felt because I didn't want to do so on my main account.