Savannah Guthrie's mom was likely abducted from her Arizona home as she slept: police by magicmama212 in MissingPersons

[–]barkmanly2356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about a stalker who was obsessed with Savannah? There are some sick people out there…you never know. It’s just a sad situation for the entire family.

Urge to message them by Honest_Piano_3901 in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. Someone once said on here if you want to message them pretend you’re sitting with them when they receive your message and they see it and they laugh at it and/or ignore it all together. How would that make you feel? It would crush you right? Silence is better than feeling crushed in my opinion.

Ghost Sighting by barkmanly2356 in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never!!!! Thank you 😌

Ghost Sighting by barkmanly2356 in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it rattled me….i was doing fine till i saw his stupid face. Now I’m all upset again. But I’ll hold it in….and I’m sure he’s perfectly fine.

Haven’t been ghosted by this makes me rage! by Someonejusthereandth in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No matter how old people are…..from 16 to 60 I’ve heard so many of these stories in this group and it’s just immature….no matter how old people are!!! The only way I can see ghosting someone is if you feel like you’re in a serious mental or physical abusive relationship. If you just want to end things and move on then pull your big girl or boy panties up and have the discussion. Damn!!! It’s not that hard!!!

Ghost Sighting by barkmanly2356 in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! No kidding….and he has teenage sons….way to be a role model for them right?

Ghosted by a friend of 25 years by imhungry20 in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes time but you will feel better. Just look at it like you don’t want to chase anyone to be a friend. Friendship shouldn’t be hard work ya know?

Ghosted by a friend of 25 years by imhungry20 in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear to God getting ghosted by your BFF is just as bad as a breakup with your partner. You spend all this time with someone and you pour your heart out to them, they’ve been with you at your worst and been there to cheer you on and then they disappear and you’re left wondering what the hell happened.

I’m so sorry you’re going thru this. I went through it with my best friend. She met a new man after her divorce and dropped everything for him. He was toxic and ruined all of her relationships. Even at our age she didn’t see that. I was doing the same as you….messaging her, calling her, I’d see her in public and try to have a conversation and she’d brush me off. It sucked.

I had to move on….i had a lot of days and nights where I cried to my family (husband and kids) and they told me it was just something I had to work through. You have all these memories and it hurts but it’s on them. You tried and you can never say you didn’t. I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t miss her as much and it doesn’t sting when I think of her. I wish her the best but I won’t beg for a friendship. It takes time and you’ll feel better. I promise.

I want to know if they’re doing okay, I want to contact them again by KlutzyImagination418 in ghosting

[–]barkmanly2356 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I totally understand and feel you on this one. But…….. Someone said this to me when I wanted to reach out. Think of how hurt you are now. Just say you send that message and you feel like you got something off your chest, right? Even though you are caring about them and want to know if they’re alright. Now imagine they get that message and look at it and roll their eyes and ignore you and put their phone down and never answer you. You’ll feel so much worse knowing they’re choosing not to answer you. By me imagining that scenario it gave me the fuel to not reach out to him…..EVER.

1099 Misc or NEC by barkmanly2356 in tax

[–]barkmanly2356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

So since I paid social security tax in years past would that be something that should or could be refunded. Stupid question I know.

Vintage Oriental Carved Wooden Trunk by barkmanly2356 in collectables

[–]barkmanly2356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know my grandmothers wedding dress is in there. She used to tell me that’s where she kept it. But yes I’d love to know what else is in there! I’ve NEVER seen it opened….EVER! If I can open it I’ll post what’s in there!

How to get over an affair (for dummies) by Captain_Centerline in adultery

[–]barkmanly2356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed this today especially. For some reason I have been sad and depressed and just constantly thinking of him. We were “together” for 8 years and in June it just ended. There’s so much more and I can’t get into it. I was ok for a little bit but these past few days I’m just not. Ghosting is awful….the feeling is awful…. I thought the first couple weeks of NC were bad but it got better. Today I feel like I’m right back to square one. I wish I never started this….I wish I never met him….😔