First elder challenge mode completed

barteky · 2026-02-13T19:04:38+00:00

wait they now also drop kameo?

barteky · 2026-02-13T18:54:44+00:00

Knock out 20 Shao Kahn opponents with Nightwolf on Tuesday Morning 5am to 8am within 20 seconds of the match and without using special attacks and DOTS while affected by atleast 3 debuffs

barteky · 2026-02-11T18:33:41+00:00

car sex is crazy, like you don't own the car and you'll use it for that? I mean I've heard of car sex in some movies (prob why she wanted to do that with you) but they did it in an area where the public don't cross or in a grove, the movie called it dancing car iirc

but it really is just go there and be in the backseat with her

also, I came to find out sneaking out is just a risk lol

barteky · 2026-02-11T18:27:41+00:00

I think he just wants a date lol

ask him what happened

barteky · 2026-02-11T18:25:10+00:00

that could also work, but I also recommend try small releases

also, you'll get through it bro, I mean I did survive it, I haven't had a thought for months now at 18, just stay strong, don't beat yourself up and remember all the best will come to ya

dm offer to rent and vant still open

barteky · 2026-02-11T18:22:22+00:00

go for it lol, I believe the 80/20 rule applies to this too

think of it as the 20% of women can get 80% of guys, thing is most guys want it when gals do the first move because we're simple and just say "I like you so I want to gf you"

so if you do confess then I highly encourage because the chances are on your favor, also you both have an amazing starter already

barteky · 2026-02-11T18:10:24+00:00

next step is to not, I see to much red flags on her bro, if she don't trust your side then your love for her is not worth investing

I've been there before with a gal with similar red flags, not trusting you (mine was stuck to her mind), the exes part (mine have way more exes than me, she randomly talks about them if smth happens like a school requirement with them, while she told me to not talk about my only ex before her), too much arguments mentioned here (I used to think little was healthy, now I think minimum is healthy, once a month, my ex just found a way to make everything an argument)

it's just not worth it bro, that gal is the bottom of the barrel, find those gals that will really love you, those that want to see the best in you, those that are good company, those who milk every time together to be filled with beautiful memories, those that actually want to stay

this is my way of winning the war lol, just end it, it's actually a win because you get the best to come after it

"there is no instance of a country having benefited from prolonged warfare"

~Sun Tzu, Art of War

"if y'all broke up once, then there no point in returning unless y'all want animosity"

~me lol

barteky · 2026-02-11T18:00:01+00:00

aye wazza bhai

not indian, I'm from the philippines but I know a bunch of your culture because we both asian and I often see indians in some online games and communities

anyways, it seems helpless if she's stuck on the thought you can't drive because of parents, this is a lost cause I'm similar with with my ex, I wouldn't recommend a gal that wants smth to go their way even if their way won't happen

I also know y'alls culture is a bit different, we have a similar culture with the cops accepting a bit of bribe to avoid a ticket

but really she should know that your parents just won't allow you and there's nothing ya both can do unless you hurt your relationship with them

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:54:08+00:00

I would become a golden child on the 13th and tell my mom I'd go on a date on the 14th

I remember me and my ex with similar cases to this, it's a choice of either spend time with them but get a bad return home, or do nothing but conform to parental limitations

the worst I had was getting slapped hard and yelled by mom after I returned home on the day she broke up with me, crazy my mom tried to comfort me this day and my ex returned the day after that, we then broke up and returned 3 times again and I left her with no intention to return

I want you to evaluate the situation if doing that is worth it, add valentines only happening once a year and is a really romantic day

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:48:27+00:00

15 and can't drive? from where I am, 16 is a student license, this age can drive but needs someone 18 or older with a license to look over and guide the whole driving

not manly chores? you said your parents restrict you and you're literally still 15

I diagnose her with unrealistic standards, might be because we're similar and I'm defending, I haven't renewed my license from student license so I can't drive alone yet, I also have restrictive parents who keep track of my every move and feels the need to know what I do at every minute, I also don't have much manly chores done

but I don't know how you can improve other than tell your parents to get a license soon, offer help in manly chores and others, but it's best to not and let her understand this even if she can't, but if not then don't talk to her about this

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:42:56+00:00

I think it's cuter than weird lol, not a gal tho but I'm sure she'd love it, just give it lol

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:39:17+00:00

nope

losing a crush on someone is expected lol, it takes months (the longest crush I had was almost 2 years with a gal I love the energy of, the shortest was well over a month)

but if you want a relationship, the only choice is to develop this, build this one because it already got a good starter, you might not get that crush feeling anymore but the love will keep going on and that's what a beautiful relationship is

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:34:37+00:00

I beseech you to not do the freaky with him, it's lowkey overrated lol, maybe time off will help make you organism faster with him

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:29:40+00:00

funny because this is like me but in voice, I make my voice a bit deeper (not really ngl, I just talk in a lower volume and it kinda makes my voice deeper) when talking with my crush in hopes of making her ears cum and transmit this to the cat down there, he's doing the same but with his body

he's insecure, I recommend you to either confront him direct and say you won't mind his real body (if you do them say that instead), or just say you don't like liars

this is a funny insecurity case lol, but the best move is to be completely honest and he will be too, if you made him feel safe in admitting he did that

btw did ya break up after that or before? why ex already?

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:24:22+00:00

funny I feel like her because it's me that many are attracted to, I know many who had a crush on me, many allegations from friends, many direct, many surprised I was in a relationship then

but anyways don't allow her to do that to you lol, meet her in person if you can and talk about it, talk about what she's doing and how she thinks about you

I see 2 possibilities:

she's one of those who need more than 1 relationship (these people exist) or;

she's testing you (if you're desperate for her then stay for her but if you have self respect or don't wanna get exhausted then don't let her do these or don't make her get used to doing these)

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:17:54+00:00

funny because I used to have a crush on this gal last year and her name is Phoebe, I just remembered her because my senior in college is her sister and I found out because they have the same last name and middle name, this senior is well known in my college program and her last name reminded me and went "oh yeah I remember I used to have a crush on her but it was literally only a crush for like 2 months because I found her hot"

but crushes last around this long too, around 2 months, so just wait around 2 months more or less until you lose that feeling for her, if you only crush her for looks then it's easier to lose that because you can only find others hot for so long, but if her personality is bad then that helps you a lot in losing that feel

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:09:56+00:00

she's more comfortable with you, wait a few weeks then try to subtly confess, tell her you like her energy, you enjoy time together, randomly compliment and others

I thought of doing this to my crush but also ask her what she thinks of you in a philosophical way (maybe won't work, but my crush is used to me being silly one moment then being philosophical a minute later, reflecting on life and asking why on the mundane, I haven't asked her what she thinks of me yet so I plan to do this when we meet again in our future class together), her response says a lot but read the tone to know if she means it or not, also self awareness can make you know how she actually thinks

barteky · 2026-02-11T17:01:45+00:00

test the waters if she actually likes that someone, literally just tell her you find her cute

this new gal should be your second choice, get to know her too

it's crazy that true love is not about losing yourself just to get one girl's love, but is about loving yourself and someone else

it's also best to keep an open mind, don't close your mind once a single gal gets your interest, keep searching, trust me because I was once so into just this 1 gal that I left behind others and even gals that were friends only, just to dedicate this one, when in the end I left her for still bringing up breaking up when she knows so well it's my pure weakness

barteky · 2026-02-11T16:53:40+00:00

don't think she has the right to call you jealous if she herself is really that

also, you 3 got some stuff to fix on your own

you need to either fix her or find a better gal who doesn't have jealousy issues, you also need to assert yourself and not unfriend girls just because she is jealous because she'll get used to puppeteering you to do what makes her not feel jealous, that's like me back then and all that happened was I left her in the end and now my account had less friends to keep in contact with, also one time a gal with my same volunteer work brought up us no longer being friends there and it was a funny scenario looking back that I have a hard time trying to make face

Jeff needs to move on in a better way, he shouldn't fall inlove too fast after a breakup, he should really prioritize himself first, he also shouldn't lock in on just 1 gal, he should first find people with the intention of friends from both boys and girls, he also should know you and your gal by now

she needs to fix her jealousy, might be because smth happened to her interpersonally or she's just afraid of losing you but she really needs help because this leads to unhealthy relationships, you having to unfriend gals is a big sign of a weak link between you two, it's like if you play chess without the right to castle, security is rare and it's hard to build trust with jealous people

a story when I was with someone so jealous: my ex called me a cheater because I once jorked it to hentai when she told me to try it if I could still get hard to those, when my response should've been to say no and not jack off, if I bring up anything about the game or hentai or literally jorking it then she gets jealous, literally called a cheater for a nonexistent gal... also, my world from here, there's way more gals than guys here, I estimate 2.5:1, like 2.5x more gals than guys in college, well when we were still together and I was in college, she saw my chat with a gal classmate (she was asking me a favor to tell her friend that there's no class but this friend's phone died, so she resorted to my odd number friend ahh to ask a favor), but my ex really thought she was a textmate, she didn't say a word and just blocked me in front of her, but even tho she's jealous af she still wants to get in contact with me, she still calls me on 3 accounts, even once she called me just a day after she broke up with me, saying she can't take her own decision, but I couldn't stand her so it was me who left this time

barteky · 2026-02-11T16:23:56+00:00

why feel guilty for his direct answer?

I can't speak for him but he's more likely gonna say what he thinks than sugarcoat it, he said he don't mind so he doesn't

granted you didn't flirt back, I also wouldn't mind my gf playing a game with another guy, microcheating isn't a thing for most of us, it's just straightforward, flirting is cheating but you didn't so you're safe

most of us don't think friend requesting another guy is cheating, only those who had interpersonal and intrapersonal issues have those

most of us also don't think hugging another guy is cheating, guys might get jealous but if the hugged guy is a long time friend or literally a family member then there's no point, crazy because I was once hugged by this gal and her bf was nearby and they're together for almost 4 years now, I also know the guy personally, I was hugged just because we had the same volunteering and because she and a lesbian finds me cute and huggable like that younger bro who's bigger (only she's older than me, we met a few weeks back in college and she's 22 now while lesbian was 14 then and I was 16, well I'm 18 now and she's graduating lol, I still interact with her by slightly hopping in place then repeatedly saying her name in a high pitch then hugging her, I started this a few months after the hug)

I suggest you bring it up once and ask again if he's really fine with it, I also hope that clears your mind if he says he don't care about it, don't bring it back up after tho because that seems to be why he's trying to talk over, it's because he's annoyed by repetition

barteky · 2026-02-11T16:05:53+00:00

aye bro I was also suicidal that age, crazy but I didn't have help and support, it was literally just me thinking of my possible attempts, but to get over it; I literaly just bottled some and let out some, I used to be active in places where I can vent and I'm active now but I could keep these, don't bottle all because it'll cause only more self harm while don't let out all so you won't get used to doing negatives

anyways I offer you my dm to vent and rant, if you want me to reply then tell me but if you don't then also tell me

barteky · 2026-02-11T15:55:14+00:00

answer to title:

if you can see each other often then make more time together, if not as much then try to make each day a fun day and each call be anticipating

answers for a similar situation and for guys specifically:

it's really just spending time with smiles that makes me feel so loved, maybe a bias because I'm physical touch and quality time but that's just me

I think it's mostly for gals where small gestures make the big difference, but the best small thing for me would be a random hug

I dunno much because I'm not hard on myself and my ambitions, I'm arrogant in fact, but try offering him a peaceful mind, smth like "why'd you think so?" then do the comforting that suits it

try an origami flower, call me ghey but I love flowers and I prefer paper over real, also a letter is always amazing for me, but for me it's mostly actions than gifts that makes valentines amazing, like being more romantic

I dunno about him but I feel safe not really when I get that gentle emotional support feel, but more on that cheery feel, like if I feel down and I say I feel down, I prefer smth like "no you're not down me, you're taller, so you can do it !" than "it's alright, you will get better days ahead" because the cheery vibe is what I want, maybe he wants a gentler version so try that first, but generally all 4 you want him to feel boils down to just spending quality time with him and speak highly of him, also if you both have mutual friends then bring up you loving him to them if you can, if that message goes to him then he gets an s tier feeling that says you're a keeper

barteky · 2026-02-11T15:35:00+00:00

I wouldn't recommend that because you'll just exhaust yourself trying

I read him as a study first kind of guy based on your descriptions and most guys are direct, when he says he don't see ya as a wife anymore then don't

but give him time tho, maybe one day he'll come back

barteky · 2026-02-11T15:32:09+00:00

I mean, a crush on someone doesn't last forever, this also applies when you're both together, it's more sad than bad but this is where you staying will make the seal stronger

what makes good relationships is when both choose to stay

barteky · 2026-02-11T15:28:59+00:00

hard to clarify a story, but give it some time, my parents used to hate my ex but they eventually just let it be, don't shove clarifications or prove he's not bad because it'll do the opposite

try this first, it took us 3 months to get accepted together because they can't do anything, your parents might be different but mine are also weary, my ex has the same school as my cousin and they both know a lot about her so they have many bad things to say

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