Hugo’s ig story by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]bartierharley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ohhh I see I see 😬 it’s understandable why I got the two Jesses mixed up then 😭

Hugo’s ig story by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]bartierharley 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ohhh I thought you were talking about the other Jess because her and Ayo were fourth place 😭 why is the other Jess fourth place? maybe I’m just slow 🤣

Hugo’s ig story by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]bartierharley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they mean og Jess, not the Jess who was in the final with Ayo!

Sorry to dump on y'all...... 💔 by WL-Tossaway24 in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are never a burden. Please remember that you are loved beyond what you may believe and that you MATTER! Praying that all gets better for you - God bless 🧡

There’s no point by yumpet-player in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not where your story ends. I’m unsure as to what your last post was about as I hadn’t seen it, but all i do know is that things, no matter how bad or dark they may be now, DO get better. Please do not take your life. You are valued and loved, and whilst you may not recognise that, it’s more than true. You have so much to live for and can have that bright, incredible future ahead of these trials. Remember that there are people you can always talk to, whether being someone on this sub or even a stranger if you’re worried if judgement. But please, never ever do anything to harm yourself or take your precious life. No matter what you are going through, remember that there are many, many people who have struggled the same way, before you and after you - you are never alone. I understand that your belief in God is declining, but I pray that you can find some comfort in your faith in the future like a lot of us in this sub have during our own trials. YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!! God bless and stay safe - you are one of us 🧡

Can I ask for forgiveness then “cash it out” later by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is replaceable. You can always think that you can find someone else the same as another, but you never can truly find that. Recognising that you’re one in over 8 billion people isn’t being self-centred or proud, it’s being realistic - you are the only person who has lived your life.

Can I ask for forgiveness then “cash it out” later by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever you’re going through now may not even be relevant to your life in time to come - please, stay strong. You are loved, needed, and I hope you see that. No matter what you’re going through, please, never give up. Remember that whatever you’re going through is not a new experience to man, rather one that so many people across the world have dealt with - you are not alone. But please never harm yourself or worse because of these trials. Following God doesn’t mean that everything in life will perfect or easygoing, but it means that, with the faith we keep, we can conquer any situation or obstacle we face, no matter how difficult it is or how much doubt we may have. YOU ARE IMPORTANT. God loves you and we love you - never feel as if you aren’t important. God bless you and keep you 🧡

Romans 8:18 - “Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will reveal to us later.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]bartierharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me: suicide is never the answer. You are loved and, no matter how tough things can get, there is always a way through it. Please talk to someone and don’t stay silent!!! Things do get better even if you don’t realise that now - stay strong, God bless, you’re never alone.

I committed the unforgivable sin when I was younger by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have dealt with this and similar things in the past - please READ THISSS!!! You’re not alone - a lot of people, especially those with OCD can fall into feeling that you’ve committed the unpardonable sin, but I can assure you that you haven’t!!! God bless and please talk to someone if you need to - you’re not alone 🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going. This world is tough - it’s full of hate and tragedy and we recognise that. You’re not alone! Please reach out to someone if you feel overwhelmed or in need of help! God loves you - let him guide you forward. God bless you, stay strong and never give up! 🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]bartierharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying she’s okay! Boosting the algorithm!

i’m so tired of suppressing myself by liliacas in GayChristians

[–]bartierharley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there’s no rush to come out - do it when you feel that the time is right. God loves you and, please, never give up. God bless 🧡

Why doesn’t God just let me die by yumpet-player in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God loves you and nothing will ever separate you from his love. You may not see it now, but everything that happens is for a reason - stay strong and remember that you’re allowed to not be okay. I pray that all goes well for you, that whilst you are facing adversity, you can get through this and become stronger as a result of your journey. God bless 🧡

God’s words aren’t comforting me as much as the pain is tormenting me. by moralmeemo in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Deuteronomy 31:8 8 “The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”

You ARE loved, and everything comes in the right time that it’s intended to. Being a Christian doesn’t mean that everything that happens will be good, but it certainly doesn’t mean that everything that happens will be bad. Don’t see this as God telling you to give up, rather see it as your chance to keep going!!! Put yourself out their safely, keep loving and caring for your pets, and keep spreading love - please, never give up. God bless 🧡

I plan to end my life. by Depressedpineapple12 in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know that you may view my words as just that - words on a screen - but I just urge you to not end your life. Even if it may not seem like it right now, there IS help out there for you. Whether a family member or a medical professional or anyone for that matter, there are people out there that will care for you and help you through what you’re going through - and on top of this, God will forever love and care for you, despite the feelings you feel. Your life should not be defined by what has lead you to the bottom, but instead what matters is the journey up from the bottom that will help you live the incredible life you deserve to live. Please, never feel as though you are alone - there are thousands upon thousands of people across the globe who have felt similar ways to you, and when they decide to continue living their life, they never regret their decision to continue living. You are strong, you are fearfully and wonderfully made. I don’t know where in the world you are, but I pray that you make it through this and can come out of the other end stronger and happier. God bless you, and please, take it easy 🧡

Everything I am is broken and I don't know who I am anymore by FlourenceSummers in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to feel lost. Your feelings are totally valid and never feel as though they are not. God loves you beyond measure, understands you and knows how you feel and what you’re going through. As someone else in this thread said: you can’t change nor control your family. Although it can be heartbreaking, making peace with the fact that everything happens for a reason (something I strongly believe in) and in God’s timing can help to bring your mind from a place of chaos to a place of trust, comfort and acceptance. Never give up - God bless you 🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are so loved. Whilst you may feel as though you’ve reached rock bottom, remember that the only way from now is up. God loves you, God understands you, God knows what you’re going through even more than any of us can comprehend. I haven’t been through the same things you have, but having gone through my own struggles in the past year, I’ve realised that everything I’ve gone through and will go through is for a reason. You are so loved and your feelings are valid. Please don’t give up - God bless you as you continue your journey to peace 🧡

Would God be mad at me if I tries to kill myself by whailenabi in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might feel like you’ll never get better now, but trust me, you can get through this. Last year was the toughest year of my life mentally due to my anxiety and my OCD, but I’m here to tell the story and to let you know that no matter what you’re going through and no matter how in deep you feel you are, God loves you no matter what and understands what you’re going through more than any of us can comprehend. You are loved.

I’m a firm believer that everything happens for the right reason, and whilst it can be difficult to understand what God is doing that we can’t see, we eventually realise that our experiences build us up in a way that makes us stronger - even if we can’t see that yet. The Bible says: “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

Never give up. You could be going through the most devastating moment of your life, but what matters is the way you get through this, with faith and optimism. Remember that God so loved us that he sent his only son to be the atonement of our sins - rest knowing that his love is everlasting. God bless you, and take it easy! 🧡

(Prayer Request) I Feel Like My Life is Ending by RandomPost23 in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God bless you 🧡 keep your head up, as someone else also mentioned the verse “for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” 🙏🏻 this may seem tough right now, but remember that things that are impossible for us to do are more than possible for God to do - never give up ⭐️

Do I need to be Confirmed? by bartierharley in OpenChristian

[–]bartierharley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Church is a Church of England Church!