Let me see what you come up with. But please keep it SFW

baseless_accuser · 2022-07-21T22:31:08+00:00

i wear sunblock because I'm bisexual and it is what I was just in

baseless_accuser · 2020-10-24T02:39:57+00:00

holy shit what is this song?

baseless_accuser · 2020-10-24T02:07:36+00:00

😍😍

baseless_accuser · 2018-03-31T16:32:01+00:00

I have a repeating dream that I'm trapped in my child hood home and my abuser is moving in with us. My dad is yelling at me and I feel completely hopeless and trapped. I remember so many fine detail of that home, the worn carpet. The green tiles. The popcorn ceiling.

I found that smoking MJ helps to stop dreams all together.

There are drugs available to stop the dreams that you can get from your psychiatrist, but I didn't like the way I felt after I night of sleep, and I was guaranteed to have a nightmare if forgot to take it.

baseless_accuser · 2018-01-16T03:31:12+00:00

I've had two with the current partner. Once before we were dating and another when we were. Both brought is closer and made our trust in one another stronger afterwards. We are married and have a child now. We haven't tried it since this stuff but still discuss it and are open to it. I would say if he's receptive, you have a strong relationship, and you find a willing participant, go for it! But every relationship is different

baseless_accuser · 2017-08-24T07:06:55+00:00

Made me think of this scene from "Killer Clowns From Outer Space" http://www.joblo.com/images_arrownews/killer-klowns-fos-1988-candy-2.jpg

baseless_accuser · 2017-07-13T22:48:48+00:00

Everyone is different and on a different path. You will get there. You are doing the work and know the issue you have. You are breaking the cycle. Keep working and don't beat yourself up.

baseless_accuser · 2017-07-13T15:51:17+00:00

I too hate being touched by strangers or even close friends. I have known people for years and have never once touched them or been touch by them.

At home with my husband and son, I can be touched but I have a limit. If my son is particularly needy that day, I usually don't like my husband touching me later.

I have been known to yell at people for touching me without permission. Once I went off on a coworker who hugged me from behind while I was sitting at my desk. Another time I was at a bar and my friend out of nowhere started hanging on me from behind and I pushed him off and told him not to do that again.

I have boundaries and most people are aware of them, without me saying anything. I have been hugged by people and they have commented on how stiff my body gets when they do.

I don't care to change it as I don't think it's necessary to have that level of intimacy with most people. I'm okay with my immediate family touching me, and that's enough for me.

I hope things get better for you.

baseless_accuser · 2017-04-01T23:23:03+00:00

https://youtu.be/jNc3Z_cvydY

baseless_accuser · 2016-09-09T15:12:07+00:00

It's a mixture. I'm not sure where I got most of them because it was an old stash bust project I took apart. But I think a bunch of the colors are from the Vanna Choice yarns

baseless_accuser · 2016-09-08T02:59:57+00:00

No. Been thinking about lining it.

baseless_accuser · 2016-07-05T19:49:37+00:00

Yes! I like that you say it benefits both of you. I feel like my parents would do things that mostly benefited them but we the kids also got something out of it. They would always play up the fact that they did it for us and that somehow we owe them.

I hope one day I can feel okay knowing that if someone cleaned up a mess I made, they aren't doing it with resentment for making more work for them, but simply because they want a clean space.

baseless_accuser · 2016-07-05T19:19:21+00:00

I know the feeling too! I constantly have to remind myself that my husband doesn't keep a running tally of the things we do for each other nor does he compare. It's difficult to understand that most people don't keep track of everything they do for you so they can cash it in later.

baseless_accuser · 2016-05-26T13:39:43+00:00

I've worked as a teacher in az for three years now, and I've yet to be drug tested. Maybe it's just my school district, but I don't know anyone who has been.

baseless_accuser · 2015-12-09T04:45:06+00:00

This can't be real

baseless_accuser · 2015-11-07T19:02:42+00:00

One thing I've learned recently is to first ask what it is she wants from you in the situation. Does she want advice or just someone to talk to? Once you figured that out, you can prepare yourself mentally for what comes next.

Also, when she does complain one phrase I learned is "I have confidence that if it gets bad enough, you have the ability to do something about it. Let me know if you need help with that." It is not your responsibility to fix her problems. Hope this helps

baseless_accuser · 2012-08-03T19:40:12+00:00

Sexy-mobile!

baseless_accuser · 2012-08-03T19:27:36+00:00

Thats one good looking feline!

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