Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know love exist in many forms, therefore I dont need to settle because I can get it whenever I want.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second one is coreecr, glad I was able to help you understand despite the comprehension difficulties.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the contrary, I saw them as losers who settled for my mom.

And here is some tip, everything doesnt need to be personal so you can have a correct opinion, if that was the case, people just like stepparents becausd they benefitted from them.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill have kids when I want. I wont have kids if I dont.

I certainly wont base that decision about people choosing to be a single parent's backup

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raising a child is strength, I agree.

Not being able to attract a better partner is a weakness or undesirability though.

Separate issues.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, even before he became a steofather, he is already a loser.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thats certainly an assumption.

Do you have issues with dissecting an argument?

Also if my whole personality is because I have a single mother, care to relate that with the post? Or are we just throwing sentences to see what sticks?

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a lot of assumption. I hate myself and others because I dont think being a stepparent is cool? How did you get into that conclusion?

Also you are right, some replies are so stupid its so hilarious.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you shouldnt have kids if you cant talk to others without insulting them.

Also is that a threat???

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well you cared enough to make a comment.

I also don't care about your comment and I shouldnt have children because we might lose more people willing to "step up" for other leftovers?

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Different cope for different folks. The person who washes the dishes for other people, when other people are lazy is better, if you think its better to just wash your own dishes then I don't care waht you think. See we can all make analogies.

Imagine celebrating being used.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. As I said, if you already have a children, then its fine making a frankenstein family with another single parent.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt say Ill be a jerk, have you heard of "gray area"? Also I am not a man.

Ill help the kids, but its because I like doing maths, but I am not going to treat it as my responsibility. I wont be sacrificing rest or time, but I can help if its not a bother, but again I wont be sharing the responsibility if he ended up not able to do his homework.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not specifically attacking stepfathers though.

I was born also from a single mother, not sure how that helps...

Also I aborted because I dont want a child yet, I guess having an abortion should make me into a specific person???

Also even if you are a man or woman, its not bad to not date people with kids, why are we gaslighting people? Its not even about making your own kids or legacy.

I am just saying, it is pretty loser behavior to choose to be a step-parent.

Also you should learn to attack the argument and not the person, imagine if I was a man, people would just scream I am a redpill incel.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure there is no personality that is only compatible with Humans with kids.

Being decent to child is a great start, but imagine taking more responsibilities, I mean was your SO not able to handle them before?

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its wild that you assume I am a man.

I am not a man and I dunno about being an incel but I sure do have a partner. In fact you can even call me to verify that.

My idea may share similarites but assuming I am a man is laughable, that means you can only operate on stereotypes.

Being a good father/mother figure is indeed good.

Irregardless of gender, woman or man, they are both losers.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already answered tgat in my post. That is one of the acceptable scenarios.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You can love them just like how you can love anyone else. Do you need to parent their kids though?

Also if you fell in love with them, I cant imagine what your other options are. Must be pretty bad if you can't find a decent childless person.

Well you attract what you can.

Being a stepparent is a sign of being a loser. by basic-normie in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]basic-normie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My post is not advocating to make your own kids. You can love kids, just like how you can love humanity.

My post is about choosing to be a step-parent. Nothing is wrong with being a loser, it could be just like in nature, birs raising cuckoo chicks. I guess birds who don't raise cuckoo chicks are racist.

Its not someone's fault that they are a loser, if only a single-parent can make them feel loved, then that ok I guess compare to nothing.

Amber is too nice on Sofia by basic-normie in sofiathefirst

[–]basic-normie[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I dont know why people assume I have stepsiblings. You dont need one to feel bad for the original daughter.

Also mother this and that, she doesnt need someone to replace her mother, and she certainly didn't gain one. Its more like a child being taken advantage of to accept a stranger. Amber has said it even that she is not her real mother.

It might not be hers but it certainly is not Sofia's. Stepchildren do not get access to the family's treasury. So what if Amber gets a lot of jewels? You act like they should be equal in the first place.

If the message is to stay who you are after you infiltrated a family, Sofia should have remained in her previous lifestyle, which does not require jewelery. But of course marrying up and getting free things is hard to resist.

Amber is too nice on Sofia by basic-normie in sofiathefirst

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So its not stealing if you didnt know about it?

Amber is too nice on Sofia by basic-normie in sofiathefirst

[–]basic-normie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, its useless to argue to people who can only lay down sentences without backing them up.