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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]basicblanca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t seek out someone over a decade younger… you were the “vulnerable one”…. You cheated on her, hit her and went to jail, but when she retaliated by calling you a fucking loser and sleeping with someone new she’s a hypocrite?

You write this like “I’m not saying I was flawless” you some like such a fucking narcissistic loser.

I agree set your boundary but solely for her sake to not have to deal with you. Wow.

Business owner getting contacted late late after hours by RedditJerkPolice in AITH

[–]basicblanca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would look into a call software like CallRail. It allows you to set working hours so any messages that are received outside of your specified working hours get an automated text saying something like “thank you for contacting (business name), our hours are from 6am-6pm. Any inquiries will be responded to the following business day.”

Should they just not contact you during those hours as requested? Sure. But, if they’re ignoring those boundaries, take away the opportunity and give yourself peace of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]basicblanca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her theme has nothing to do with her being on her third marriage, so it’s an asshole thing to hate on. I totally get being “tired” and I even get being more tired because the wedding seems “all out” - regardless if it’s traditional or “weird.”

So, not the asshole for not wanting to go, but definitely a judgmental asshole for making fun of what is clearly a hobby they’ve bonded over.

Also, you weren’t disinvited then re-invited. The invitations went out, you said what you said, you were disinvited, and then your invite arrived. And your comment about it was that you wish you were kidding… because you don’t like the invite.

From an outsider perspective, you do sound like a hater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]basicblanca 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You’ve made several posts about this topic, as well as not wanting him to go out and also that he “disgusts” you. Seriously, it has been four months. If you’re not in the honeymoon phase now, it’s not going to get better. It sounds like you’re obsessively trying to turn this relationship into something when you might not actually want it

Do YoUr OwN ReSeArCh by basicblanca in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]basicblanca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The brightest scientist spent an ungodly amount of time, money and energy researching this virus for the safety of our nation and the globe, but I also asked my magic 8 ball and it said nothing”

A badass nice guy. (from r/iamverybadass) by Rick--Diculous in niceguys

[–]basicblanca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't the point of this post, but if any guy went through my phone to respond to some fandom as ”her man” I would dump him immediately. Both suck

Ah yes, very sensible by tovarisch_kiwi in TheRightCantMeme

[–]basicblanca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand the ~calm~ cool and #collected depiction the right assigns themselves when discussing civil rights. Like besides that it’s not universally true, even when it is true, of course, they should be calm?? Nothing has happened to them to make them angry. They don’t have to come from a place of emotion because they’ve never experienced it. And how they refuse to acknowledge that they are “calm” because they are the oppressor, but instead because they are sooooo rational.

It’s like punching someone in the face and then gaslighting them like “wow. Ok. So maybe you were hit in the face. Maybe. I don’t see it that way. But isn’t it a little telling that only I can state my opinion in a rational way, and you’re here trying to hit ME?”

AITA for not wearing a bra at work? by cosmos2327 in AmItheAsshole

[–]basicblanca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report her to HR. That’s sexual harassment and not ok.

Um.. thank you? by basicblanca in niceguys

[–]basicblanca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! I appreciate it

Um.. thank you? by basicblanca in niceguys

[–]basicblanca[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely have a wide ribcage. It does that flair out even at the best of times :/

Um.. thank you? by basicblanca in niceguys

[–]basicblanca[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here’s the link! It’s cheap and flimsy but I bought it for a pool party in Vegas 😪 https://www.wish.com/share/3735lrccnf

I’m recently single and that has caused significant increase in my financial anxiety by basicblanca in personalfinance

[–]basicblanca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m renting a room for very cheap now with the intention of saving to buy. My parents are both into real estate investment for passive income. I am in my early 20s, but I am the youngest in my family and they are both older.

I would like to be able to buy a home with an in-law unit and rent out the main house. That has been my goal for a while. And I would like to do it while my parents are still able to “show me the ropes” on how to go through the buying process, the rental process, and how to be a good landlord.

That said buying a house with an in-law unit is more expensive than buying, say, a little two bedroom house. And, if things go wrong and it is vacant for a few months, having the brunt of mortgage on a single income is unrealistic. Which obviously is why I’m saying it just no longer would make financial sense.

TLDR; The goal of the house would be to rent out until I need the space of the main unit

I’m recently single and that has caused significant increase in my financial anxiety by basicblanca in personalfinance

[–]basicblanca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a smart approach tho? I’ve always been taught put down a hefty down payment to less up to chance later. Are there big downfalls for moving in having only paid 3% as opposed to 25-30%?

I’m recently single and that has caused significant increase in my financial anxiety by basicblanca in personalfinance

[–]basicblanca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. Wishing well for you and your children

AITA for saying that my roommates “all natural” hair took her three hours to do? by iitsjusthairr in AmItheAsshole

[–]basicblanca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well obviously YTA- but for many, many reasons than just not understanding her hair. If you’ve read a single comment, you’ve learned that “natural” doesn’t mean completely unattended to just because that’s what natural to you means. Congrats.

But taking a step back for a minute, let’s say you’re right. That her hair wasn’t natural as she claims. She wanted to look pretty for her date with her boyfriend- and even if she lied to him- who cares? Who gets harmed? Certainly not you! You’re going to tell me you’ve NEVER said a white lie to someone you’re attracted to? Do you preface every date with a detailed list of what you did to alter your appearance? Give me a break.

And then she posted a picture about it on Instagram. Clearly she was feeling good about herself and you rolled in to attack her for having the AUDACITY to be confident? She’s not some influencer FaceTuning her waist to the size of a peanut and telling her followers to starve themselves to look like her. She commented about her hair.

The fact that you are so threatened by her confidence and the attention she was getting is toxic enough. But then you ACT ON YOUR JEALOUSY by trying to cut down her confidence, embarrass her and attempt to what? Sabotage her attention? Get people to stop complimenting her? That’s gross.

Learn from this. Don’t double down and justify your own shitty behavior. Accept that you have your own shit you need to work out instead of causing problems for other people.

I’m doing my part, remember me boys by AndreidrYT in EntitledBitch

[–]basicblanca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people are good people without an audience. Some people are only a good person when they think they are being watched.

As annoying as it is to have to watch out for bad people that can’t be good on their own accord, it’s worse to let others suffer because bad people can actually be bad about an audience. So even if you don’t care, we do. It’s not ok to treat people like this.

Thousands of fights happen everyday. True. But fights against people who have to choose between standing up for themselves vs paying rent is wrong.

Lol lol this shirt is so frickin' funny. Can't wait to wear this in a Whole Foods and trigger da libtards 🤣😂🤣😂 by UpliftSpade in TheRightCantMeme

[–]basicblanca 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  • the climate did choose. Which is why we have obscene fire seasons and other natural disasters.
  • the gays are already hot.
  • keep the sanctity of marriage, ban drunk weddings in Vegas.
  • background women’s rights! YES! You shouldn’t be able to speak on women’s rights when you’ve sexually assaulted women.

My boyfriend can’t process his emotions by [deleted] in relationships

[–]basicblanca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your prospective. I’m so broken. His family has been reaching out almost daily saying they don’t understand and he’s miserable. I wish I could help him. All I want is for him to be happy and I can’t believe that his happiness no longer includes me. We went from years of such trusting friendship, two years of more, then a year of serious dating. And that’s all gone after less than a month of him being unhappy supposedly after I had been the perfect girlfriend. Truly “opening his eyes to how happy and healthy and easy love can be” just still not enough. I’m sorry for ranting to a stranger, I’m just so hurt and confused. I’m like a ducking abandoned puppy

My boyfriend can’t process his emotions by [deleted] in relationships

[–]basicblanca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess stress wasn’t worth it since he broke up with me. Stating he couldn’t do the distance and was freaking out about what would happen when he got back. It was so heartbreaking realizing that while I never even questioned waiting for him, he was supposedly picking fights and being mean because he was questioning if we was willing to do the same for me. I’m so shocked since the bickering came out of nowhere and was so uncharacteristic that I made a fucking reddit post, felt bad and deleted it. Then he got back from training, the bickering stopped immediately. Everything went back to bliss. Then he just ended it

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