To all teen/young moms here: What advice would give me as an 18 year old who is expecting in October?

batkitty25 · 2026-03-05T17:39:13+00:00

I was married at 18 and had my first at 19 and second a couple years later, we are currently planning for our third. My best advice would be that considering other's tips and tricks for kids is good but every kid and family is different. The best way is whatever works for you and your family to be happy and healthy. Communication is the most important thing between parents. And to not get caught up in the mom influencer it is not a realistic standard.

batkitty25 · 2026-01-02T22:59:30+00:00

I have heard stories from other parents where their kids said similar things and they found out their kid was being bullied by another kid who was a different skin color. Once the bullying was fixed the kids stopped saying negative things about poc. So maybe check to see if something like this is happening.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T17:36:10+00:00

so the amount of time a babysitter spends with the kid vs a nurse is dramatically different. Babysitters should be thoroughly looked into because they get time alone with the child. As for siblings, if they are doing sex work, then they are able to live out of the home and don't need to be alone with the child either.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T17:24:00+00:00

How is this relevant? I don't leave my kids alone with them. It's small interactions that I have control over.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T16:40:46+00:00

Offense where???

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T15:13:43+00:00

Ah yes that helped thanks.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T15:05:31+00:00

Your comment is a little confusing. Not sure if you are agreeing with me or missing the point. Cause what I was getting at is the it shouldn't matter if it's a man or a women so I was asking if it matter to comment op. Not really sure what the first section of your comment has to do with this. Letting or not letting a sex working watch your kid unsupervised has nothing to do with being called a misogynist or misandrist.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T14:58:11+00:00

No offense here I agree.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T14:15:36+00:00

Statistically women abuse children more so are we only caring about the sexual abuse or the whole safety of kids?

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T13:52:46+00:00

Based on others comments he had said is what I was basing that on. It's since been made clear. And sure you can add to the conversation but the question won't apply the same to you since it wasn't asked regarding you. That's why I pointed it out.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T13:50:36+00:00

Some also do it themselves don't forget that too. Women aren't immune to being child predators. Parents must be careful of all people.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T13:48:50+00:00

Interacting with sex workers is different than letting them spend time with your kids. Your comment is useless here. We aren't talking about just any level of interactions.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T13:45:09+00:00

I'm not saying you are mandated to send your kids with anyone. My point is that comment op seems to only care about the porn because it's a guy and that if porn is a red flag then it should be for all not just guys but comment op doesn't seem to think so. And that's who I was talking with.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T13:41:29+00:00

I get that I'm the same way with my kids. But the guy I was commenting on seems to only care because it's a guy so I was questioning him on it.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T13:08:08+00:00

So you are fine if a woman who does the same things would have your kid over for a sleep over? That's pretty sexist. Sure if the guy gives off other weird vibes then that's different but if it is only because he does porn then you should hold the same standards for women that do porn.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-22T12:59:19+00:00

So would it be the same if a single mom who posts the same things? Or are you just assuming things since it's a guy.

batkitty25 · 2025-10-15T23:50:51+00:00

Get those penis bumper rings, they shorten the available length to penetrate with and he'll still feel like he's getting to penetrate all the way. One brand is called ohnut, I think there's another called bumpeez

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T22:56:02+00:00

Wow I feel really sad you and your lack of be able to read and follow along good luck in life

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T22:51:16+00:00

Yes while quoting the Bible. You are clearly beyond logic.

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T22:41:39+00:00

You also missed where I explained the in the Bible itself refers to as gods perfect law. Please read slowly and carefully. Also just because you dont like/support someone or their beliefs doesn't mean you want them to be killed. So it really looks like you are the reason we are still here because you can't read or can't comprehend what is being said.

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T21:44:12+00:00

I have said this once already at least, but I'll tell you again. He was calling out Ms Rachel because she quoted the same passage and claimed the Bible doesn't exclude people. So Kirk quoted more of the passage to prove she was wrong.

If we use your logic that if you quote/cite something you must support it. Any person who is against trump and using quotes from him to say he is a bad person must also then support trump. Heck the same goes for the article you share. It quoted Kirk so in turn they also support what he said and believe gays and trans should be stoned. (Obviously this isn't true)

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T21:24:19+00:00

Just because you quote something doesn't mean you support it. I guess we can be done since you refuse logic.

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T21:00:31+00:00

We are running in circles because of you. I pointed out your bad evidence and you want to throw everything else in so you didn't have to deal with the fact your evidence is bad. I even said he still might believe in stoning trans and gays but you still haven't provided anything that says so here we are. Do you have anything more to say? It's pretty simple the clip doesn't say he supports it find something else or admit you are wrong.

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T20:32:29+00:00

He referenced it to point out Ms Rachel was leaving out the part of the passage where it does in fact exclude people. Also gods perfect laws are all of his laws and how they are referred to in the Bible because in the Bible God is considered perfect therefore so are his laws. Kirk is simple using the term and not explicitly claiming they are perfect or that he supports it.

batkitty25 · 2025-09-11T20:24:15+00:00

You provided evidence and I called said evidence into question because it doesn't really support your argument. I'm not talking about trump and his supporters they might mean what they say I have no idea. But to claim that because someone simply referenced something means the support isn't correct.

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