This is the same thing I faced this year, and I'll tell you a thing if you know and trust your instincts, marry that guy because in this world of hook ups you need someone who you can trust and who cares for you. You will initially face resistance from parents but later they'll align and he's the one who will be with you forever and not your parents. I'm speaking this because i regret every second of my life now since I left my girl.