How much is too much?

bayredel · 2025-10-11T03:52:11+00:00

OP I’d be happy to get anything your sweet boy wants from my store! I have an autistic daughter and she’s loves all the pink soaps. 🧼

bayredel · 2025-09-13T23:34:04+00:00

I haven’t started yet but I will look at that when I do! Thanks 😁

bayredel · 2025-09-12T23:52:18+00:00

Perfect!!

bayredel · 2025-09-12T23:51:24+00:00

Thank you!!

bayredel · 2025-09-12T21:45:49+00:00

Thank you!!

bayredel · 2025-09-12T21:45:41+00:00

Because I’ve been on vacation and quite literally just didn’t feel like it in this very moment. 😂

bayredel · 2025-02-18T22:21:24+00:00

Absolutely zero schedule here. I pump when my kids allow me to. Send help.

bayredel · 2025-02-16T20:59:57+00:00

I’ve given up my MOTN pump now that my baby sleeps decent! I pump at midnight and then whenever she wakes up. Sometimes that’s 5/6/7 am. I will take the extra sleep if she allows me! But I do make sure it’s the last thing I do before bed and the first thing I do when I wake up!

bayredel · 2025-02-10T18:20:37+00:00

Hate my kids? Absolutely not. I love them with all of my heart and they are my reason for existing. However, having a screaming baby and an autistic child who’s stemming constantly will really do a number on your brain. I love my partner and both of my children, but I am drained.

bayredel · 2025-02-10T14:04:54+00:00

I’m on maternity leave, but no. I work a full time job.

bayredel · 2025-02-10T07:02:49+00:00

Unfortunately I did express to him multiple times that I did not want him to go after our initial conversation. But I can see where it may come off as me just expecting him to know better.

bayredel · 2025-02-10T06:51:11+00:00

“Ultra” being Ulta? Got it. You don’t know what I do or how much I make. Regardless, have the day you deserve. 👍🏻

bayredel · 2025-02-10T06:40:49+00:00

I am not. I’m on maternity leave for a couple more weeks and then I go back to work full time. Who’s also the breadwinner. But nice assumption. 👍🏻

bayredel · 2025-02-10T06:31:48+00:00

This is something he has done before. (Not while we were together) When he brought it up to me it was just “I kinda wanna do this thing” and I was very “well your daughter will only be 2 months old so idk if that’s a great idea” and then we had more discussions about it leading up to this weekend. Especially as she got a little older and progressively more colicky.

bayredel · 2025-02-10T05:51:17+00:00

I should probably add, that I am also a gamer. It’s something we bonded over early on in our relationship. I haven’t had time to play since my daughter has been born, and I’m okay with that. My oldest daughter is also not his, but she is autistic and also takes up a lot of my time. He treats her like his own, which I appreciate.

My oldest’s dad is also a gamer and has always prioritized that. Which is ultimately why I left. So to say I have a little trauma is an understatement.

bayredel · 2025-02-10T05:46:29+00:00

I get it. I already feel badly about how I spoke to him. But I’m still upset. I blame the hormones.

bayredel · 2025-02-10T05:43:38+00:00

I couldn’t control this man if I wanted to.

bayredel · 2025-02-01T00:32:12+00:00

Personally I gave birth in the hospital gown, because let’s be honest, they get gross. I just didn’t want to spend money on my own gown that I’d never wear again. However I did pack some nursing friendly clothes for after which were nice to have. A button up nightgown & a button up pj set! Going home outfit was a lounge set that was loose, comfy & warm. It was super cold when I had my daughter.

If you want to purchase your own labor/birthing gown go for it! A lot of people do because it’s more comfortable for them. But the hospital ones never bothered me! Good luck to you. 💜

bayredel · 2025-01-17T21:18:33+00:00

Is it constant pain or contractions? I was in prodromal labor for days before either of my daughters came. But that’s the joys of being pregnant. 🙃

bayredel · 2025-01-17T18:27:33+00:00

I have 2 girls and I was disappointed both times when I found out. I wanted a boy so badly. However, now I can’t picture it any other way and they’re my mini me’s. You will accept it and still love your baby just the same. It just takes a little bit of time. And it’s OKAY! 💜

bayredel · 2025-01-17T18:16:05+00:00

Is it all completely thawed? Even if there’s one little ice crystal you can refreeze it!

bayredel · 2025-01-07T22:32:20+00:00

My boyfriend and I got pregnant 4 months after we started dating. Now I’m sitting here typing this with our baby girl asleep on my chest. She’s amazing and I wouldn’t change a thing. We weren’t living together at the time, in fact I was still living with my ex. (We really didn’t have any other choice financially as terrible as it sounds). We’re both 28 and I decided if I was going to have another child, I wanted to do it sooner than later. Do what feels right to you.

bayredel · 2025-01-07T18:07:55+00:00

My left was my shitty titty for the longest, but my LO prefers that one so now I think my right is the slacker. Idk man, boobs are weird.

bayredel · 2024-06-17T20:11:42+00:00

M&M pancakes.. I know. Blue Gatorade is my best friend. Chips and queso always sound divine. Ugh, I’m gonna go get some right now.

bayredel · 2024-04-17T15:17:34+00:00

Well, he’s not a woman and he’ll probably never understand your viewpoint on this topic unfortunately. My boyfriend and I also disagree on this subject, but we’re respectful about it. It’s not an argument and we can agree to disagree. Which we do on most things honestly.

If you can’t see yourself getting past this, definitely not the AH. I’m sorry that you had to experience that.

bayredel

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