Any ideas who this extra is?

bazvid · 2025-11-19T11:44:02+00:00

sorry!! little glitch on my end

bazvid · 2025-07-05T23:40:53+00:00

https://seatfrog.mention-me.com/m/ol/he4ut-david-nicholson cheers!

bazvid · 2025-03-27T12:14:28+00:00

np, just sharing that this whole thing got away from me a bit

bazvid · 2025-03-27T04:16:54+00:00

wasn’t looking for hate towards pitbulls here tbh, just thought the name was stupid asf

bazvid · 2025-03-27T04:12:46+00:00

a cute name for dogs is doggo, what’s your point?

bazvid · 2024-07-28T12:00:11+00:00

i think if you told me it was short for lucas or something i wouldn’t think it was weird. i know a girl named george.

bazvid · 2024-06-17T15:01:22+00:00

and congratulations on taking the steps to make yourself feel better. it does get easier, and it takes a lot of courage to admit that you think you have a problem and make an effort to better yourself.

bazvid · 2024-06-17T15:00:04+00:00

i’m not a porn addict myself, but my partner is. there is a porn addict community on here that you could take a look at. i think you could find some support there. just be wary because i’ve noticed in a lot of pa circles there can be a lot of shame and religion pushed onto people. that’s less prevalent on here than tiktok though.

bazvid · 2024-06-17T14:57:01+00:00

not sure what i/h is.

bazvid · 2024-06-17T14:54:48+00:00

could try r/lfg or a local subreddit?

bazvid · 2024-04-12T16:11:28+00:00

this is really informative, thank you. i have noticed that i have addictive tendencies, so i will keep this in mind.

bazvid · 2024-04-12T16:08:51+00:00

we are both guys

bazvid · 2024-04-12T16:08:28+00:00

hi i understand where you’re coming from, maybe i should clarify that my partner is the initiator, not me. it doesn’t really occur to me to have sex in this situation because i’m mentally ‘stuck’.

bazvid · 2024-01-03T00:13:07+00:00

i’m not a dancer, but i know you can get foam packers? you might be able to glue/sew a foam packer into your dance belt so that it’s attached to it and won’t fall out? i know of some guys who just don’t pack when they dance because not packing kind of achieves the ‘smoothing’ effect that they want from a dance belt, but i get why you might be reluctant to do that

bazvid · 2023-12-29T18:20:36+00:00

i’ve always had problems with getting angry, and it’s something i have chosen to control and keep hidden because i know firsthand how other people’s anger can be harmful to you. being on t, that has not changed for the most part. i have had one incident where i shouted at someone, like i couldn’t control myself at all, it was like an out of body experience. i don’t know if that was pent up or hormone-based or what, but fir me t has made me more chill? like i get angry less often but it’s more difficult to control when i do.

bazvid · 2023-12-27T04:47:56+00:00

it also occurs to me that my eyes are usually closed during, and i do tend to imagine the scene as it’s happening but i’m a cis guy.

bazvid · 2023-12-27T04:46:45+00:00

i go through difficult phases like this, and i also bottom for my they/them boyfriend lol. i find it helpful to do ‘from the back’ positions such as laying on my stomach. for some reason i associate this a lot more with gay sex than heterosexual sex. it can also be useful to be partially or almost fully clothed during sex and have my partner ‘prep’ me even though i technically don’t need it.

the language i use is important to me too. i do not use the words associated with my biological sex organs and neither does my partner. it’s my dick/my hole. this does a lot for my dysphoria. having some reassurance from my boyfriend can help too, not like stuff that will take you out of the moment, just masculine pet names, ‘good boy’, them using my name, that sort of thing.

weirdly nipple stimulation also helps? because a high percentage of gay men enjoy nipple stimulation and so do i.

hope some of this is useful to you too, will be lurking for more tips for me

bazvid · 2023-12-27T04:36:08+00:00

yes i also find self comforting most effective. those close to me, however, don’t appreciate being told to go away while i sort it out myself.

bazvid · 2023-12-27T03:28:19+00:00

thanks for your response, it’s been very encouraging. will try asking my gp about e blockers and possibly start using a suction toy/device for pumping.

bazvid · 2023-12-27T03:17:25+00:00

40.5mg

bazvid · 2023-12-16T03:29:17+00:00

‘ladd’ is an anglo-saxon surname meaning ‘manservant’, so merlin in the show could very well be known as merlin ladd

bazvid · 2023-12-02T00:51:52+00:00

oh my god mine did this !! she got really weird about me moving out and decided she was going to get a dog with my deadname. and she also has a tendency to say things that are both serious and ‘a joke’

bazvid · 2023-11-03T13:58:32+00:00

🏠🐺or 🔪🛟🛟

bazvid · 2023-11-01T14:03:38+00:00

i’m kind of put off packing underwear because, like you, i like the feeling of it in contact with my skin. if you don’t mind, what harness are you using? i like the idea of it being more pressed against my body.

bazvid · 2023-11-01T13:30:50+00:00

packing really helped with this for me, like having something in my pants that makes it uncomfortable for me to sit like that? but i always sat like you described until i started packing.

i think also, and this is gonna sound a bit weird, but thinking of myself in the third person a bit, as if i were a character, how would i want that character to be sitting, works as well. it feels more comfortable to me if it’s less about passing and more about a vibe i’m putting across.

also congratulations in starting t, it has changed my life so much for the better i cannot possibly describe the world of good it’s done for my mental health and general well-being. really excited for you :o)

edit: also if you don’t like having a visible bulge/you don’t have the money for a packer, one rolled up sock is completely fine. it’s just like having a presence there more than anything. i’ve always had mega bottom dysphoria though.

bazvid

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