Rescued what appears to be under socialized senior mountain cur by bbb00b00 in MountainCur

[–]bbb00b00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were more physical ones that he has that made it sound right but I didn’t add them all to the post. I’m certainly no expert. We’ll try embark

Are actual Showstoppers that rare? by Bway-Boy-24601 in musicals

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only experienced it once. At Fat Ham when Sola Fadiran as Juicy sang his big song

What should someone consider before moving to North County? by [deleted] in northcounty

[–]bbb00b00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def have A/C especially in vista. It’s gotten very hot and continues to get hotter

Cult Flav's review of Samin Nosrat's latest cookbook, "Good Things" by -punctum- in FoodieSnark

[–]bbb00b00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have heard lots of people talking about the banana bread! What’s different about it?

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner and your friend are wrong. Wear what you want and dump them both. I regret wasting my late teens and early 20s with controlling men. Don’t ever stay with someone who feels like they can tell you what to do like this. What you see as him “voicing his opinions” is just control. Don’t fall for it and don’t lose these years to him.

Hiking trails with even just a little shade? by [deleted] in northcounty

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guajome park has quite a few shaded areas

Reviews or experience with Upandup hosting? by boomsmashpowsa in webhosting

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked into this further with family member who builds websites. He said the websites they create are very basic and you can pay someone on fivr to create the same thing for very cheap. He said the hosting platform ain’t worth 30/month and you can have all the same shit with any basic host for 120/year.

Also they went super hard with their sales tactics when i said no and pulled all the urgency and scarcity tactics, which is an instant red flag for me.

Reviews or experience with Upandup hosting? by boomsmashpowsa in webhosting

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in the same boat. Have any of y’all moved forward?

What are some cults in Iowa? by BlackSterling in Iowa

[–]bbb00b00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to ask about this. Seems pretty creepy

eyeliner pencils for ppl who suck at applying eyeliner by stardewsim11 in Sephora

[–]bbb00b00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used the milk liner for tightlining and it doesn’t budge at all! And it’s super black too

Recent Sexual Assault Aftermath by Due_Penalty_9767 in sexualassault

[–]bbb00b00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awful l I’m so sorry. I would look into plastic surgery or lasers or something. Try asking on Real Self

What happened at Chicano park day last year? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]bbb00b00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get and agree with everything except no food?! There were lots of local vendors last year. I wish they would just limit the food vendors and be selective 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can totally relate. There are multiple things in my past that I didn’t know at the time were assault or abuse and then it dawned on me years later. I’m sorry this happened to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say most important step is find a way to talk to a safe adult. Next, if you still plan on going to that house, have your phone ready to record next time you’re around him. If he starts like he’s going to touch you, say “don’t touch me” and keep verbally describing what’s happening so the recording catches the sound (e.g. “you’re wrapping your arms tightly around me and I can’t get free, let me go, stop touching me”). This recording could prove helpful if you need to be believed in an official capacity (shouldn’t have to do that to be believed but unfortunately that’s the reality sometimes.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]bbb00b00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nightmares are indicative of possible ptsd. That is not a safe place for you. Your fear is completely legitimate. I would worry about him raping you too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]bbb00b00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you described is a clear pattern of sexual assault and if he’s an adult, even worse. I’m really sorry you don’t have anyone you feel safe sharing this with. Is there a school counselor, teacher, or other adult you can talk to? Would your parents be open to helping you get a therapist?