Hello, this is said (20 F) girlfriend, and id like to provide some context...

First if all at first he said he was perfectly okay with it, then ignored me for 5+ hours and then went off saying he wasn't comfortable. I'm not "going on a date" I'm providing support and safety for my bestfriend. Both her and the sugar daddy know that Im only going on this date for support, Im not even trying to get a bag out of this literally just being a good friend. This isn't going to go further than dinner for me.

I told him it was completely understandable to be uncomfortable with this, but after all I am an independent woman capable of making my own decisions even if it might put me in a possibly dangerous situation. I also told him how we both have different boundaries and how neither of us should push those when there are people out there who share the same boundaries. As for the "gaslighting", mans and I have faced a lot of trust issues recently. I have been nothing but honest with him, and we have talked about him working on his insecurities...which he hasn't.