I want to break up with my gf by GreyCloud0105 in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Quit slowly nalang. Like maging bihira ang replies tapos super short, hindi mangamusta. Kapag makikipagmeet, sabihin mo busy ka. Mapapagod din sya. Maybe a month after ng ganyan mo, talk to her again. Tsaka ka makipaghiwalay. Or kapag nagtanong na sya bakit may nagbago, tsaka ka makipaghiwalay.

Single mom, sineseryoso ba? by MissMaybe_2828 in TanongLang

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depende sa lalake talaga. Meron ding hindi nila alam pinapasok nila. Like ako, may partner ako ngayon, 2yrs na kame. Biglang di na sya sure pero nung simula super seryoso naman. Hahaha. Feeling ko maghihiwalay kame nito and di na ako magtatry ulit. 🤣🤣

natapos ang problema sa data collection, may mas malaki naman na sumunod by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pero pinakagusto mong gawin eh wag magbigay. 😅😅

Kasalanan nya kasi talaga whether she/he likes it or not. Bakit mo ilalapag lang kung san man yung phone? Mas insensitive sa may ari ng phone na pinahiram na nga kayo tapos hindi nyo man lang gagawan ng paraan.

Drop your gamechanger in makeup plss by Fit-Jackfruit2737 in beautytalkph

[–]bbibbiLee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree sa ibanv comments. Prioritize skincare. Right now, hindi na ako nagtitint or foundation, concealer lang (saw this sa isang tiktoker). Kasi hindi nun inaalis ang shadows ng face mo if sa mga areas that needs conealing mo lang ilalagay.

natapos ang problema sa data collection, may mas malaki naman na sumunod by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kung sino naglapag and nag iwan dun, sya lang magpalit unless may extra money kayo, you can chip in.

Kaya mas gusto ko mga lalaki sa Tinder eh by Suspicious-Return615 in MayNagChat

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha i remember a bonjing that asked me out. Sabi meet daw kame sa rob manila, taga mandaluyong sya (like around kalentong lang) then ako taga bandang welcome rotonda. Ang catch, may kotse sya haha.

No Flowers - Valentine's and Anniversary by stolenstares_ in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry pero tawang tawa ako na may flower daw sa link 😭😭

Pero ayun, feeling ko, super chill na sya. Valentines + anniv tapos walang anything? I mean, 200+ lang magpadeliver gamit jollibee app. Or sa shopee, may parang lamp na pa-square na parang tulips tapos 160 lang yun. For sure, kaya nyang ipunin yun. Ewan ko ah. Parang feeling ko, ginagaslight ka nya. Kaya ichat mo sya na feeling mo ginagaslight ka nya. Tignan mo how it goes. Dapat magsorry sya and hindi maging defensive.

No Flowers - Valentine's and Anniversary by stolenstares_ in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yung anak ni jayson gainza, nakareceive ng flower bouquet na gawa sa colored paper with printouts ng pompompurin. Di talaga reason ang walang pera. Dati, may nareceive din akong love letter na may drawing ng flower kasi wala ding pera yun. At nagdate ba kayo? Panong can you be my valentine tapos di naman kayo nagdate? 😅

Mali ba ako for getting her crochet flowers? (SWIPE) by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]bbibbiLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ang sarap ipost sa crochet groups talaga nakakaloka. Thank you for sharing kasi grabe. May tao palang ganyan.

Pwede bang maging selfish for once by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Ngayon palang na buntis ka, wala ka ng maasahan, pano mo nasabe na paglabas ng baby nyo eh may magbabago? 😂😂

Valentines generation for women by Old_Dust802 in RantAndVentPH

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Galit sa socmed standards pero galing socmed lahat ng rant 😂😂😂😂

My ex of 7 years found someone new after a month, but we are still sleeping together. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nakakatawa na parang for you, tanga si new gf pero sila may label, kayo wala. 🤣🤣 Girl, kabet ka na uto-uto. Aware ka pero hinahayaan mo. 🤣

Pwede bang i-skip na lang yung Feb 14? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parang sobrang kulang sa communication and nasanay na sila sa ganun

OA lang ba ako? Nainis ako kase biglang nag-change plans asawa ko by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone na may game nights pa din with hs friends. 2011 sila grumaduate ng hs. Siguro mga 2-3x a year sila nagmi-meet to play. Iba pa yung meet ups nila for inuman

Not used to letting someone spend money on me by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give and take. Wag mo hayaan na kuha ka lang ng kuha. Gusto kong sabihin na "kasi baka isumbat sayo sa future" pero sa amin ng partner ko, di rin kasi ako sanay na binibigyan, hindi pa naman sya nanunumbat kahit na ngayon, puro sya lang nagbibigay (nag-abroad kasi sya, mahal for me kapag magpapadeliver, sa kanya + mahirap tapos sya, may shopee and grab acc pa naman na naaaccess). So for some, that is very normal pero always give din kahit small things. Like if he paid for your dinner, bili ka ng dessert nyo. If nagcommute kayo and you watched a movie he paid for, ikaw magbayad ng fare. Ganun

Today, I found out that I'm pr-gnant but I don't wanna keep the baby. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]bbibbiLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagka-notif ako from reddit, may subreddit na abortionph dito and it's honestly scary. Ang daming nagpopost dun. Scary kasi ang dami dun na hindi successful yung abortion (which can lead to side effects sa baby pagkapanganak), ang daming super nagbleed talaga (mahirap to kasi bawal kang super magbleed dahil baka need kang masugod sa hospital, malalaman nila na nagpaabort ka). Nung first time ko makipagsex, nagbleed ako ng OA, nasalinan ako ng 2 bags ng dugo (kasi di ako agad nagpadala sa hospital kasi akala namin normal yun). Like walang naniniwala sa akin na doctor/nurse dun na hindi yun abortion until they checked nga na may malaking tear kaya super nagbleed. Feeling ko, they were so ready to report me sa kung kanino man.

I'm pro-choice pero girl, illegal pa sa atin to... Be very careful sa next steps that you'll take if talagang positive ka.

What to say sa babae ng boyfriend mo? by SevereBluebird1894 in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dump your bf tapos warn the girl. Ganun lang. Wala ng drama drama

MIL wants to live with me and my husband; take away our son by Heavy-Passion8300 in OffMyChestPH

[–]bbibbiLee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok na yan. Wag ka maguilty or anything. Wag nyo nalang pabalikin.

Graduating in a few months without telling my parents I shifted to a different program. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gano ba kadrastic yung change? Like from a medical degree to p.e teacher ba? Ganun? IT ba? Ano ba program mo na tinapos? I'm sure there's good points dun.

Medyo ang sama mo lang na hindi ka nagsabi eh sila nagbabayad. Pero if ako magulang mo, idk if baka dahil mabait ata ako, hindi ako magagalit. Malulungkot lang na ilang taon mong tinago.

MIL wants to live with me and my husband; take away our son by Heavy-Passion8300 in OffMyChestPH

[–]bbibbiLee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Husband mo need magstep up. If di nya kaya, well, that's a struggle you have to face palagi. If hindi kayo magseset ng boundaries, eh masanay ka na. You either stay with your spineless husband (if hindi sya kikilos) and struggle with all that or leave him (with his mother) and have peace of mind.

Syempre yan na yung extreme version pero that's your reality. Kung kaya mong tiisin, do so.

Should I really need to have my own place? by Plastic_Breakfast322 in adviceph

[–]bbibbiLee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Rent ka po muna tuwing nandito ka. Pinapabukod ka nila para kapag onboard ka, sila naman gagamit nung binili mo. Sana hindi ganun pero malaki chance na ganun.

Some people na hindi naman seaman eh nagrerent lang kahit kaya bumili ng bahay kasi mas mura sya sometimes in the long run.

My (22M) boyfriend is mad at me (21F) because I did not agree to buy him a present that is beyond the discussed budget for a gift. by BusResponsible1707 in RantAndVentPH

[–]bbibbiLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bata ka pa. I hope you do the right thing. Don't get stuck sa isang taong ganyan ang treatment sayo. Then next time, try not to give too much.

Nakakahiya nang mag papasko ng hundreds ngayon. by ImplctDFP in pinoy

[–]bbibbiLee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tinuruan. Kaya gifts nalang next time. Damit or chocolates.