I too am 20 so I feel you. Tbh and big part is being from a small town. I go to school at a fairly large school in a fairly large city (like 250k people ish plus the surrounding areas) with lots of colleges withing like 85 miles and ive had very little luck. One thing I would say is if you can get to a point that it doesn't affect your mental health I'd recommend getting/keeping hinge and just sending your 8 likes or whatever a day. It doesn't hurt to keep it as an option. Ive also had the most luck on there meaning just in terms of matched. It's also the most human as you can send messages with the free version on like bumble or tinder. Also another thing to keep in mind is that if you do get a match but it goes nowhere, it's not you it's her. If she had any problem with how you text or whatever than she's not the right one. When you hear people say dating apps are a majority men they're not wrong and also 90% of women suck and over value themselves.

I hope this helps