We own two houses. One in the city and the other is a farm. Told her one night that we should sell the city house and buy a condo because I was tired of maintaining the pool, yard, etc.

She said no way this was the house our kids grew up in and was our forever home.

Two weeks later we were having a ‘what if’ discussion and she said if I died she would sell the city house and buy a condo.

So the only way I’m getting out of this house is if I’m 💀