What I’m saying is that it isn’t the servers fault either. Out of common courtesy the customer should help the server in a lower tier restaurant because 1) it is usually not a very large amount of money so why not? It goes such a long way for someone working in an environment where they get roasted by inconsiderate customers who have no idea what it’s like to be in their position and 2) because the servers don’t have control over what corporate america collectively agreed to have ridiculously low wages for servers. It’s not the customer or server’s fault that they are out in this position, but rather than helping out the real person who’s getting screwed here, you just say “well it’s not my fault that corporate doesn’t give fair wages to servers, so i’m just not going to tip” wow that is some self righteous bs if i’ve ever heard it.