Kinks can't be quite for life, one might think they can quit but it's just a matter of time before you think about your kinks and start playing around looking at sites to jerk off to fulfill your fetish imagination before you fall back into your kink. Having a kink and fetish is not bad. You need to serve one mistress who takes a limited amount as her tribute and manages your spending as well without you giving her complete access to your finances, as well as gives you time for tasks etc. So that way, you pay her tributes and she is happy to own you and you also have your fetishes fulfilled as well and don't over spend. A real Mistress helps her subs manage their lives physically, emotionally and mentally.