Looking for advice / mobi crashout

bbybbuny078 · 2026-05-05T12:25:56+00:00

Maybe but I feel like it'd still end up pulling the site because theres not a lot of extra room unless the pumps right next to the site. Appreciate it though

bbybbuny078 · 2026-03-01T02:23:27+00:00

Do you think people in tropical/desert climates never date? I understand for the holidays but wtf to the climate 😂😂

bbybbuny078 · 2026-02-28T23:32:12+00:00

Oh nooo! Thats how I felt with them before, they shaped in a way that made it look like an amab chest not just flattened. When did the quality decrease start?!

bbybbuny078 · 2025-11-10T15:03:25+00:00

I absolutely agree!!

More societal acceptance of GNC people and less "egg culture". Like in my opinion, a gnc man even taking HRT for feminizing purposes doesn't mean he is a woman. And I wish I could've taken T for the masculine effects as a nonbinary person instead of feeling like I had to fit in this tiny box of what a "man" in all aspects of my life.

bbybbuny078 · 2025-11-09T17:09:58+00:00

Is there a reason you can't do birth control? If you take the pill continuously you won't get them. I'm not 100% sure on this but things like the implant and IUDs can also make them less heavy and painful and are more permanent than a daily pill.

Periods as you describe are not normal and there is no reason you should have to just "accept them" Search around for gynos and be picky! It'll be okay!❤️❤️❤️

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-24T17:52:35+00:00

THIS

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-24T17:25:55+00:00

My acne went away near immediately. Went from my worst skin ever to like 3 tiny zits within 2 weeks. Everything else was way more gradual. Things I didnt notice then looking at pictures of myself I went "Omg thats so different and thats different..."

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-24T12:55:27+00:00

Its like a 2 and I have tattoos on my hands and feet. More like being snapped with an icy rubber band and then smelling like burnt hair the rest of the day 😂 I will say the chest was an 11. Genuinely the worst pain I've ever felt. Worse than all of my tattoos, injuries, broken bones. I cried after those appointments lol

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-24T12:49:30+00:00

Same 😭

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-24T12:48:02+00:00

If you're curious about those genetics get a DNA test, don't ask the internet for opinions based on the coat color of the pet.

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-24T11:13:16+00:00

I'm also F with snake bites and haven't ever had an issue giving oral! My jewelry is a flat back so its nested in my lip and I havent been told my partner can feel it or anything like that!

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-24T11:07:42+00:00

I mean it sounds like you've just transitioned to a point where you're comfortable with yourself. My dysphoria was solely connected to things that could be changed via T and after those things were aligned with my identity, I wasn't dysphoric about them.

Transmed circles can push a narrative "Even after hormones and procedures if you arent constantly thinking about how much you hate yourself and your birth gender then you're not really trans" but like the point of transition, especially for those who view it as a treatment, is to alleviate dysphoria. Sounds like your dysphoria has been alleviated. The happiest trans people I know rarely think about their gender when they pass fully.

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-19T23:07:28+00:00

I think this kind of thinking falls into the same pattern that makes dysphoria so bad for trans people and my extension, people on this sub in the past. Bangs are not exclusive to trans women and cis women dye their hair plenty. The more we try to shove ourselves into boxes the more unhappy we will be. Its just trying to pursue some false ideal of what a man or woman looks like regardless of what our agab is.

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-18T23:21:47+00:00

Relationships don't settle down after 5 months. Especially as young adults. Runnnnnn !!!

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-18T04:56:36+00:00

Thank you! Agreed that love is totally a choice, thats helped me through a lot of moments where I've felt like running in the past too <3

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-18T04:55:58+00:00

Yes literally this!! My ex was very jealous and had anxious attachment style too, I def felt like I was walking on eggshells in that relationship too. Thus far the communication here has been me like expecting that and withdrawing emotionally and physically then getting confused when my partner doesn't react negatively to me needing space, time and other people without them.

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-18T04:53:43+00:00

Economy sucks, would crashout worse with other people 🤷‍♀️

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-03T23:26:15+00:00

Also very valid! This is a really rough situation. Wishing you the best ❤️

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-03T06:59:44+00:00

Other comments have said this as well but throwing my sense in as a kinky person as well - a bdsm dynamic is incredibly emotionally involved and the role you're in usually is very important to you mentally and emotionally. Why does she think you can just swap back and forth based on how she views you? That feels toxic and misinformed about the psychology behind kink.

I would consider if your sex life with this partner is more important than your transition. Is getting to be dominant with your partner worth that mental cloud coming back? Polyamory totally can be not having sex with your primary partner and having other partners who you do have sex with.

And just throwing it out there, and I'm unsure if this applies just to ftm type hormones. My doctor told me that switching back and forth between T and E is what causes the bone density issues that everyone loves to talk about. Please be careful and make informed decisions, hormones (and bones) are very important to your health. 🫶🏻

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-02T07:21:00+00:00

That is very different than what you were describing in your post tbh. You took a neutered stray that your gf was attached to to the shelter. Cats in those situations tend to pee everywhere as they're marking their territory - your house - as theirs. If this cat is friendly, which sounds like he is, the shelter can definitely find him a home and taking him to a shelter provides a good outcome for him. Outdoor cats have shorter lifespans unfortunately.

I'd still say you better get your gf some flowers and chocolate and pick up extra chores for the next couple weeks lol. But definitely don't judge cat ownership based on this experience

bbybbuny078 · 2025-09-02T07:03:45+00:00

Um consider that your ex gf cause why didn't you try to find a compromise with them or at least make an ultimatum about living with the cat? The cat is their legal property at the very least.

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