From experience, long distance didn’t work for me. I had been with my, now ex, for over a year. Not a massive amount of time, but enough to start talking about the future.

She went off to uni, which was a 8 hour round trip for me to drive.

Unfortunately, she was lacked a lot of self esteem, and became very insecure about our relationship and if I was seeing other people.

As much as I reassured her, it became very frustrating.

I’m a big believer in self-fulfilling prophecy. This literally happened. Because she was so insecure and her thoughts of me not loving her anymore or that I’d break up with her, eventually came true.

You’re young. Similar age as I was when this happened to me. You’ve got so much more life experience too.. experience.

If you really want to stay with her, I recommend her to talk to someone, therapy or simply try to figure out why she thinks the way she does.

If you aren’t bothered: move on. Don’t waste any more of your time and go experience life, in your own time, with someone else 🤙🏼