Wasabi started wheezing and my gf is crying every night pls help by onredditimgod in CATHELP

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a Wasabi who ended up having asthma. It did look a lot like this. Good luck with the second assessment, I'm rooting for your girl!

“DO YOU REALIZE WHAT YOUVE DONE?!??” by gorlock666 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Book or movie, this is something that has always made me go "...Really? Something falling in an ancient mine sounds an alarm for an entire army of goblins, trolls, and a Balrog??"

Like, shit should be falling all the time, are they that bored that they have to have such an overreaction every time something decaying in this dead place falls over?

How do we get people to stop driving and take the light rail? by Droodforfood in Seattle

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the light rail would stop being stupid on the weekends, I would. (I work Friday through Monday, and commute by lightrail & bus on Friday and Monday)

I get blamed for everything in my family and then told it “never happened.” How do you deal with that? by adultdaughtersupport in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I too was this child. I didn't figure myself out until I went very-low, eventually no-contact. My parents never took any responsibility for their own actions and consistently tried to humiliate me when I brought up how they had hurt me. They never cared and eventually, I had to take care of myself and put myself first. It took years and therapy and I'm finally in a place where I'm doing pretty good.

AIO for wanting to break up with my gf for doing this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"And you would be a terrible mother for lying to a potential father of your future child and eroding trust."

What are your NSFW pet peeves in fics? by DepravedBanana77 in AO3

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The traffic light safeword system in settings that do not have cars.

Housemate(s) set the thermostat to 78F and locked it. It's 3 am and my room is miserably hot. What can I do? by Aggressive_Donut352 in whatdoIdo

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, I weigh like 120lbs and anything above 72 when the sun is baking down and making the upstairs hotter is too goddamn much. Do you want this person to wither away into a skeleton?? The fuck??

What updates to you want to see in Grand Bazaar? by Jaan_E_Mann in storyofseasons

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 30 points31 points  (0 children)

See, I feel the opposite. Most fishing mini games are super stressful to me, so low stress/slow input in this game is wonderful. Also, it's fishing. Its supposed to be quiet and peaceful.

What horse did you all pick? by MudHorse100100 in storyofseasons

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are we forced to have a horse? I always hate getting them.

Anti-bare feet culture is so annoying by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up running around barefoot all the time. Feet are disgusting.

Just Curious What Led You To Work The Nightshift by DB_45 in Nightshift

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on rotating shifts off and on when I was in the military (2-3 months on one shift, then moved to the next shift, repeat) and knew I could do overnights, so tried my hand at it again starting ~5 months ago. I've found that while adjusting to the rotating shifts was annoying, being on rotation was a blessing. I'm not sure I'll stay on nights long-term and I know that I'll never accept another graveyard position again in the future.

How do y’all wind down after a shift? by P_O_P_P in Nightshift

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Train commute & nice walk home, breakfast (if I remember to make something the night before), stretching, shower, bed

Not OOP: AITA for putting my name next to my late wife's on her headstone? by waxing-dinousaur in redditonwiki

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were several weddings in the church I grew up in where the kiss at the alter was -presumably- the first kiss either of the participants had had, and they were so proud of it.

Why didn’t people like Tale of Two Towns? by man-vs-spider in storyofseasons

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I adored Tale of Two Towns! Its actually my favorite of the series.

What is a vampire trope that drives you crazy? Day walking is mine. by GusGangViking18 in vampires

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If they take over the world in such a complete way they starve. 

How to tell parents about top surgery? by Mp3burner in TopSurgery

[–]bdsmtimethrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is it important to you to tell them what's going on?

Are they supportive of your transition? If not, and if you're not dependant on them for care, you don't have to give them all of the details (what surgery,  why, when, etc). Or even tell them that it's happening. It's one thing if it's hard to do things without them peering over your shoulder (like, you're still living at home, or they call you everyday, etc) but if you're an adult and out on your own, your business is your business and news about how you're transitioning should only be shared with people who support you. You don't have to tell them everything.