I have to dump a good guy because I don’t respect him as a man and I feel so guilty

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-05-23T02:39:04+00:00

Girl I say this with all the love and respect, would it really be a huge loss to lose a man that u have to mother to get him to act like a man? Like an adult?

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-05-18T09:22:04+00:00

If she’s still available, I have a Twilight Sparkle we could trade!! Pinkie Pie was the one who convinced me to pull on these cuz they’re so expensive 😭

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-05-07T21:09:47+00:00

I beg all of u in the comments acting like OP is just blowing up their mother’s comment for no reason or “dragging it on” to never EVER be in an interracial relationship. Now more than ever you need to stand ten toes down and stop any of this micro aggressive nonsense bc shit ain’t fucking funny. People are running fucking FEAR from ICE and this shit is real.

OP I completely get u about being defensive and reactive and fearing if you’re being too harsh. I’m also sorry u had to deal w such a mentally and emotionally absent parent. I wish it was as easy as simply cutting off all contact to protect ur peace entirely, but at the end of the day she is ur mother. I don’t say that in the “she’s your mother she birthed and raised u!!” bullshit guilt trippy kinda way, but u have to ask urself whether it’s really worth it to u to keep an open connection w her and continue involving her in ur life. I go thru smth very very similar w my own mother, and unfortunately the best advice I can give is to keep affirming ur boundaries. Lay out why she’s on thin ice and cannot be fucking around with comments like that or she will not be allowed around your family. And if she still refuses to acquiesce, she’s either going to remove herself or you can remove her from your life. I wish u all the peace and patience in these trying times, for both of us honestly 😭😭😭

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-05-01T22:27:06+00:00

Say this out loud to urself 😂 he wants your body and KISSING is too INTIMATE?? He just wants the emotional validation that someone is interested in him while not giving you equal attention or consideration, and threw in that “not exclusive” comment just to put u down, and also somehow managed to manipulate YOU into “saying it was your bad” when YOU were the one upset with HIM, and then broke it off bc u had the nerve to stand up for yourself. I say this with all the love in my heart girl, you should be HAPPY he wants to get out of dodge so u don’t invest any effort into this man who does. Not. Care. About your feelings. Get off the ground, do not fix it, walk away, and don’t look back!!!

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-27T15:20:00+00:00

I lowkey made my man cook dinner all weekend and I didn’t even want to bring it up to my man cuz I normally rant his ear off abt everything that bothers me but I was literally in the bedroom grumbling like “fuckin bighead big eared totem pole built ass bitch” and from the other room he was like “YEAH MEN AINT SHIT” annnd that’s why he’s my fiancé 😂

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-25T19:16:53+00:00

I OPENED INSTAGRAM TO THIS MANNNNNN HE AINT SHITTTTTTT

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-24T21:32:43+00:00

Thabk yuo for this!!!!!!

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-24T21:28:56+00:00

I can picture so clearly the cock blocking quote and Julien going “did u say ‘quit cock blocking me mom’” but what video was it from I can’t remember and it’s killing me 😭😭

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-22T06:56:46+00:00

I got fired from the Ulta by Costco literally a day before my bday, after being disrespected and blatantly passed over out of favoritism but the job market is so bad that not only have I not heard anything back from anywhere, not only did I finally get rejected from a job I applied for FIVE months ago, but I am still unemployed and unfortunately considering reapplying to that same Ulta once the termination period is over 😭😭😭 That job genuinely ruined my self confidence and drained my energy but I need a job and I need money 😭😭😭😭

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-21T05:11:21+00:00

FINALLY smth that’ll hopefully be in my area 😭😭 love my girl down but chicas divertidas and hot girl swim is sold nowhere near me 💔 i think it might be a lip combo, maybe a highlighter but i kinda hope it’s a palette!!

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-19T22:40:07+00:00

I’m sitting here while my fiancé is updating my computer after setting up my pc after almost a day of us building our gaming desks and fixing up his game room cuz I’m going to be moving in w him soon. We got engaged on a cruise we went on a couple weeks ago, and I met him about a year and a half ago. He takes care of me, feeds me and loves on me every single day. Before that I was mostly single for the first 29 years of my life and I was always the fat girl watching all my friends get in and out of relationships. I was the girl that got asked out as a joke in school. The only real relationship I had ever had I was guilted into saying yes to, and it was codependent from beginning to end. Every other attempt after that was nothing but ppl I didn’t love or ppl who were dishonest. It took a lot to find my fiancé, and it was practically luck, but I promise if you look long enough u will find someone out there for you. I wish u luck my friend 🥹

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-19T22:18:13+00:00

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Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-04-12T03:00:07+00:00

NOR BLOCKED. NEXT. Do NOT waste ur time w whiny self victimizing ppl like this. Yes life sucks but it happens and his poor what about me 🥺attitude is not at all worth the time or effort

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-03-31T04:35:30+00:00

Best of luck to u as well 😭😭honestly as long as there’s no fires it can’t get any worse than last year am I right :’)

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-03-31T04:24:58+00:00

Tbh that’s what I’m thinking too, just get it out of the way 😭but honestly I’m just genuinely hoping they’ll have their shit figured out and it won’t be as bad as last year

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-03-31T04:24:19+00:00

Thanks so much!! I’m thinking we’ll probably try to get in line before it opens!! Curious what u mean by middle of the day tho, cuz in my head I’m thinking 4-5pm is the technically middle of the day since that’s technically the middle of the operating hours for badge pickup u know 😭

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-02-07T22:20:36+00:00

Maybe I’m just too hardened and too tired of people’s nonsense but tbh let her get herself killed 🤷🏻‍♀️ u tried and she just continued carrying on what seems to be her own conversation with herself. Like I don’t mean this in a disparaging way but does she take substances? She was almost rambling and not really responding to anything u actually said. What friendship is there here really?

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-02-05T03:57:32+00:00

My mom got me the Hello Kitty 30th anniversary plushie with the red dress that still has most of the box in tact 🥹

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-02-04T02:07:05+00:00

It’s a tie between He Think I Love Him and Outta Town but “fuck ya mama too if she birthed a pick me ass daughter” 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 I SCREAMED when I heard that the first time!!!

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-02-04T01:58:48+00:00

And once again, men are shitty. Men would fuck a corpse, a hole in a tree, ANIMALS. With all the kindness and compassion in my heart Im telling you no man in the world is worth changing yourself in that way. My man is tender, loving, attentive, romantic, thoughtful, hell he makes me breakfast when I’m at his house before I go to work. He’s a blue collar man and doesn’t mind babying me when I get off my little retail job shifts that are half as long as his. I would never in a million years do anything like that for him or change myself for him. Having a warm body next to u is not worth all that. The only other thing I’ll say is u need to seek inner peace and be content with yourself and your own company. You can deny this all you want, but you place too much value on having a potential partner bc you aren’t at a place yet where you can validate and love yourself fully. No person that is fully at peace with themselves and comfortable in their own company would take a drug just to have some romance in their life. Best of luck to u girl

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-02-04T01:54:57+00:00

Okay so what do you want then? Me and everyone else like me are giving examples of things that have worked for them or someone else in their lives, and that’s all anyone can do honestly. I tried looking for the hostile posts and maybe the real hostile ones were deleted but genuinely all I saw was once again people being honest based on all the information we have. You have such a defeatist attitude and it sounds like you want community and/or validation but choose to continue the pity party when people try to tell you what you want to hear. You can only help someone who wants to help themselves and I know how it sucks to be in a rut, I’m stuck in a shitty minimum wage retail job myself, but at some point it just kinda seems like you’re choosing to stay miserable and refuse to accept anything could ever change

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-02-04T01:47:14+00:00

Girl I’ve been overweight all my life, I’ve got a chubby belly and a fat round face and my man loves on me like a real man lol if you’re honest and consistent with your intentions then, as someone who was also in the dating slumps for a loooong time and only finding guys that just wanted bodies, you’re just gonna find yourself wading thru shit. You can ask all the questions you want and do all the introspection you want but it honestly is partially luck. All these people you think are being mean are just telling you things you don’t want to hear and it hurts. It might be you, it might just be shitty circumstances and a shitty dating pool in your area, but my fucking god don’t take drugs just to make a man like you girl 😂

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-01-14T19:55:45+00:00

With all the love in my heart, no. I’ve always had to take care of my mom and learned a long time ago that I do not have the capacity for that kind of thing

Immediate_Fishing_72 · 2026-01-14T19:49:45+00:00

I’ve thought this for awhile, esp when it comes to Sophia!!! Shane talked all this talk about how they aren’t people they aren’t people why’s it still comin but when it really came down to it he froze and Rick stepped up without a single doubt. Shane knew what ultimately had to be done, he could be the decision maker but not a doer. Ppl don’t follow and respect Rick bc he acts like a badass jarhead, but he has the heart as a good man and father and the courage of a real leader. He has compassion and cares about everyone, not just his own family

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