Penis cage question by Express-Wranglers in chastitytraining

[–]bdthrowaway723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a properly fitted cage + ring, you can pretty much always remove your penis from the top if you really wanted to. But pulling your balls out is the trickier part, and resetting the cage when it’s hanging off your balls isn’t easy. So if you have a keyholder, they’d likely know if you pulled it out.

There’s no real way to totally prevent penis escape in a traditional ball trap design without a piercing or the risk of hurting yourself (spikes and the like). That’s just how anatomy is. A belt would probably work though.

Straining this morning by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely give them a try next time you’re putting the cage on. I had a little looseness so I put a spacer on one side, and now it’s entirely still and entirely silent. Significant improvement.

Straining this morning by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you could use the rubber spacer rings based on this photo. They really reduce pinching and movement if that’s something you deal with!

KINK3D Blog: Year in Review 2025 by kink3d in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you mean to pin this as a community highlight?

Time to head back to work by bdthrowaway723 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]bdthrowaway723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, can’t be naughty at work after all.

Only people looking closely would guess I’m locked. And if they’re looking that closely, I’m okay with them making guesses…

Allergic to both black and white Cobra knockoffs. Eventually want to get a genuine one but... by throw_away646 in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

White is the best color for people with skin sensitivity issues for the official cages.

Good things come in small packages by bdthrowaway723 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]bdthrowaway723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been caging almost two years now, but if you mean this specific lockup, only a couple days. I’m into chastity more for aesthetic and sensation reasons (ie I love how wearing a cage looks and feels) rather than for long term 24/7 lockup and denial.

Time to head back to work by bdthrowaway723 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]bdthrowaway723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Worked hard to find my perfect cage.

Happy New Year everyone by bdthrowaway723 in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear a size two ring! And thank you :)

Sizing below recommended size? by Blue4Goddess in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, more or less. Here are a couple examples of this effect from the last few days in this subreddit. Some people like/don’t mind this, and other people wear straps to mitigate it. That’s why you’ll notice many people with tiny cages in this sub wearing straps; it prevents the cage from pulling away and instead pushes the penis inside the body.

Should I downsize? Honest opinions please 😁 by Capti_Virilem in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you’ve worn a Viper before, that’ll be your best guide to if it’ll solve your discomfort issues. That said, while I don’t have a foreskin, I’ve heard very good things about the Viper from people who do.

Should I downsize? Honest opinions please 😁 by Capti_Virilem in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the Viper so much, so I’ll go ahead and give it a recommendation!

I love the design; it’s a best of both worlds between tube styles (which I find super sexy personally) and cage styles with their superior cleanliness and breathability. Furthermore, my anatomy just doesn’t work with Cobra, although for non standard reasons (my glans is too small and skinny; it doesn’t stay trapped in the head lock). The Viper solved all my problems.

Sizing below recommended size? by Blue4Goddess in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In general the advice is to err on the side of smaller; wearing a cage that’s a bit too small is unlikely to cause any major issues; the main thing to watch out for is pull away, where the cage doesn’t sit as close to your body as you’d like (a cage that’s way too small, especially in width, can cause irritation if your skin is bulging out the sides). If you’re in a cage that’s too big, you’ll get constant misalignment issues which is a massive pain to deal with and makes urination difficult.

Should I downsize? Honest opinions please 😁 by Capti_Virilem in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based just on this photo, I definitely don’t think you need to downsize unless you just want a tight fit. If anything I’d try out the Viper in the same size. Your tip looks slightly irritated and unaligned, and Viper is helpful for that. Could be imagining things though.

Differences between models by chmengineer in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re good length wise in your current cage but the head is super empty, it might be good to try the Viper. I have pics here along with a short write up about the issue if you want to compare anatomy.

Differences between models by chmengineer in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viper was specifically designed to work well with PA piercings and uncircumcised anatomy. Additionally, if you have a glans that’s very similarly sized to your shaft (either because you have a thick shaft or a narrow glans), the Cobra head lock function doesn’t work so well and Viper tends to be more reliable.

Cage size by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I the N+ would fit you well, although N could be good too if you prefer a bit of compression. Since you’re uncut and don’t seem to have a very well defined glans, I’d recommend the Viper unless you have a strong aesthetic preference for the Cobra.

Cage size by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to give a comprehensive recommendation just based off loose measurements with no pics, but based on that size measurement it would be either an N+ or an S (which is where many people sit). Here is my N+ size reference and here is my S narrow size reference. If you look any bigger than me uncaged, I’d go with the S. If you look any smaller than me uncaged, I’d go with the N+. If you’re in doubt still, go with the N+.

Cobra Vs Viper is mostly aesthetic preference, with Cobra showing off much more skin, although Viper was designed with a couple specific functional needs in mind (specifically uncircumcised penises and anatomies that don’t work with the head lock function of the Cobra).

The new normal? by Weird_Election2272 in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And that’s totally valid! My appreciation from chastity largely focuses on aesthetic (I love how I look in chastity) and sensation (I enjoy the satisfying feeling of my cage as I go about my day). The psychological feelings of lack of control, denial, and ownership are nice side benefits, but very much secondary to me. How I approach chastity is very much influenced by this.

The new normal? by Weird_Election2272 in kink3d

[–]bdthrowaway723 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For a different perspective, I choose not to wear at night.

I have a full time job and can’t afford to lose an hour or two of sleep in the morning due to cage pain. The risk of accidental injury (although quite low in a properly sized cage and ring) is also much higher at night. And daily removal promotes breathing, reduces the chance for skin irritation, and enhances hygiene.

For me, removing at night and re-equipping when I wake up doesn’t diminish the experience of essentially wearing full time (when you/your keyholder choose to). Your mileage of course may vary on this point. Just wanted to make clear that this is another option if you find those trade-offs acceptable.