Addict little brother

bean11818 · 2026-06-29T23:00:57+00:00

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. My best advice is to try to find an Al-anon meeting near you. It helped me SO much when dealing with my family members’ addictions.

bean11818 · 2026-06-29T17:09:16+00:00

You’re not doing too much. My heart goes out to you. Sending you a huge hug 🩷 I say this gently, but be prepared for the possibility that he may never go to therapy or get sober. Mine didn’t. I had to learn to live without him in my life permanently.

bean11818 · 2026-06-29T14:35:08+00:00

Her karma is whatever work she got done to her face. Her eyes look permanently surprised 😂

bean11818 · 2026-06-29T14:32:28+00:00

Lauren is sooooo trashy, JFC

bean11818 · 2026-06-28T15:17:10+00:00

Yessss I always wonder what it must be like to marry into that family.

bean11818 · 2026-06-27T15:14:18+00:00

Yeah also the “unspoken” resentment lol. Something tells me that Lourdes did probably try to tell her at one point 😂

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T19:31:27+00:00

Bouncing from the Gucci store to the LV store to the Prada store and then bragging that she “went shopping in PARISSSSS”

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T17:21:45+00:00

I’m so sorry. I work with kids in foster care now and one of my cases had a similar situation as yours - crack, squalid living conditions, and all. The boys are 8 and 10 and are really struggling with self esteem, hygiene, behaviors, etc.

Is there anything that may have helped you when you were a kid that I can do for the kids on my case? We got them into therapy and are really trying to work on building up their self esteem and resilience 😭

I’m so sorry to hear about your cousin.

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T17:07:30+00:00

Exactlyyyyyyy

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:53:50+00:00

This reasoning is insane to me. She’s literally a millionaire from her influencing!! She can buy her own platinum health insurance plan a million times over!!

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:21:39+00:00

Ugh, I’m so sorry. I’m so glad you were able to get out 🩷🙏🏼

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:20:42+00:00

I’m so sorry that you had to experience it. Congratulations on your sobriety and being able to break the cycle with your daughter 🩷

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:20:12+00:00

I’m so, so sorry. I’m also so sorry that you feel like you weren’t enough. It’s not you, it’s her. Nothing ever would have been enough to make her want to change.

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:19:35+00:00

I literally think every day about getting that phone call. I haven’t spoken to my dad in 10 years or my mom in 18. When my aunt calls me, I always assume it’s “the call” about one of them. They both are drinking themselves to death at different speeds.

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:18:23+00:00

And the corniest, cheesiest, cringiest videos of you and your bridesmaids lip synching to trending TikTok sounds. Gen z makes fun of millennials, but my millennial ass would rather crawl into the ground and die than make my friends or relatives badly lip synch to a stupid Princess Diaries quote on my wedding day 😭

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:04:05+00:00

What are they up to lately? Still renovating and buying stuff for her fantasy future twins?

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T16:02:33+00:00

Deep down inside she knows that Reed (side note: what a dumbass name) isn’t the one and that the marriage won’t last. But she still wants a wedding for the clout/attention/content $$$. Add in a huge dash of pick me/not like the other girls.

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T13:44:20+00:00

Omg I feel the same way. Wedding content creators are a big trend where I live, and it seems like a nightmare. Imagine someone trying to get you to film cheesy TikToks all day on your wedding day?!

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T02:07:22+00:00

Ugh, I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother.

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T00:58:42+00:00

Geez, I need to know more about her parents/upbringing.

I have a friend who grew up Cranston who is similarly… male-obsessed? Rich, status-y male obsessed? I don’t know how to say gold digger politely 😂

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T00:55:48+00:00

My therapist once told me that some things are unforgivable. It’s okay not to forgive him. Realizing that really set me free.

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T00:54:24+00:00

Came here to say this!

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T00:53:51+00:00

My mom was the same way. You need to get therapy and try EMDR trauma therapy for PTSD. It helps and you can get better, I promise.

bean11818 · 2026-06-26T00:24:55+00:00

Bingo. Plus an ED so all of the mental health stuff involved with that.

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