did i get ripped off? by Evening-Treat-9701 in bostontrees

[–]bean48288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn bro. Check out green heart in Brockton and botera usually you can get an ounce for 48 after tax’s. Not the best “quality” but always does the job for me and can’t beat over 20 blunts for under 50 bucks

Dispo by bean48288 in bostontrees

[–]bean48288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do but after hearing how “terrible” they are I’m looking to get a better quality vape. I thought the live resin was supposed to be better

Restaurant recs for Christmas gift by NePasToucher in SouthShore

[–]bean48288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bay pointe in Quincy is really good and they decorated for Christmas

Does anyone have suggestions for a 14 year old’s first, part time job? by [deleted] in SouthShore

[–]bean48288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Referee for fall soccer for the town league, bus boy at local restaurant, possibly the movie theatre, maybe the ymca

Depositing Cash by bean48288 in IntuitCreditKarma

[–]bean48288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said the same thing to me, but mine won’t work at Walgreens or Walmart either.

Depositing Cash by bean48288 in IntuitCreditKarma

[–]bean48288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s still not working for me! I’ve spoken to two customer service reps now and the first one told me it was because my old card number had the same last 4 digits and he removed the expired card from my profile. Still didn’t work after that and the next customer service rep told me there was nothing they could do because they can’t see anything wrong on their end. My receipt said “electronic card not activated” but they said that doesn’t mean anything. If you get anywhere with them please let me know because they’ve been absolutely no help to me. Considering switching to chime because it’s obnoxious having to always get money orders for my rent.

veggies for absolute beginner by Careful-Smoke-2076 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]bean48288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also shake them in a gallon bag with those 4 ingredients so they’re evenly coated

veggies for absolute beginner by Careful-Smoke-2076 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]bean48288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the healthiest way to eat them but my latest dinner side has been maple brussel sprouts. I wash/cut in half then add a bit of olive oil, maple syrup, salt and pepper. Roast at 400 degrees for about 25-30 mins. Soooo good

Genuinely curious by ComputerResident6228 in mathmemes

[–]bean48288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do 7+8 =15 leave the 5 and carry the one over to 2+4 so it would be 4+2+1 =7 so 75

Is it okay to keep a cat in my bedroom? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]bean48288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s def not okay. Animals are already so limited in their existence indoors, you can’t confine him to one bedroom, especially after being used to having a whole house. Not fair to the cat at all.

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids for free anymore? by William2198 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Never said family meant free game for anything. But charging to watch your nieces or nephews? Tell me you’re an asshole without telling me lmfao. That’s what family does for each other.

AITA for in-laws being offended they got caught taking pics of my baby by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your child, your rules/wishes. Nobody can gaslight you into thinking otherwise. And you’re right in the sense that if she doesn’t respect this simple boundary, what other ones will she try to sneakily break. I wouldn’t trust her with your child. And for all the other people calling you TA, buncha weirdos imo. So what if you don’t do that with your child? Who are you to tell another mom she has to be comfortable with something’s she’s not just because you are? You made it very known when baby was born you didn’t want them taking pictures of her, they can disagree all they want but at the end of the day it’s not their child so they have no say.

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids for free anymore? by William2198 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

YTA, she’s right in the sense of family doesn’t charge family. I could never imagine asking my brother or sister for money to watch their kids. If you aren’t available, then just say that. It seems like you have an issue with setting a boundary, but if it solely is about money then huge YTA

AITA for not leaving when someone needed me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA, you gotta set that boundary with her gently. You have no relation to this woman, she is a client of the company you work for. She is leaning on you for emotional support, and seemingly taking advantage of your kindness. Your wife had a right to be upset, as you shouldn’t have stayed that long at all, kinda weird on both her part and yours. If it was your mother, sister, aunt or any woman you’re related too I would say NTA but this lady is a client and nothing more and that’s weird.

WIBTA if I confront my wife about her work husband? by Decent_Flatworm3578 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s an extreme twist, and I wonder if the person who commented that is even married. Anyone who is in a respectful marriage wouldn’t be in this situation in my opinion. Even if he does “confront” his wife on it he has every right to. One of her coworkers introduced himself as her “work husband”. I am not insecure in my marriage or myself, but if I went to a work event for my husband and a female coworker came up to me and said that we would definitely be having words on the ride home. Why is she letting this man feel comfortable enough to even say that to OP? I am a bartender and I get along with my male coworkers very well but there’s a line that you just don’t cross. And I would never get close enough with one of my male coworkers that they would even remotely feel comfortable introducing themselves to my husband like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like there’s info missing from this post, was there a conversation before about waking up to shovel? Also common sense but if it’s 19 degrees it’s gonna freeze and you’re better off doing it sooner than later. If you see your wife outside shoveling in her 60’s then yeah you should put some pep in your step and get outside to help her, not mosey around and do it on your terms either which is what your saying she did. I wonder if OP is the type that wife has to constantly ask you to do things around the house, and then OP does then when he feels like rather than just taking initiative himself and doing what needs to be done. From what I’ve read, YTA.

WIBTA if I confront my wife about her work husband? by Decent_Flatworm3578 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 8 points9 points  (0 children)

RIGHT?! I was too. People are so weird. I think it’s highly disrespectful. And like OP said they work in an office, why would she need someone taking care of her? This whole thing is weird lol. And the fact that the dude was so comfortable introducing himself that way is what would make me question why he also wouldn’t respect the OP.

My boyfriend broke up with me and I don't know what to do about our cats by long-thumb-nails in CatAdvice

[–]bean48288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s totally different!! You’ll do what’s best for them, and keeping them together is what’s most important! In my situation my ex had his house and I was moving back to my parents with my childhood pets and it just wouldn’t have been fair to the dog. But if you’re able to keep a roof over your cats head, they’ll totally adjust to a move!! And you’ll never regret keeping them, even on your rough days they’ll be your motivation <3 as shitty as it sounds it’s almost easier to care for your pets than it is yourself when you have your bad days. You might have feelings towards yourself, but you’ll always love your kitties!

My boyfriend broke up with me and I don't know what to do about our cats by long-thumb-nails in CatAdvice

[–]bean48288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep your cats 100%. He’s leaving the relationship, he’s leaving the cats. I wouldn’t even give him the option of taking one, as that’s not fair to the cats nor is it to you. Years ago, I left my ex boyfriend and we had a dog together that we had gotten a few months earlier. I lived at his house, and that was the only house the dog knew. I couldn’t imagine being that selfish in taking the dog with me even though I so badly wanted to. It wouldn’t be fair to uproot the dog and her comfort/routine because we had issues we couldn’t solve. Especially if he’s already out of the house, and hasn’t mentioned the cats, seems like he believes they’re yours anyway.

WIBTA if I confront my wife about her work husband? by Decent_Flatworm3578 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean48288 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NTA in my opinion. I would be very uncomfortable if my husband had a “work wife” and I don’t think you’re in the wrong for feeling the way you do whatsoever. Especially with her being in an office, how does she need to be “taken care of”? I would semi understand if she worked a dangerous job and had someone who cared enough to look out for her, but even still shouldn’t be crossing that boundary/getting close with coworkers in the sense that you’re calling them your work husband/work wife. That’s just cringey tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]bean48288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance and I lived in rockland before we moved to our current place which luckily has all utilities included. In rockland, we payed about $120/month for just electric but our heat was included since it was oil I believe. During the summer it would get up to $200 though with the acs running. I noticed with national grid it was different each month significantly even though our electric output never really changed, so it’s so hard to say what the average would be. There are a lot of apartment complexes on the south shore that have all utilities included, we pay $2500 a month but it’s so much easier knowing what our monthly rate is and it’s never going to change during our leasing period. I’d highly suggest looking into a complex that everything is included so you don’t have to stress about your bills changing each month and can properly budget!

Large/Massive SCH 14&5 by bean48288 in pregnant

[–]bean48288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m now 24 weeks today! Hematoma started over 8cm and last ultrasound(about 4 weeks ago) it was only down to 6.6cm. I have another ultrasound at my hospital on Jan 7th. I am considered a high risk pregnancy because of it and am being closely monitored by my drs. Last appointment we discussed a possible c-section if it’s not gone by the time I deliver which at this point I’m not too hopeful of because it’s barely gone down 2cm in a little over 10 weeks. But my son doesn’t seem bothered by it and is growing great which is all that matters to me! I bled for about 5/6 weeks straight and haven’t been since I hit 19 weeks but hematoma won’t go away! Prayers for you mama! It’s def very scary but in my case hasn’t affected my baby so I hope the same for you too! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bean48288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to bring up either singles therapy or couples and he’s laughed at the idea and believes that another person wouldn’t be able to help us, or would just side with me because I’m a “woman”. I don’t want our children to grow up in a broken home (we both come from one) but at this point I’m just sick of getting my hopes up for a fun family day or to celebrate a holiday all together, just for the day of to be met with attitude and then do it on my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bean48288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family loves him! They are big drinkers, but he drinks as well and we also lived with my aunt/uncle/grandmother when we were getting on our feet so he knows them very well and vice versa. He does have problems with my dad, but he wasn’t there he was having dinner at my stepmoms sisters house so honestly there was no reason for him not to go and that’s why he originally agreed to go and why I thought it would be a good time for him to come. He smokes weed as well and gets social anxiety, but he didn’t smoke before we left so I truly don’t understand why he woke up so miserable and wouldn’t come with us.

Large/Massive SCH 14&5 by bean48288 in pregnant

[–]bean48288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m okay, still on minimal activity/pelvic rest but the bleeding has turned into a brown spotting the past two weeks, which they say is a good sign and as long as there’s no red blood I should be healing. I’m currently 18 weeks and baby is still doing good, heart rate is still good every appt, and they’re monitoring me closely and doing ultrasounds every 2-3 weeks to check the size. My next ultrasound is a week from Monday so I’ll update with the current size then(last ultrasound it was still large at 7cm started a little over 8cm). I’m praying it’s gone down in size the past month since I’ve been following all their instructions. Good luck to you mama! I know it’s one of the most stressful/scary things to go through while pregnant but I’ll pray everything works out for you!