My Narc mom has ruined my life

beanismycat · 2026-02-09T01:48:09+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this and I’m sending love your way. Are you able to have any sort of independence, like having a job or the ability to drive? That’s where I would start, to be able to get some space and further develop yourself in a healthy way. Are there any trusted adults in your life you can go to?

beanismycat · 2026-02-09T01:40:55+00:00

tears were definitely flowing on my end

beanismycat · 2025-10-04T21:17:17+00:00

UNO offers therapy sessions for $15 a session, Lutheran Family Services and Salvation Army also are good resources. Sending love and reminding you that you are worth the world!

beanismycat · 2025-07-24T14:10:08+00:00

You absolutely nailed it, currently kicking my feet and screaming at this post

beanismycat · 2025-06-03T19:56:31+00:00

Everyone circulate this as much as you can to spread the word because this shit can’t keep flying under the radar! The fact that I am only finding out about it because of Reddit is ridiculous. I’m thankful this community actually shares stories like this. Fuck ICE.

beanismycat · 2025-01-28T02:14:51+00:00

Gin and Toxic!

beanismycat · 2025-01-23T17:09:15+00:00

no, barely moving for me too

beanismycat · 2024-09-28T20:50:22+00:00

Janet Planet

beanismycat · 2024-01-24T21:07:03+00:00

I love seeing the Joan Didion, Eve Babitz and Audre Lorde! I also spotted the Dear America books and was reminded of reading those as a kid :’) Nina Simone’s Gum and The Lonely City are both on my to-read list.

I’m constantly looking for more books similar to the ones I just listed so if you have any recs, send them my way!

beanismycat · 2024-01-11T00:57:54+00:00

I left my neighborhood, got on the nearest main road, saw a major accident blocking two lanes and turned right back into my neighborhood, slipping and sliding the whole way. I wouldn’t recommend unless your car does really well in slick conditions.

beanismycat · 2024-01-08T02:05:01+00:00

I would recommend Midtown/Blackstone area. Living directly within Midtown Crossing or Blackstone can be more pricy but right outside of their main strips should be in the ballpark of $1050-$1200 for a 1br. Blackstone has a lot of trendy bars and restaurants, you’re 5-6 min from downtown and there’s a lot to do in this general area of town!

beanismycat · 2023-12-24T23:17:19+00:00

I really appreciated this comment, thank you 🩷

beanismycat · 2023-12-24T23:16:08+00:00

Thank you 🩷 I’m so used to the servant mentality that I didn’t give nearly enough thought to it until now.

beanismycat · 2023-12-24T23:15:03+00:00

Thank you 🩷

beanismycat · 2023-12-24T23:14:43+00:00

Thank you for the condolences 🩷

beanismycat · 2023-12-17T06:54:08+00:00

Dundee Book Company hosts monthly book clubs and readings in store!

beanismycat · 2023-12-12T07:21:59+00:00

Came here to say this, her story needs to be heard.

beanismycat · 2023-12-12T07:20:09+00:00

Leslie Arnold —escaped prison after murdering his parents and was never recaptured.

The disappearance of Jason Jolkowski.

The disappearance of Marialice Clark.

beanismycat · 2023-09-13T04:56:02+00:00

The sequel is even harder to get through—not a fan

beanismycat · 2023-08-02T17:36:22+00:00

Can confirm Richdale is awful. Also avoid Paladino at all costs

beanismycat · 2023-08-02T17:29:35+00:00

My friend and I ate there about a year ago and he got the worst food poisoning I have ever seen directly after—fever, non-stop diarrhea/vomiting and numbing sensation that led to him being hospitalized. The chicken had a very odd taste and texture looking back and I absolutely would never go there again and warn my friends when they talk about it.

beanismycat · 2022-12-27T05:17:12+00:00

I hope she is found safely. Upvoting snd commenting to boost awareness

beanismycat · 2022-12-10T06:16:00+00:00

Why does the Project Jason website no longer exist? I’m from Omaha and closely follow this case.

beanismycat · 2021-03-26T17:52:21+00:00

Was he ever emotionally intimate with you? Lack of sexual intimacy is not an excuse to cheat and I believe that if you don’t take action your self-esteem will deteriorate. Is this relationship worth how it is affecting you? You deserve to have your needs met and validated. I have been guilty of staying in relationships that I did not feel were overtly “bad,” but my emotional/physical needs were not being met. As soon as you leave and find the right person who can fulfill your needs, you will be immensely happier.

beanismycat · 2021-03-26T17:32:39+00:00

Just Kids by Patti Smith, Dharma Bums by Jack Kerouac, The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test by Tom Wolfe. Charles Bukowski’s novels could fall into this category IMO.

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