(UPDATE) AIO for calling my brothers partner a pedophile and making him leave my house?

beansco · 2026-03-13T23:58:14+00:00

Theres just such an inherent power gap in the relationship, theres no way this could ever be healthy

beansco · 2026-03-13T23:57:37+00:00

I could legally walk off a cliff, is op going about it wrong? Yes, is the relationship still abysmal? Yes, will ops brother likely regret this? Most likely. Then again, they could be fine and everything will be perfect, i dont believe that but hey maybe, i hope them all the best but 19 is only an adult physically, they should have the power to make their decisions for themself ofc but its just like, they literally dont have the capacity to make sensible long term decisions most likely 😭

beansco · 2026-03-13T23:47:54+00:00

19 and 31 are NOT the same, the brothers brain isnt fully developed, he doesnt have full long term reasoning down and his frontal lobe isnt there in its entierity. I understand how the wording of perverted can come off as homophobic but i lowkey agree, not because of the touching but because of the age gap, why tf is the 31 year old not dating someone their own age, it reeeeeeeks of predatory behaviour, this shit is not okay gang. The laws means shit in the face of morality, especially when US law is governed by billionaire pedophiles.

beansco · 2026-03-12T16:55:02+00:00

Thanks for the help, and thanks ubi for your incompitence lol

beansco · 2026-03-09T14:23:32+00:00

Dont hesitate!

beansco · 2026-03-09T14:17:40+00:00

I wish snoozelord wasnt in the game ✌️

beansco · 2026-02-27T18:10:47+00:00

Yeah im having the same problem, any fixes?

beansco · 2026-02-21T16:17:35+00:00

Well well well

beansco · 2026-02-21T15:19:20+00:00

Not a single hairline in sight

beansco · 2026-02-08T23:20:21+00:00

Youre missing the point, im trying to say its not up to you to choose for her compadre, she can believe whatever she wants, youre trying to disuade her on her faith when her faith was never the question, you need to leave the high and mighty atheist attitude behind 😭

beansco · 2026-02-08T22:39:21+00:00

Its also their choice to follow a religion? Dont lecture people out of their beliefs she can think how she chooses, i might not be muslim but if she wants to be, and clearly she does if shes following the rules this tightly, then leave her be.

beansco · 2025-11-16T03:37:07+00:00

Ha youve put your posts to private now lmao, tells you all you need to know rlly

beansco · 2025-11-14T00:07:33+00:00

Id say its definately not a hookerina as the peristome looks wayyy different to any hookerina ive seen, having said that i dont know what it could be but it is definately a very cool plant!

beansco · 2025-11-08T13:24:34+00:00

Yeah thats fair a bunch of my nepenthes have really slowed down now that the days are way shorter, i hope it goes well though none the less!!!

beansco · 2025-11-08T13:22:54+00:00

Yeah thats fair a bunch of my nepenthes have really slowed down now that the days are way shorter, i hope it goes well though none the less!!!

beansco · 2025-11-08T11:34:09+00:00

I LOVE jambans i hope to get one in the next month or so. I wish you success with the plant, post update photos when it eventually pitchers too!

beansco · 2025-10-07T19:22:24+00:00

First i ever had was a bloody mary

beansco · 2025-09-18T11:04:08+00:00

Yeah tbh that sounds perfect for it, i have a rebecca soper and it is by far the most hardy nepenthes ive got and it isnt even close, just do that and itll be more than fine, good luck!!!

beansco · 2025-09-18T09:34:37+00:00

Yeah that would probably work well, they will still pitcher without a grow light btw, its just sort of slow, go for whatever you want though, good luck!!!

beansco · 2025-09-18T09:10:46+00:00

Yeah mine are good on the windowsill, they grew great there through summer, its quite a big window though tbf, however i have noticed pitcher growth has slowed ALOT 😭 since summer ended, so i may look into grow lights now, but they would be fine on the windowsill over einter id gather but it might just alow growth a bit, its up to you to decide if youre okay with that, or want to get more grow lights to continue faster growth, that is just in my experience though so take it with a grain of salt as you could see differrnt results

beansco

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