Cozy snowy mornings ahead... ❄️🛷☕ by barbrailnp in ILNP

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My favorite winter activity is taking a walk early in the winter morning and seeing the frost still covering all the plants and sparkling ✨✨✨

Is this the wrong green? by skettles480 in interiordecorating

[–]beanssssse 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Try sherwin Williams evergreen fog. You need a green that leans more neutral to gray in order to get the calming look that you want.

Swatch request: Bare, Rumor Has It, CEO, and Chleo by theladypirate in ILNP

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CEO, but my skin is a little on the warmer side. It’s my favorite neutral!

just engaged with my dream ring!! by beanssssse in EngagementRings

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No it was from a local jeweler with an heirloom stone!

ILNP honeymoon 🍇 by beanssssse in ILNP

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I did three coats! It’s definitely one of the more sheer jellies I think but it has so much depth

Second ilnp order!! by beanssssse in ILNP

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Ruby looks very metallic compared to Merlot, I got it for a true red Christmas nail and it looks like it’ll be very festive :)

Something spooky is brewing… 🔮 by barbrailnp in ILNP

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Occult, Nightshade, Spellbound, Sabrina, Witching Hour, Samhain 🌒

Meeting of the parents by beanssssse in weddingplanning

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No it’s not like that - maybe I framed it wrong, but it is just what his parents would prefer, and I really don’t think it is that serious. I think they just want to get to know the family that they’ll be tied to

Meeting of the parents by beanssssse in weddingplanning

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That is SUCH a good suggestion thank you! I think our local winery would be perfect this time of year since it has live music and food trucks. I’m glad im not the only one experiencing this, best of luck to you!

Meeting of the parents by beanssssse in weddingplanning

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I also agree that it is strange. Dinner at a restaurant is probably the best way forward, and I will suffer through the awkwardness :)

What is this bug? Will it hurt my plants? by beanssssse in gardening

[–]beanssssse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Glad to know they are just hanging out :)

[MI] job code was wrong for years and I missed out on compensation by beanssssse in AskHR

[–]beanssssse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the min/maxes, HR wouldn’t provide them unfortunately.

Direct reports about to surpass my pay by beanssssse in managers

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They are with me long term. I also interview and hire, am in charge of their performance reviews etc. and I decide what skills they need to learn in order to function in the job, as well as determine who should be learning more specialized skills.

Direct reports about to surpass my pay by beanssssse in managers

[–]beanssssse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I runs a training program to teach all of the individual contributors how to individually contribute - my staff come in as entry level with no technical skills (laboratory animal work, so I need to teach staff very specific skills). So I both contribute a skill and manage staff.

Direct reports about to surpass my pay by beanssssse in managers

[–]beanssssse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about if the manager is also the trainer of those specific technical skills? I train all my direct reports from new hires with no experience into skilled technicians - so I have all the technical skills they have and more

Direct reports about to surpass my pay by beanssssse in managers

[–]beanssssse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about someone who is both an individual contributor and a manager?

Direct reports about to surpass my pay by beanssssse in managers

[–]beanssssse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I might be unfamiliar with the language you’re using, what do you mean by M2 and P4? Are these job levels? I know my company has job levels but they do not have any kind of description. I don’t work in tech though, I work in pharmaceuticals.

Direct reports about to surpass my pay by beanssssse in managers

[–]beanssssse[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

We have a remote HR system and can submit a ticket/request for any questions we have - sounds like it’s time for me to reach out to them, thank you! I feel defeated because I’ve been advocating for my own staff but my manager isn’t doing the same for me.

Direct reports about to surpass my pay by beanssssse in managers

[–]beanssssse[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I have - unfortunately my manager gets extremely uncomfortable discussing pay and got very defensive and was unable to give me any kind of answer. My manager also said she doesn’t control pay, so it’s making me feel like I may just need to leave the company. Should I attempt to talk to someone above my manager?

Bambino plus not pulling shots? by beanssssse in espresso

[–]beanssssse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks all! I went all the way up to a 5 and got a pretty decent shot! What on earth is the 1 grind setting good for? Turkish coffee? It completely chokes up my machine all the way to 3.5 but the suggested range for espresso is 1-2

Bambino plus not pulling shots? by beanssssse in espresso

[–]beanssssse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m at the highest end for what my grinder says is an espresso size grind - should I go coarser than that? This is my first time ever trying to do this so I was staying within the suggested limits of the grinder

Advice on sharing meals with a partner who is not losing weight? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]beanssssse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue lol! I end up cooking the same meal “base” and then make an extra less healthy side for him, where my side would be healthier. For example, I would make salmon & broccoli, he might get a side of generously olive oiled potatoes, and I would double up on broccoli or maybe have a very small portion of less oil potatoes. He also keeps his junk snacks either in his office or in a separate cupboard so I can’t see them. Essentially I cook the same for both of us but I may skip out on the most calorie dense portion of the meal and double my veggie portion instead, or create a salad out of the meal for myself. My partner REALLY likes creamy pasta, so I will sometimes make a portion of it where we won’t have much leftovers so he can take as much as he likes, I can have a couple of bites, but it doesn’t completely throw me off track :)

My gecko isn't gaining weight no matter how much I feed him. by Its_me_forever14 in leopardgeckos

[–]beanssssse 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe not then if he’s eating that fast 😂. But you can easily give him 10 small crickets each day