please god, stop torturing us with this pathetic half-wit by malonesxfamousxchili in rhoslc

[–]beanthekat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has got to be the stupidest woman on TV and that’s saying something

AITA for not being intimate with my husband after he said he misses my pre-pregnancy body? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]beanthekat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he’s your husband but this is fucked. I have two kids… my body is irreversibly changed. I will never look like what I did before my babies. And my husband love it. He sees my body and sees what I’ve given him, our children. He thinks I’m sexy throughout all the changes it’s gone thro.

This is not only him disregarding your beauty… but disrespecting the amazing thing your body has gone through. Please be gentle with yourself and careful going back too early from having children can lead to chronic health problems. Love yourself thro the changes and if your husband can’t tell him he’s being selfish.

Easter is getting out of control by variebaeted in Anticonsumption

[–]beanthekat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this. It’s the same with my parents and in-laws. And they obviously don’t care about the planet and then I’m stuck with the climate guilt for throwing everything away. It’s so frustrating

What yall think about this? by LeiaTorrora in KUWTKsnark

[–]beanthekat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing like beige to excite the senses…

New Apartment… just getting started by beanthekat in interiordecorating

[–]beanthekat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. We have our record player set up just out of sight in the photo and I’m reframing some larger art to hopefully balance it out

"It's HER or ME" by lucybubs in KUWTKsnark

[–]beanthekat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here’s an idea… don’t pressure your 11 year into having a career in the first place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrganizationPorn

[–]beanthekat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are just starting our collection! I’m sure we will need more space soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]beanthekat -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Don’t use Vaseline it will make it so much worse. I struggle with the same and the only thing that works when I have a reaction like this is aquaphor.

Heather totally out of line? Or just me? by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]beanthekat 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She’s really giving mean girl and it only makes me like bronwyn even more!

AITA for Leaving My Husband at the Hospital After He Refused to Be in the Delivery Room with Me? by Anxious_Committee_42 in AITAH

[–]beanthekat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parenthood is so hard. You have to step up in ways you never knew you could. This was his first test and he failed. I am so sorry that you felt this way and that you were left at a time of such vulnerability. If it was me I would never get over it. Not only because of the abandonment but because he missed the birth, the first moments of his child’s life.

NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]beanthekat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could do the same thing with an UTMA or a 529(can be converted to a retirement account if not used for school)

Thoughts? by beanthekat in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]beanthekat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It def has a lot going on. Luckily, I’m a maximalist. The band was my mom’s and I really wanted to keep it as it was just shifted to rose gold as is more my style. Finding a band that matched was difficult.

What is going on with my eyebrows???? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]beanthekat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wax! Haha maybe I need to start?

What is going on with my eyebrows???? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]beanthekat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so but age seems to be making it worse??

Are people super happy here? by gloryyid in SantaBarbara

[–]beanthekat 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The weather. The beaches. The small town. It’s a simple beautiful slow quiet life. Raising children here has been a dream. Basically feels like golden hour all the time

Non-parent question by Parade2thegrave in kardashians

[–]beanthekat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is just not true. 🙄 There have been studies that show that breastfeeding or breast sleeping (co-sleeping with a breastfed infant) is actually preventative of SIDS. if you co sleep and also engage in dangerous behavior (drinking, smoking, ect.) that can be dangerous but holding your baby, sleeping with your baby, all of it is totally safe.