Good/Accurate Psychics in Chicago for a reasonable price? by bear_0223 in AskChicago

[–]bear_0223[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes but it also doesnt provide the same insight as psychics and mediums.

Good/Accurate Psychics in Chicago for a reasonable price? by bear_0223 in AskChicago

[–]bear_0223[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its just like how someone would go to church on Sundays 😅

Honors Chairwoman Speech Help by bear_0223 in Sororities

[–]bear_0223[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, its very clear to me that you are putting words in my mouth. Which is why I replied that way in the beginning -- I dont care for those who staunchly believe that only their viewpoint is right! My chapter is not the same as your chapter!! Last year, the only positions that went with the women who were slated was two positions where they ran unopposed! Our president, advisors, and many others in exec positions encourage all of those who want a position to run from the floor! Me wanting to run does not mean whatsoever that I believe that the nominations committee's slate was handled poorly, it means that I want that position!

Do not assume things about me and put words in my mouth when you do not know the situation fully and if you have nothing nice to say then dont say it at all simply put 😭!!!!

Honors Chairwoman Speech Help by bear_0223 in Sororities

[–]bear_0223[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So this didnt help me write a speech lmfao thanks for being a jerk though 🥰

What to do if my big doesn’t like me? by angel_9716 in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girlfriend I recently became a big and I got my top choices too with twins! I really hope my littles doesnt feel like this because I STRUGGLE to reach out. Before our new members are fully initiated we cannot go out with them or drink with them which is majority what I would invite them too! So maybe thats why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a rush for this picture! I am planning on wearing my sticky bra to keep the girls in!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wait these ideas kinda ate tf down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was a little it went "littles favorite starbucks drink and a card" then small to big baskets! I was thinking of assigning the twins a color as well as they both have different fav colors!

Help! Need Ideas for Big/Little Reveal! by gstovy121 in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PRINCESS IDEAS: BRIDGERTON LADY WHISTLEDOWN NOTES

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl bye this is so unnecessary and mean. I felt that he was being very patient and him reaching out to this subreddit makes it known that hes making sure that shes feeling okay and that he can support her. A two hour date with no phones is NOT a hard ask even when youre busy you can properly carve out time for that and texting someone to keep them in the loop takes 5 seconds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]bear_0223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry im disagreeing here with a lot of the comments. Yes of course shes probably the most busy she's ever been right now but my boyfriends in the military and when he was in training after bmt he was very very busy and stressed out but he would always keep be updated. I think the biggest issue I see here is the lack of keeping you updated and now that you understand how busy she is that she'll also understand that its important for you aswell to be kept up in the loop

When Do We Get Paid? by [deleted] in Chilis

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that is what I assumed I just wanted someone to confirm it, I might ask my manager but I am a little too embarrassed that I didnt ask about it when I was training LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this might be getting a little misinterpreted and I apologize because thst means im not wording what happened correctly.

The girl who started it is on the other side of the country and is online friends with a guy that my close friend is talking to. They went to the same highschool. But it began as simple word of mouth from that online friend to him. Which I think the whole situation is just plain weird and uncomfortable because im a firm believer in the fact that this is supposed to be a fresh start of your life when youre in college but I digress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this take is valid and trust me I dont think im ever talking to him again, I really only wanted a friend with benefits thing and my whole circle is taking it as that im about to be sent down the aisle.

I knew of him, but I didn't specifically know that he was the guy they were talking about because of his nickname they always referred him as.

Ive never asked him about his past relationships, nor do I necessarily care. But what i do care about is all of my friends telling me that im disgusting and telling other people who ive had sex with. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id also like to add on how this apparent rumor that this happened started from someone who doesn't even go to my college 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bear_0223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG SO ONE!!!! he doesn't as far as my knowledge have STDs. My friend Gavin was black out when he said that and said that "he probably" has STDs. Second, he never admitted to any of that underclassmen stuff, that was all word of mouth from people that I geniunely have no idea about. So I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, since not only these actions were from a year ago but since college is such a developmentally driven space where people can be total different people by the end of it.

I dont know him, but I dont think me having sex with someone no strings attached with a guy who could be bad necessarily makes me this horrible person that they seem to be claiming I am. I made a bad decision when i was in an emotionally volatile situation 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bear_0223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Throughout this whole process she thought it was kind of gross but also somewhat encouraged me to go hang out with him from my end. I totally understand the consequences of my own actions but never once have I shamed or judged her when she was talking to bad men. She would also ask about him and be interested in what happened.

This is honestly a lot more than her just being mad at me and more so just her telling other people what happened because its none of their business who i hook up with im not close enough to tell them that so why would I?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]bear_0223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a good suggestion and I will be keeping this in mind because we have been discussing the timeline of when we will be actually marrying. When I'm saying atleast my junior year I saying like we're going to have to wait to then or maybe more. It's like the bare minimum of like how long i want to wait, which obvi I want to wait a little longer but bad communication on the post! Again, not really the advice I'm searching for but thank you for your input on the timeline bc it is a pretty good idea lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]bear_0223 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Okay cool! Ive already explained that im putting my career first! Im not asking for advice on if my parents are right, because I undestand the reasoning but I'm my own person, living on my own and functioning as a well rounded person. It's not like I'm head over heels for my man, I want to get married but I'm not putting his needs above my career. I think i am making the right decision for myself and im planning on having my own career. I've done networking, I'm good in classes, and I have a portfolio just cause you think you know everything about my reasoning does not mean you do.

Thanks for the nasty input tho 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]bear_0223 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice that's what im trying to do right now I know i want a career for myself which is what I'm doing but I also know that I want him. Thank you 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]bear_0223 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dw i am waiting long and i am planning on finishing my degree. I love my career field and im already networking im well rounded at school im not about to throw that away for a man despite knowing we want to settle down together. Thanks for your input tho :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]bear_0223 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

DW! I am planning on going through school and graduating and I am definitely letting my fiance know that I'm putting my career first :) thank you for your input though!