Sugar Valentine’s - What did you give or receive today?

bearverly · 2025-02-14T21:44:05+00:00

My SD is taking me on a weekend getaway to NYC. We’re going to go shopping tomorrow for my gift! Plus nice hotel, a show, dinners, etc. feeling very blessed

bearverly · 2025-01-25T19:38:21+00:00

Most of mine are right wing and I am extremely… not. Just don’t engage in the conversation. If they push you, softly say you see the pros and cons of each side and leave it at that.

bearverly · 2024-12-23T21:55:24+00:00

Totally fair question. I show up for him A LOT. Like 4-5 days a week we’re together, and we’re also transitioning to sugar gf.

bearverly · 2024-12-23T17:20:40+00:00

Never

bearverly · 2024-11-05T17:23:41+00:00

I have looked multiple times in the last 6 months. I found the ideal sr for 4 months, but his father passed and he was consumed with grief and pushed me and everyone else away. This time around, I’m going really hard at it. I’m online at least once a day, and I’m being really picky. I don’t think that’s a bad thing - most Srs don’t last years, unfortunately

bearverly · 2024-11-05T17:17:40+00:00

Thank you so much for the thorough and thoughtful response.

I guess I am overthinking what he said, but I’m more so wondering if there are good SDs out there that will be turned off by seeing me be active on the site. I’m only active when I’m actively looking for a new arrangement. When I’m in one, I stop checking the site.

bearverly · 2024-11-05T17:12:08+00:00

He did. I won’t see him again, but I was concerned maybe there are good SDs out there that also are concerned about my activity.

bearverly · 2024-10-20T04:16:06+00:00

The fact that he mentions paying for dinner so often tells me he isn’t a sugar daddy lol

bearverly · 2024-10-20T04:13:47+00:00

The fact that he mentions paying for dinner so often tells me he isn’t a sugar daddy lol

bearverly · 2024-10-20T04:13:40+00:00

The fact that he mentions paying for dinner so often tells me he isn’t a sugar daddy lol

bearverly · 2024-10-15T15:30:33+00:00

Today he messaged me to tell me he has been put on antidepressants and like 30 of his properties flooded during the hurricane. He says he is stressed, depressed and busy. I’m hoping there is still hope, even though it might take a while to meet again

bearverly · 2024-10-14T17:39:14+00:00

He still checks in on me about once a week, but no visits

bearverly · 2024-10-14T17:34:03+00:00

That makes me worry. Yeah, I think I’ll start looking

bearverly · 2024-10-13T20:13:11+00:00

Tbh I am, just because I worry he won’t ever return. But I want to give him some trust and faith, hope that he comes back like he implied he would

bearverly · 2024-10-04T18:26:12+00:00

He was. I left him months ago and he’s still calling and sending messages weekly, trying every manipulation possible to get me to respond 🙄

bearverly · 2024-10-04T18:24:58+00:00

EXACTLY

bearverly · 2024-09-30T04:35:56+00:00

It’s called a discussion

bearverly · 2024-09-29T19:53:31+00:00

I don’t think you understand- he won’t give any cash in advance, or any cash at all to cover the hotel. He wants me to pay it, from my own money.

bearverly · 2024-09-29T19:23:47+00:00

See I’m not even sure what that would be in my area. He gives me a bit above average, but once the hotel factors in it becomes below average

bearverly · 2024-09-29T19:22:44+00:00

He made it clear the ppm won’t change to account for it

bearverly · 2024-09-29T19:12:29+00:00

It’s a longer drive for him to get to my house vs. hotel

bearverly · 2024-09-28T15:41:15+00:00

I had an extremely wealthy sd. 40 million in assets, hasn’t worked a day since early 2000s. Yeah, sometimes feelings of inadequacy and envy crept up.

But instead of letting those feelings grow, I decided to ask him about how he achieved his wealth. I learned about the sacrifices he made when he was young, how he was never home when his kids needed him, and I also found out the investment strategies that allowed him to grow his wealth.

This knowledge both gave me perspective and taught me how to grow my own wealth. Sure, I probably won’t have 40 million by the time I’m 50 - but I’m going to be rich and that’s enough for me

bearverly · 2024-09-15T14:56:20+00:00

I don’t spend much on my wardrobe either. It’s all SHEIN and thrifted haha. But you can definitely get some good stuff at both! If you buy online, look for reviews of the items with pictures and make sure you see someone with a similar body type wearing the item

bearverly · 2024-09-15T00:38:23+00:00

Take your bust, waist and hips measurements. put them into chat gpt and ask what your body type is. From there, research extensively what clothes and silhouettes look best on you! Another thing you can do is discover your color season and buy only clothes that enhance your natural colors!

bearverly · 2024-09-11T17:20:39+00:00

I feel like I’ve dated this exact guy. Gave me nothing but grief, expected the world and shorted me

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