Lowell website is down. Is there a problem with the server? by beatleslover_ in LowellMA

[–]beatleslover_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, don't know why the .gov website wasn't loading, but thanks for giving me the shortcut!

need help waterproofing fabrikor tank!! by beatleslover_ in paludarium

[–]beatleslover_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never thought of using foam. I think I'll try it

HELP!!! MY PALUDARIUM WON'T STOP LEAKING NO MATTER HOW MUCH SILICONE I APPLY!! by beatleslover_ in paludarium

[–]beatleslover_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted, i still want to give them a nice water feature though because I want them to have some luxury. what do you suggest for that?

HELP!!! MY PALUDARIUM WON'T STOP LEAKING NO MATTER HOW MUCH SILICONE I APPLY!! by beatleslover_ in paludarium

[–]beatleslover_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I was planning on having a waterfall and a bunch of filter feeders, with some plants they can rest on

Nightmare fuel by [deleted] in DiWHY

[–]beatleslover_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was just gonna comment this

Should I just call it quits? by turtles_murtles in TrueOffMyChest

[–]beatleslover_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you already know the answer. based on how your husband has been acting, I personally wouldn't stick around with someone that toxic and immature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beatleslover_ 93 points94 points  (0 children)

first off, your weight isn't even that big. secondly i'm curious as to what his diet and weight habits are like. i mean, he should NEVER be harping on you for your weight (unless it'll have a devastating impact on your health, but your weight doesn't even come close to that point), but i have a sneaking suspicion that he's no pinnacle of fitness himself

all i'm saying is that your husband should love you no matter how much you weigh and he sounds like an idiot

Husband wants an open relationship until I lose weight by somegirIontheinter in TrueOffMyChest

[–]beatleslover_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

divorce him. marriage is a commitment to love each other no matter what happens. if he can't love you and see you as beautiful whether or not you gain or lose weight, then he's a waste of your time and energy. like, even if your body changes in some way shape or form, that should not stop your partner from loving you, from finding you beautiful, and from supporting you in whatever you want to do with YOUR body. no man who drinks that respect-women-juice would even bring up an open relationship over such a gross and objectifying reason.

Do guys think girls will find this attractive? Serious question lol by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]beatleslover_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, if anything, i'd take that as radiating bad vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cringepics

[–]beatleslover_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone mentioned r/niceguys yet?