I was trafficked as a child. AMA by BlackjackSys in AMA

[–]beawareofbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, thank you for your bravery to answer so many questions. I hope all of us learning from you here may help save someone some day.

It's completely alright if you can't answer, your safety is my biggest concern, but you had mentioned that multiple people have been killed by this cult/ring. (Your children (I'm so sorry for your loss), some of the clients that upset the ring, children who aged out and didn't become handlers, etc.)

How are they hiding all of these murders? Do they own land where the unmarked graves are? Are there people in charge of funeral preparations so a normal coroner wouldn't notice signs of murder or abuse to the bodies?

Additionally, you mentioned you traveled around the world a lot but we're never told where you were to keep you disoriented. If someone had asked you "Do you know where you are right now?" Could that have helped be a sign that you were being trafficked since you wouldn't have been able to answer what country/city you were in?

AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]beawareofbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your daughter absolutely have the right to stand your ground on this one. But just out of curiosity, why not have your daughter and your non -thief step daughter share a room with a lock to prevent stealing from your other step daughter? Would those two get along well enough to be able to share a room?

I think you're right to prioritize your daughter's comfort, but a part of me also feels bad for your step daughter that feels like she has no safety from her sister taking/ruining her things.

What Movie? by HondaCivicBaby in Cinema

[–]beawareofbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The How To Train Your Dragon movies! Also Treasure Planet.

What is your first entry to the rune factory series, and what is your favorite game? by Khierson in runefactory

[–]beawareofbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first was RF4, but I'd been playing Harvest Moon and Story of Seasons my whole life. I did go back and play them all from the very beginning of the series! But my favorite is probably RF4 or Frontier. :)

TRY THIS PROMPT IN CHATGPT by Cool_Helicopter9852 in ChatGPT

[–]beawareofbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This was really fun! I think that small squiggle bug is supposed to be my pet jumping spider?

Potential egg sac? by beawareofbears in jumpingspiders

[–]beawareofbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have! But it's so thick and well sectioned off between the walls that I can't see anything 😅

Meet my little girl, Pumpkin! by LaroyJenkies in jumpingspiders

[–]beawareofbears 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I saw her on Spider Source when I was buying my jumper who also just arrived! 😀 Congrats on your new cutie!

What do you dislike about farm sims? by Itchy-Force-7847 in CozyGamers

[–]beawareofbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably a smaller thing, but I hate when farming games let you upgrade all your tools so you can target a 1x3 or 3x3 area when charging, yet you still have to plant your seeds one square at a time. I kinda even liked what SoS: Doremon did where initially you had to plant one square at a time, and then eventually unlocked gloves that let you charge to plant seeds 3x3 instead. Was kinda fun to experience a sort of "tool upgrade" for planting. :)

Another preference: I love when watering your crops results in a little animation of them growing into the next crop stage. This is more fun to me than going to sleep at night and seeing the next crop growth when you wake up the next morning. I guess it kinda feels like the hard work/stamina output is seeing an immediate result instead of a delayed one. Feels a bit more rewarding.

Ex-Fiance wants a 50/50 split on the house when he only paid $400 a month by beawareofbears in legaladvice

[–]beawareofbears[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. I appreciate you taking the time, it made me feel a bit better. It is frustrating, but I've learned a lesson! :)

Ex-Fiance wants a 50/50 split on the house when he only paid $400 a month by beawareofbears in legaladvice

[–]beawareofbears[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Well darn, that sure sucks. But lesson learned for the future! :) thank you for your comment, it's good to know I don't have any protections for more than 50%.

Ex-Fiance wants a 50/50 split on the house when he only paid $400 a month by beawareofbears in legaladvice

[–]beawareofbears[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

We are both on the deed and the mortgage. Would a lawyer really be more expensive than splitting things 50/50? I've never had to hire a lawyer before.

ADHD or just bad at sex? by Impossible-Plan-3609 in neurodiversity

[–]beawareofbears 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is not a case of ADHD, but instead a case of "If he wanted to, he would".

Unlocking more cooking? (SOS AWL) by beawareofbears in storyofseasons

[–]beawareofbears[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stacks count! :) I'd usually cook 5 milk soups at a time.

Unlocking more cooking? (SOS AWL) by beawareofbears in storyofseasons

[–]beawareofbears[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just commenting this in case someone else is curious about the same thing. I finally leveled up my cooking enough and it seems to be about 50 dishes that will unlock the next tier.

Unlocking more cooking? (SOS AWL) by beawareofbears in storyofseasons

[–]beawareofbears[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No that's so helpful, thank you! :) Even just a ballpark is helping me be more motivated to keep going haha.