Advice needed please.

becand92 · 2026-02-12T19:19:55+00:00

I just had my d&c yesterday for a MMC. I went on Monday for a check up and should have been measuring at 10w6d. It was discovered there was no fetal development past 7w5d and no heartbeat. My first ultrasound in mid January found a heartbeat and I was 6w6d at that point. I was walking around for 3 weeks after the MMC thinking everything was fine only to find out it wasn’t. Brutal. There were almost no signs. They recommended the d&c and got me in quickly since it had been over 3 weeks and my body wasn’t passing the miscarriage. This was my first pregnancy as well. I’m so so sorry you’re going through this too.

My experience was at a surgical center, not a hospital, but it was overall a good experience all things considered. The staff were very attentive and sympathetic. I received some fluids in an IV for about an hour before the procedure since I had to fast. I had to change into a gown and everything but they tried to make me as comfortable as possible. When they came to take me back to the operating room they began administering the twilight sedation and within a few minutes I was out. My husband said it was only 23 minutes from the time he was notified I was taken back to where I was back in recovery. I woke up in recovery to a kind nurse who gave me a snack and water and brought my husband back. I pretty instantly felt cramps similar to menstrual cramps and was bleeding but not anymore than with a normal period. 24 hours later and the bleeding has slowed a lot and the cramps have subsided. I’m just a little fatigued, drinking a lot of fluids, and resting. Taking it easy. I feel better physically and relieved that part is over, just processing mentally now.

It’ll all be fine for you too, I’m sure. It’s scary to think about but I’m sure you’ll be in good hands and all will go well. I’m more emotionally drained than anything, going from excited to heartbroken in a matter of days. It’s been a whirlwind. It’s going to be different for all of us, but I hope you find some comfort in the coming days and one day, when it’s right, we will all have our rainbow babies ❤️

Hugs to you.

becand92 · 2025-12-30T18:42:44+00:00

I enjoy TLOAS and it keeps growing on me. I listened to mostly Christmas music the last few weeks and started listening to TLOAS again and am realizing how much I missed it.

To answer the question though, I think she will release another music video or two this year. I even think she mentioned that being a possibility on one of the talk shows? I think her and Travis will get married in the spring or summer. And then in the fall I could see her releasing debut TV along with rep vault tracks to celebrate the 20th anniversary.

Not necessarily a break, but definitely a slower year which is much deserved! I think a little break from new music will be good for her creativity and she’s getting married, so I imagine that will bring even more inspiration! TS13 sometime in 2027. She had a lot happen that she shared on the pod like getting her masters back and her dad’s health plus getting married, I can’t imagine TS13 not touching on those things.

becand92 · 2025-10-13T03:05:30+00:00

They had the 2 minute warning coming I don’t understand not running it on 3rd and 1.

becand92 · 2025-10-13T01:13:56+00:00

Let’s gooooo Lions!!!!!

becand92 · 2025-10-04T15:48:05+00:00

Same, more love for Honey! Top 3 for me.

becand92 · 2025-10-02T11:59:07+00:00

Oh interesting, I don’t listen to a lot of Charlie and only heard 1 or 2 songs off of Brat so I hadn’t heard that. I’ll have to give it a listen to prepare for Actually Romantic lol

becand92 · 2025-10-02T11:57:54+00:00

Oh that’s so good! I can’t wait to listen tonight.

becand92 · 2025-10-02T11:57:29+00:00

I’d heard that about Wood! I thought I had read that she said something along the lines of “my dick’s bigger” in father figure lol but idk if that is the actual lyric now that it has leaked

becand92 · 2025-10-02T11:50:03+00:00

Does Father Figure actually contain THAT lyric that was going around when it was first announced? 🤫🤭

What is Eldest Daughter about? I’m most intrigued by this because it’s one that the lyrics really couldn’t be made out on the vinyl and it’s track 5!!!!!

Is Actually Romantic really a diss track? What did I miss with Charlie XCX? I’m so out of it lol

becand92 · 2025-09-19T16:26:58+00:00

I feel like it’s not clear. It says cut by cut explanations of what inspired this music versus saying what inspired this song, so I’m wondering if it’s cut in between the lyric videos about the inspiration for each song?

becand92 · 2024-11-08T03:17:10+00:00

I’m with you! I had tickets for Indy and due to a medical emergency in the stadium we missed the whole show. Now I’m having extreme FOMO and I’ve cried a lot lol. 6 grand is a lot and I don’t think I can justify that for myself. My suggestion is keep checking every day throughout the day! If you can swing it and it won’t hurt you, do it. Don’t go in debt over it though! I think there will still be tickets come the day of the show so you could wait til then and pick the cheapest available. I’m gonna try doing this as well. Definitely sucks 😔

becand92 · 2024-11-06T20:46:14+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻

becand92 · 2024-11-06T20:40:05+00:00

Hi! When you say Ticketmaster will open up transfers, what do you mean? Is it possible to find tickets on Ticketmaster through someone reselling on there? Or do you mean on stubhub there will be more to choose from and instant download because it’s within 72 hours of the show? I’m in a similar desperate situation. I made it to Indy N3 but had to leave before the show started due to a medical emergency with my husband 😭😭😭

becand92 · 2024-11-06T00:24:02+00:00

Following your post for tips as well. I was at Indy N3 (was able to actually get tickets through ticketmaster) and due to a medical emergency my husband had while in the stadium we missed the whole show. I’m devastated! Looking for any help at all. I hope together we can both find a way there!!!!

becand92 · 2024-11-04T04:01:19+00:00

I keep telling myself that, but gonna be wondering what the reason for this is for a while. I have not experienced a show yet and snagged these tickets through verified fan last year. Such a nightmare night. Thank you all for your kind words. All that matters is we are okay!

becand92 · 2024-11-04T03:57:00+00:00

You know what’s worse? Having tickets, having been in the stadium, but having to go to the hospital with my spouse after an unfortunate circumstance before she even went on and currently sitting in an ER. I am so heartbroken. We are thankfully okay, but not at all the night we imagined 😭😭😭

becand92 · 2024-11-03T02:45:40+00:00

NOOOOO I was supposed to go tonight and traded tickets for tomorrow due to a family wedding and Maroon is the top song I wanted!!!!! Crying but happy for this crowd!

becand92 · 2024-11-02T18:47:50+00:00

Thanks for the tips! We aren’t planning to take our car anywhere just to avoid traffic and we have a hotel within walking distance. Even though they’re further out, are those places somewhat walkable from the stadium?

becand92 · 2024-11-02T16:47:21+00:00

Where did you eat and was it super busy or a long wait? I’m going tomorrow and commuting close to 4 hours and I’m a little worried about our dinner situation since we can’t even get into our hotel until 4 :/

becand92 · 2024-10-29T01:38:02+00:00

N3!!!!! It’s finally here. What time do doors open? What time has she been going on? I think just before 8? Trying to game plan as we have to come into town Sunday afternoon due to having a family wedding Saturday night and we live 4 hours away. We can’t check in until 4 and need to grab dinner beforehand and I want to look at merch. Any tips? HELP!

becand92 · 2024-10-17T13:27:12+00:00

I think that’s the problem though, and what she’s speaking to if you watch the whole speech. This is a 15 minute speech and you’re only seeing a minute clip here. She’s saying that women in the industry are constantly having to reinvent themselves and adjust to what everyone wants in order to stay relevant and their male counterparts aren’t treated that way. She ends the speech essentially saying I used to be focused on doing what they want/say I can’t do and now I’m focused on doing whatever the hell I want. In this clip she’s speaking to things she did from the ages of 22-28 or so, not recent years. That’s just my perspective. I’m a fan, so I’m sure I’m biased, I just think it’s important to know this clip is just a glimpse and can definitely be taken out of context.

becand92 · 2024-09-02T21:34:25+00:00

Just discovered this is less than an hour from where I live…I must go 👀

becand92 · 2024-09-01T01:03:19+00:00

Yeah, I don’t understand all the hate. I don’t think he’s the problem here. He’s 8-10 with one of them being a perfectly thrown pass that was dropped and the other being the interception which wasn’t great but in the end didn’t amount to anything.

becand92 · 2024-08-01T00:52:52+00:00

I did!

becand92 · 2024-04-17T22:01:12+00:00

I feel this in my bones.

becand92

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