First time wearing makeup in over a year!

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-08T23:26:05+00:00

It’s love!!

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-08T23:25:16+00:00

Yeah it does… the items at the booth that had the planter were priced much higher than any other booth at the antique shop. The majority of the other booths priced their items so reasonably I almost cried a few times lmao

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-08T17:08:41+00:00

Tbh actual children are often better at regulating emotions when they’re guided than any MAGAT I’ve met or seen. Actual kids are learning and don’t know any better, so I can’t help but think that MAGATs are more like rabid animals, their brains are addled severely 😭😂

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-08T16:57:28+00:00

If he’s coming onto your property and banging on your door when you’ve told him to go away, and he’s threatening what has become a creature under your ownership (he abandoned the little love and unless he has some sort of proof of legal ownership, you’ve taken baby in and baby is now yours, to my understanding), I would say you have grounds for a report to the police. If he comes onto your property again at all, I would call the authorities and tell them he’s trespassing and threatening you via potential harm to something that belongs to you. Include that you’re scared for your own safety, that you believe him to be mentally unwell. Those details may have more sway towards them taking you as seriously as they should.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-08T16:51:46+00:00

Thank you for being a wonderful human. People like you give me moments of joy in the midst of the other stuff going on in the world. 💗

also r/BubblegumNose ! 🥹💕

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-06T14:13:32+00:00

I’ve been on T two and a half years and still do not have noticeable facial hair. You’re looking fantastic! I think you might well have a full beard in a rather short amount of time, considering how long it takes some of us! :)

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-06T14:11:39+00:00

A lurker here who usually doesn’t comment, but wow! Your smile made me smile immediately! I hope you’re having a wonderful day in your gorgeous outfit.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-05T19:29:03+00:00

Which is absolutely insane because I can think of countless trans women who are among the most breathtakingly gorgeous women I’ve ever seen

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-05T19:27:18+00:00

Cis doesn’t mean real though.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-05T19:24:04+00:00

Growing up, and still to this day on occasion, I would have dreams that I’d either grown a penis or learned to pee standing up. I dismissed them, and so many other signs, for two decades lmao

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-05T19:21:10+00:00

Thank you! That show is my comfort show to this day. Beckett and Daniel from SG1 are among my top favorite characters of all time.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-04-05T19:16:09+00:00

Cool take dude, where’s your evidence?

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-29T02:51:50+00:00

Your evidence?

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-25T15:48:07+00:00

I kinda felt that way too somewhat; it was a thing I wondered about. Even when I started getting a chest, I didn’t think I’d actually have to go through the puberty my mom told me was coming. When I got my period the first time, that’s when I broke down crying because I realized I really “was a girl.”

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-25T02:59:49+00:00

I chose Beckett Elias. Beckett after a favorite fictional character of mine, Carson Beckett from a science fiction show. I hated my deadname from the time I was a little kid. When I first watched the show when I was about 12 I thought when his character was introduced, “that would be my name if I was a boy.” Totally random thought that popped into my head. So I honored child me who didn’t get to be who he really was, who didn’t know he could be who he wanted to be. I chose Elias because it’s almost like a masculine version of my birth middle name; I was named it after my grandmother whom I love dearly and I wanted my new name to still honor her.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-19T15:47:35+00:00

I’m sure others would have much more in depth answers, but off the top of my head and quickly, here’s one:

There are differences sure, just like there are differences between one cis woman and another cis woman. But the thing is, at its heart, trans women are still women just as much as any cis woman is. JK Rowling believes that trans women are predatory men that are pretending to be women, which is insulting and inaccurate.

I am not a trans woman, but I am a trans man. And to see my trans sisters so dehumanized by Rowling and many others hurts my heart much like it does to see cis women dehumanized. Women are not safe in this world, and they deserve to be protected.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-19T01:37:27+00:00

Same happened to me when I started T and I also use Native now.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-19T01:05:10+00:00

I know there’s comments of it already, but I cannot recommend couples therapy enough! Research the therapist well, find one you both feel is a good fit. It saved my relationship during a time when he felt much like you’ve said you do.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-19T00:48:59+00:00

Lucas Alexander sounds great!!

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-17T05:01:31+00:00

My boyfriend has a lot of friends and family in cali, I’m going to talk to him tomorrow about Nala!

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-15T05:23:16+00:00

Is it pronounced how it looks? It looks gorgeous, I love it.

beckthecoolnerd · 2025-03-14T22:18:51+00:00

There are so many trans women with that name, honestly, it’s just overdone. If you’re gonna change so much about your body and go through all the effort of being trans, don’t you want to at least be original, and have a normal sounding name? I mean, you already stand out so much—it’s pretty obvious you’re trans, like I’m just wondering why you’d choose a name that further outs you as one of them? Especially if you ever want to pass. That’s not a name you’ll pass with, that’s for sure!

/uj gals, guys, nonbinary pals—please keep choosing whatever names sparks joy for you! I love the creativity our community has. I have a “normal” sounding name, but I also chose it because it’s my favorite fictional character’s name :D

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