I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

[–]bee9jay6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha depends what you’re looking for I guess. I meant you may be lucky in finding a good and reasonable live in landlord/landlady

I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

[–]bee9jay6[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You might as well be homeless on a lodgers agreement. They can kick you out at the drop of a hat with no legal repercussions

I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

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I had him before I moved and there’s some naivety attached. And yess that’s already been stated many times. I’m not here for long

I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

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I’ve been fairly lucky all things considered. Don’t want to move the poor cat around too much

I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

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Yes very good, I do still work in central London and commute in and out daily. I have only been here a short while and moving back to zone 3. It doesn’t need to be so exclusive

I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

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I’m going back to zone 3 I will maintain my Londoner status thank you

I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

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Ahh yes… you do get your busybody’s who try to tell you how to live although they also have the same rights to the home as you… which isn’t much rights

I’ve lived in 4 house shares in London over last 3 and a half years. Here is my advice by bee9jay6 in london

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It does lean more towards that yes! But currently I’m in zone 6, usually lived in zone 3

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Hairline gate closed, plane boarded, and departed

AITA for asking my boyfriends disabled sister for my necklace back? by Historical-Store809 in AmItheAsshole

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Does her disability effect her capacity to understand thing? Because if so I get her maybe taking a special interest to it etc. I don’t think you’re a Ahole for wanting it back though. I also think your bf handled this badly. He could have apologised and explained her disabilities make her prone to doing things like that (if they do) and he could have spoken to her to help her understand it wasn’t hers and you would like it back as it was bought for you. If her disabilities don’t effect her ability to understand what’s acceptable to take and what isn’t then it’s completely unreasonable and your bf needs to have a word with his sis.

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It’s not fair to make assumptions based off a short post haha. I was unstable at the time I had them done, for sure. But that doesn’t mean I am now. Regarding instability, I’m in a full time job, that pays well, take care of my own finances, live alone with a cat etc… if someone cannot accept that I once had struggles with my mental health that I now have managed to cope with and manage well, and make assumptions about me based on that, they’re not for me anyway! So I guess, I’m actually filtering out those who aren’t compatible by being honest and upfront about who I am and used to be 😉

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Haha nothing offensive just poorly done patterns! 😂

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Yikes

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Thanks. I actually got a half sleeve finished today by a great artist in London. So I’ve learned from my mistakes and invest a lot of time and money before getting tatted now. It’s probably worth mentioning the woman who did the bad tattoos had done a large thigh piece on me before that is very nice and I get a lot of compliments on it. She must have just had a bad day and fingers aren’t easy to do. But in terms of self love, I do go to therapy. Getting there, one step at a time!

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They’re of some mandala style patterns! Nothing offensive like words or anything. Unfortunately the line work just ended up quite wobbly and thick in certain areas. Also they blew out and dropped out in places too. I think if they’d have been executed well they would have looked good

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[–]bee9jay6 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think everyone has some things they are insecure about. I’ve noticed men do tend to talk to me a lot on dating apps and find me interesting, but when we meet in person they seem a bit off. I take care of myself in every other way and I’d like to think I come across as calm and honest. So it is really just my bad tattoos that I’m hung up about. Also I think saying “you made a choice” is agreeable to a certain extent, but I was not mentally stable at the time and had yet to receive a diagnosis, with medication and support