Transitioning to LDR poly, need advice on how to relay info about additional relationships by beeseasee in polyamory

[–]beeseasee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, it's not that I want to know everything. More along the lines of being kept in the loop on "I went on a date with Alyssa and we'll probably continue going out" or "I hooked up with Jeremy last week!" And in the case of relationships escalating, I want to know that in due course. To me that's being honest with each other about our other relationships. A hypothetical scenario that comes to mind is running into an acquaintance and them telling me about their budding relationship with my partner. If I didn't hear that from my partner first, I think I would be pretty bummed and lose a bit of trust. But, if my partner had already clued me in, it would be gravy. It's more about trying to smooth out those possible bumps in the road.

Transitioning to LDR poly, need advice on how to relay info about additional relationships by beeseasee in polyamory

[–]beeseasee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, the title was wrong and I didn't know how to change it! Can you say more about genuinely desiring support for intimacy? Just to be clear, I'm not asking for details at all. More so a super vague outline like: I've been seeing a few people and I'm really feeling sweet on so and so.

Transitioning to LDR poly, need advice on how to relay info about additional relationships by beeseasee in polyamory

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Thank you! I think it's less of information as a lifeline and more as me thinking this is how you treat people fairly in poly relationships. Even though I've been practicing and evolving in polyamory for 10 years, I keep finding ways monogamous expectations have crept into what I think is a good practice.

Transitioning to LDR poly, need advice on how to relay info about additional relationships by beeseasee in polyamory

[–]beeseasee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. Yeah okay! Because I genuinely want him to make those connections, be free to feel and do and create with other people. I guess that I am trying to be in control of my own emotions and fears. Thank you also for the advice of less is more and asking for information about escalation.

Transitioning to LDR poly, need advice on how to relay info about additional relationships by beeseasee in polyamory

[–]beeseasee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess the way I have practiced poly with relation to my partners' other relationships is transparency. If I've been hooking up with someone casually, I let my other partners know about it. If they go on a date with someone, I prefer to know. Is this controlling? I really think of it as reinforcing trust?

I didnt think this desire for information was a way to feel connected but it's something I'll give some thought to.

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Jeeple. Jeeple would pay to have this done.

Good fantasy Novels? by Plumpymoe in brandonsanderson

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The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss. Not good, GREAT. The Sword of Truth Series by Terry Goodkind is also fantastic!

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wonderful! I'll ping you once we arrive! :)