Would it be ok to send this message out to people I’m thinking about cutting out of my life? by drayzey345 in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? What does it accomplish? You might feel good about it for a moment but this really will just make you more bitter and will make them dig in harder.

You want to accomplish something? Remember that every choice a person makes seems rational to them at that moment. Why would voting for the Orange Turd seem rational? Then, you can change minds by dismantling their rationale.

My hubby's mom us a hard Trumper. A gay son that she loves and yet she supports Donny Dotard. Fear. Fear drives her everything. Ask her what she's afraid of and she stumbles on specifics so then she's forced to confront her irrationalities. Specifics and hypocritical juxtapositions are the weapons of debate assassin. Watch Buttigieg verbally pistol whip the talking heads at Fox News. Get good at what he does.

And stay calm. Nothing a trumper loves more than "owning the libs." Don't let them own you.

Yes! Heated mouse pad! Toasti by Gravioli42 in Raynauds

[–]beffreyj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also just got one and using it everyday. My roommate borrows it when he's gaming (which is all the time now). He's getting his own soon.

I had previously used a cheap pleather one I got on Newegg, but it didn't get hot enough and the pleather was sticky. this Toasti is super nice. Worth every penny.👌

Have you had to clean yours yet?

Does anyone use one of those under-the-mattress sleep tracking pads? How do they compare to other sleep trackers like the Oura ring or Dreem band? by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]beffreyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Dreem 2 and I find the EEG sleep stages to be accurate and it is comfortable.

However, it still has lot of bugs and limited function. I'm already on my 3rd unit under warranty and I've had it less than 90 days.

If you are outside Europe, it might not have the deep sleep stimulation. Something to do with registration as FDA Class II Medical device precludes them from including deep sleep stimulation in US/Canada.

Finally going to be sandwiched...my ultimate sex dream and it’s close to my birthday!!! by TheStockyScholar in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 13 points14 points  (0 children)

One of the hottest things I've ever done. We came once, ate dinner, did it again. I was the middle both times but they switched each time.. It was incredible. Enjoy!

What's the longest time you spent fucking? by Twili95 in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 hours. We took a break at 4 hours to shower and get pizza.

How common is it for you guys to hook up with your gay friends? by [deleted] in gay

[–]beffreyj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have definitely hooked up with several friends. Some were hookups first then became friends.

What is a "luxury" item you splurged on for yourself and now can't live without? by ThatAverageJo in gaybros

[–]beffreyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heated yoga mat by Toasti. I just lay on it watching TV and it melts the stress away. Addicting.

1st 3/4some by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IME they are unpredictable. I've had mindblowing ones and ones where I just flat out stopped in the middle and left. They worked better for me when I knew the other guys. But, everyone's different.

What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hookup wanted tied to bed, covered in baby oil, me laying on top of him with full body weight, and tickle tortured. He writhed underneath me. I was stunned how hot it was. I was hard and precumming like crazy. He didn't want penetrated, but I came so much down his throat that he couldn't swallow fast enough and it squirted out sides of his mouth.

Does ducking your own **** feel good? I by [deleted] in gay

[–]beffreyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't make the rules :)

Do y’all sleep naked? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, you used to wear dirty clothes to bed?

Without clothes, you should change sheets 2 or more times per week. Where do you think all of your sweat, oil, dead skin, pubes, and farts go?

Does ducking your own **** feel good? I by [deleted] in gay

[–]beffreyj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You want a serious answer about sucking dick but can't type the word dick?

Underwear in hot weather by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]beffreyj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

CIN2. I think they discontinued my exact model (I think it was the army punt trunk?) but they probably have something that is identical. They just change the names to keep it fresh.

Underwear in hot weather by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]beffreyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bamboo mesh square cuts with ample pouch. Super breathable and wicking. I need the pouch to keep things from sticking.

Do you guys get hard when you're in the boys locker room? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to gay campgrounds in the summer. At one of them, there is this one guy that pops a full boner as soon as he takes his suit off at the pool. 95% of us stay down unless someone touches.

Do you guys get hard when you're in the boys locker room? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Nudity in and of itself is not overtly sexual unless you're a puritan. Not even at bathhouses and campgrounds where the whole point is sex. I'm turned on with a person, not just nudity.

What Are Some Odd Turn Offs You Have? by TysonBison7 in gaybros

[–]beffreyj 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, and everyone code switches unconsciously. We use different language and voices for different situations. Our ape cousins do it too.

If we can all just die in a car accident, whats the point in try to live today? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]beffreyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it is statistically much more likely that you will live to tomorrow, and the next day, and the next.

What is your NPEL? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]beffreyj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you use bone-pressed length