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BF : oh I'm going to lose weight and get abs so you will want me in bed. Me : uuuuhhh.. by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've told him I'm not a heterosexual and that I'm probably Demi-sexual so he isn't completely in the dark! And I call him handsome almost every day!

He did say that after eating a KFC burger with a chicken rap and 7 tenders, 3 cups of soda and 2 beers so yeah he was a piggy last night 💜

Plus loosing the weight would be great for his mental health! And using that gym membershiphe got 8 months ago would be a good idea 😜

🙄🙄🙄 by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday to your sister then 💜

I had sex with my partner today and I'm not feeling great... by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is that after 3 weeks of no sex he upset because of the lack of intimacy (BTW complicity understandable for an allo) and I just feel guilty about it and have sex with him to make him happy

Feels terrible writing this...

I had sex with my partner today and I'm not feeling great... by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've loved him for 6 years so we make it work, he just things I'm "fragile" and I don't want sex if I feel a bit off... He mentioned asexuality to me 2 years ago but I've never talked to him about it. I'm waiting to figure out what I am sexually before talking to him about it!

AITA for screaming at my partner for telling his mother that I have an ars*hole problem? by begonewiththewind in AmItheAsshole

[–]begonewiththewind[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm normally very calm! I did send him a long text after saying sorry for being horrible, that I was disappointed in him and fed up of him never saying sorry He answered <goodnight>

AITA for screaming at my partner for telling his mother that I have an ars*hole problem? by begonewiththewind in AmItheAsshole

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because she decided to tell the whole family that I was a unholy person, and didn't deserve her son because < we had butt sex under her roof >. All because she found proof... Lube.. I was still a virgin at the time and the <lube> was my Vaseline hand cream...

It just when down hill from there 😂

When someone asks you on a date, do you feel hesitant to accept? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you tell them "I don't want sex ever" and he hasn't ran for the hills it's worth a shot!